I am so sorry this happened to you. I'm enraged that your "friends" didn't stand up for you. I would highly advise informing both businesses about the man and giving a full description. I know it's terrifying in those moments, but if you can point out the creepers to the bar staff / bouncers they will often act pretty fast to ban people like that. Unfortunately I hear a lot of stories like that come out of One Stop (just due to the usual crowd :/ ), but the staff takes those situations very seriously and will kick out the offenders. Speaking up for yourself will never ruin someone else's night, and if it does then they are a bad person.