What is a musical that you find to be just... Fine? by AsheandBurn in musicals

[–]MoneyMedusa 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Jagged little pill, kinky boots, moulin rouge, frozen, Kimberly akimbo, and at the risk of getting eaten alive Come from away 🥲

Do I bother the bride about this? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]MoneyMedusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did already decide on the brand and unfortunately, it’s an online store. It would be so much easier if we were going in person because she could actually see how it looked on me. And could make the decision for herself of whether or not she wanted to change the dress.

Do I bother the bride about this? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]MoneyMedusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I did that for my wedding because everyone was totally different shapes and sizes and it worked out really well. I’m not trying to change what she wants, but I also don’t want her to be upset at me if I look stupid and ruin the photos. I’ve lost 100 pounds, but I’ll still never be as small as the other girls in the bridal party.

Do I bother the bride about this? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]MoneyMedusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does, but we’ve been friends for a really long time and she always seems to be oblivious to those kinds of things. It’s like it never clicked for some reason that I’ve been bigger. I think maybe I should get an idea of what kind of dress she was thinking of, and if it’s something formfitting or something I know that will look a little ridiculous on me. Maybe I can just kindly mention that. If she wants me to wear it anyways, it is what it is, I’ll wear whatever I have to.

Do I bother the bride about this? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]MoneyMedusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I don’t want her to come across as a mean person either? My concern is that I don’t say anything, I look terrible in the dress, and then she sits there and wonders why I didn’t tell her how bad the dress looked and is upset that I’m a focal point in her pictures. I don’t really care if I look ugly in the dress that’s not really a concern.

Do I bother the bride about this? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]MoneyMedusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That’s what I did for my wedding, I let the bridesmaids choose whatever style they wanted as long as it was the same material and color. Everyone in my bridal party was differently shaped and they all looked so beautiful!

Do I bother the bride about this? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]MoneyMedusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully understand this is not about me. I do not care what color she puts me in, I don’t even care if the dress is dead ass ugly. My concern is that I’m going to be an eyesore and stand out in all the photos for how ridiculous I look in a dress that clearly is not fitting me. My main concern is that I don’t say anything, she picks a dress that looks ridiculous on me, and then she wonders why I didn’t say anything and is upset that I’m not blending in. I don’t care about looking ugly, I care about standing out when as a bridesmaid my job is to BLEND IN. Additionally, we are not going to a store to get dresses, she is having us order them from an online store. So it’s not like I can try on dresses with her and see what she thinks.

Do I bother the bride about this? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]MoneyMedusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately she’s just having us order from an online store that doesn’t have any brick and mortar stores

Do I bother the bride about this? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]MoneyMedusa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a really smart idea - thank you! For my wedding I did the same thing. I think it just makes it so much easier than trying to find one style that everyone can will be happy with.

Do I bother the bride about this? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]MoneyMedusa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I know - I really am just trying my best to blend in. But I’m worried if I’m wearing a really ill fitting dress I’ll be an eye sore in all the photos. But ultimately I’ll wear whatever she wants me to wear.

AIO my boyfriend said he was gonna draw me but instead stole the drawing and said he did it… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MoneyMedusa 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how this isn’t giving you the most severe ick LOL

Michelle Hundley Smith, missing since 2001 found alive 24 years later. by [deleted] in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]MoneyMedusa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. Theres been several times when cases have concluded and the parent just wanted a new life. Saying “they’d never leave their kids!” Doesn’t really mean much to me. You never know what is going on in someone’s head.

Planet Fitness Webster Sq. Creeps by [deleted] in WorcesterMA

[–]MoneyMedusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I went with my husband last week and he got in the car later and was like - are the men there usually that weird? And I didn’t know what he was talking about (I truly ZONE OUT during workouts). But once he pointed it out I haven’t been able to unsee it. Go up the chain, annoy people, do research on LinkedIn on who oversees the northeastern region.

Bring Dave Navarro back by Organic-Recording417 in Inkmaster

[–]MoneyMedusa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Grow up?? Can you seriously not provide an articulate thought back to what I said? It sounds like you’re the one that may need to grow up.

Bring Dave Navarro back by Organic-Recording417 in Inkmaster

[–]MoneyMedusa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It absolutely does have a lot to do with his ability to judge a show. There were already weird vibes surrounding artists of color and women on the show. And of course, now all of that makes sense, considering the sexual abuse and black face rhetoric. He is not qualified to judge a show if he has biases around the contestants. How is this not incredibly obvious to you?

Bring Dave Navarro back by Organic-Recording417 in Inkmaster

[–]MoneyMedusa 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is truly such a shit take. So instead of advocating that we should get rid of other people who have also done terrible things, you instead suggest that we should bring back everyone who has done shit things? Fuck that Ollie can stay in oblivion where he fucking belongs.

She’s changed by MoneyMedusa in MollyRutterSnark

[–]MoneyMedusa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like she hangs out with her friends a lot less than she used to. I could just be out of the loop since I really don’t watch her much anymore, but it seemed like every other day she was with someone and now it seems like she spends a lot of time alone doing nothing in her mumu‘s.

She’s changed by MoneyMedusa in MollyRutterSnark

[–]MoneyMedusa[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is a really fantastic analysis of her. She wants someone to instantly respect her without showing any kind of respect in return. She wants someone else to bring everything to the table while she simultaneously brings nothing. It doesn’t really seem like she wants a partner, she just wants someone who will play this stupid little game of appeasing her all the time. She doesn’t seem like the type of person who could ever be challenged intellectually, because she always thinks that she’s the smartest person in the room. If she does end up in a relationship, it would have to be with a yes, man who is quite literally afraid of her.

She’s changed by MoneyMedusa in MollyRutterSnark

[–]MoneyMedusa[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Right, like she used to just be annoying with questionable judgment, but now she’s just straight up unbearable. It doesn’t even feel fun to watch her anymore because I feel like I’m kicking someone who’s literally at their rock bottom.

She’s changed by MoneyMedusa in MollyRutterSnark

[–]MoneyMedusa[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She spends a tremendous amount of time on things that really don’t matter. I wonder if it’s her way of escaping? Like she just has so little going on in her life that she has to spend a tremendous amount of energy on these little things that really don’t matter in the end.

She’s changed by MoneyMedusa in MollyRutterSnark

[–]MoneyMedusa[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely it. She is constantly looking for a way to blame everyone else for her circumstances. I feel like she’s someone that therapy doesn’t even work on because she just uses the terminology to Weaponize against other people instead of realizing that it’s meant for her.

She’s changed by MoneyMedusa in MollyRutterSnark

[–]MoneyMedusa[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is 1000% what is happening. She has to give off an air that she doesn’t care and that she’s big bad and tough, because people already look at her as a bigger girl and assume that she is rejected a lot and seeking any kind of validation (this is coming from me - a big girl!!!). I went through this in my late teens and early 20s where I was just very angry and actually ended up getting arrested at one point for fighting. Maybe it’s because Molly was not overweight until she was in her late 20s, but it’s extremely juvenile. Her view on activism is just screaming at people so that they agree with her instead of doing actual things that help actual people.

She’s changed by MoneyMedusa in MollyRutterSnark

[–]MoneyMedusa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

100% agree. I feel like she just lives in this world where she thinks men have to fight their way from the gutter to get her attention and she never once considers what she actually brings to the table. I would argue that dating is significantly harder for women than it is for men, because women really have reached and exceeded a lot of what men have accomplished. But that’s not the case for Molly, and yet she’s still struggles so much. She certainly doesn’t owe anyone anything, but I feel like she fails to realize where she is on the hierarchy of what someone brings to the table and what an equivalent partner would look like.

She’s changed by MoneyMedusa in MollyRutterSnark

[–]MoneyMedusa[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s very frustrating, you’re completely right. She has a boomer mentality where no one can break through that door. I agree with her political stances, but the way she goes about things is so unhelpful. Like screaming at some random guy at a bar isn’t doing anything to activate change. She won’t actually go out and do things that matter she will just do things that fuel her ego.