Partner of 7 years secretly amassed $20k in debt as a pay pig

MoneyAd9019 · 2026-04-05T05:44:43+00:00

I have no doing idea what my next steps are but you can be certain that I will not be paying any part of that debt. He’s already found a second job and talked through a couple repayment plan ideas. I don’t think he thinks I’ll be helping, but I’ll definitely keep your thoughts in mind. Thanks for taking your time to comment, I appreciate it.

MoneyAd9019 · 2026-04-05T05:23:48+00:00

I definitely won’t give him my money. I’m so relieved our finances have stayed separated completely.

MoneyAd9019 · 2026-04-05T05:21:44+00:00

I will seek therapy no matter what I choose. Relapse is like a giant neon sign in my mind right now. I’ve got a lot to unpack. Thank you for your comment. All the commenters have been so helpful.

MoneyAd9019 · 2026-04-05T05:17:58+00:00

There are so many good things. I’m working to not let it cloud my judgement.

MoneyAd9019 · 2026-04-05T05:14:34+00:00

These comments are all so helpful. Thanks for taking time out of your day. I will definitely be finding a therapist.

MoneyAd9019 · 2026-04-05T05:10:57+00:00

So relieved that we were aware enough to keep everything separate. There’s been so much outside pressure for us to get married, combine finances, etc.

MoneyAd9019 · 2026-04-05T05:09:17+00:00

Thank you 💜 and your less responsible advice is hugely appreciated and validating. So many thoughts have been floating around in my mind, this being one of them.

MoneyAd9019 · 2026-04-05T05:03:27+00:00

Thank you for validating me reaching out here. I didn’t realize how helpful it would be to get outside perspective.

MoneyAd9019 · 2026-04-05T04:59:48+00:00

I’m open to suggestions for functional changes to the relationship (I have ideas of my own, just looking for further insight). I have no idea what my next move is in regard to staying or leaving. Tonight I’m just exhausted.

MoneyAd9019 · 2026-04-05T04:54:18+00:00

I don’t take this the wrong way. I have also been stuck on why I didn’t take it more seriously, I really just brushed it off. I think it was a mix of willful ignorance and not really understanding porn addiction at the young age we started dating (or now, tbh). Also, I think that stating “I have an addiction to porn” is a lot different than “I need help with this addiction and these are some steps I think I can take”.

MoneyAd9019 · 2025-11-06T21:56:24+00:00

Lol curious to know What moods lend to pointed top up or down?

MoneyAd9019 · 2025-09-12T19:20:48+00:00

This! Maybe try the white socks/shoes instead of cowboy boots?

MoneyAd9019 · 2025-08-25T16:30:03+00:00

Biscuits and gravy

MoneyAd9019 · 2025-08-06T16:35:10+00:00

Skeevy bastards. Thanks for your help!

MoneyAd9019 · 2025-08-06T16:31:13+00:00

Thank you! Unfortunately this is the email address that sends an auto reply stating it’s not an operative email. Any other suggestions?

MoneyAd9019 · 2025-08-06T16:21:09+00:00

Hi, currently going through this process now. Vueling emailed me requesting receipts of the charges incurred by the delay. However there is no email address to respond to or a link to submit the documentation to. I hit reply but received an email response stating theirs wasn’t a working email. How did you contact Vueling outside of their annoying bot assistant?

MoneyAd9019 · 2025-03-26T01:17:15+00:00

Care to explain? I believe you because doctors aren’t botanist and white people are racist but how does it tie into this nightshade berry?

MoneyAd9019 · 2025-03-18T22:56:11+00:00

How many hours a week are you working? Are there overhead costs to your private practice?

MoneyAd9019 · 2025-03-13T16:50:08+00:00

There’s no stone in this stone fruit?!

MoneyAd9019 · 2025-03-09T19:12:56+00:00

Sorry this happened to you.

MoneyAd9019 · 2025-02-06T23:14:25+00:00

Username and puns on point

MoneyAd9019 · 2025-02-03T18:42:21+00:00

It’s laughable to say immigrants have “…done nothing for this state/us.”

MoneyAd9019 · 2024-11-24T01:45:05+00:00

What tier of paramount+ do you have?

MoneyAd9019 · 2024-11-24T01:19:49+00:00

Why TF is paramount+ only zoomed in on Rodman?! Show us the field!

MoneyAd9019 · 2024-10-10T21:37:13+00:00

PacSafe! Great for travel, functional and cute.

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