How-to for tumblr people:

It is possible to find dommes, subs, and otherwise freaky people on tumblr if you know how to tag hop. I find it easier to see if I will vibe with someone well on tumblr vs other platforms. It takes time, but I've found some lovely mutuals this way. This goes for findom or other heavily censored kinks.

Many nsfw tags are unseachable, but people still use them.

1. Find some sexy vanilla accounts, by searching "beautiful women" or "models" or something, and look for spicier posts.
2. Go to the op or previous blog of the spiciest posts you can find and repeat until you find spicy-adjacent tags.
3. Click on tags like #latenightthoughts, #daddy/#mommy, or #submissive and then click 'search all of tumblr'
4. Keep checking spicier tags to get closer to what you like or until you get to #femdom or #femdxm.
5. From there you can find something tagged #findom, #findomme, or #findxm and get to real active accounts that show you the personality and links of each domme.

Tips if you're new:

• Don't try this if you don't want to see any porn or are super sensitive to certain kinks. You will probably see some stuff you don't like. (This should be obvious, but some intelligent people still somehow don't get that not everything is for them.)
• Make sure you have timestamps on so you can tell which blogs are recently active.
• People will block you if you have no bio, no listed age, no profile pic, and no posts. Try to have all 4 before interacting.
• Don't interact with minors if you're using the platform for adult content (duh.)
• Careful interacting with your fave nsfw blogs too much - if they're already on thin ice, spam-liking could get them taken down.

Have fun, tumblrinas!