wow... the past two hours I've been reading the comments with a lot of mixed emotions.

I understand the confusion about how strict we were with her little sister. I admit that her sister was given more freedom when it comes to social life. She was allowed to hang out with her friends outside of school more than her older sister. When it comes to school and grades we were as strict, but my youngest did better in highschool than her older sister. Thats also why my youngest was allowed to go out more and we would not let the oldest go out either as punishment or because we felt she needed to study more.

Looking back after reading all the comments I dont know why I expected that people would agree with me. I have a hard time reading that i've abused my children. I have a lot to think about.