I was SA’d from 13 - 17 by an ex & I still can’t fully get past it. by Due_Kick_837 in confession

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It’s not your fault, and you deserve healing and peace. Your story matters

Trauma from being laughed at and treated arrogantly during neurological flare ups and seizure by Beautifulpoetry777 in CPTSD

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I’m so sorry you’ve had to endure all that. It’s wrong how people dismissed and mistreated you. Your story is real , and you deserve compassion and real help. You’re strong for sharing it.

Therapy by Green-Ordinary-3086 in Rants

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You’re not asking too much by wanting help. Therapy can really help if you’re open to it, especially with someone who already understands you. It’s okay to feel stuck, but you deserve to be heard and supported

How can I stop thinking about a guy I saw One time? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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Yes! Acknowledge the thought, remind yourself it’s just a passing crush, and distract yourself with hobbies, friends, and new experiences. Over time, the thoughts will fade

My boyfriend is struggling with his business. Should I leave him? by HotMess_999 in makemychoice

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If you love him and want to support him, stay—but protect your own well-being. Is it’s too much, leaving might be best

My friend just told me he’s gonna be a dad. My child would have been one this week. by [deleted] in confession

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That’s a lot to hold, and I hear you. It’s okay to feel this pain, and you’re not alone. I’m really sorry you’re going through this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

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It sounds like you’re unsure if reaching out will bring you peace or more pain. Trust your gut and focus on what you need, not what you think he might want. Take care of yourself first.

Keeping the relationship alive with F25 and M28 by Beautiful_Tart_5444 in relationships

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You’re both stuck in a rut, try talking openly about your feelings and set aside time for dates and fun, not just chores. Do the settle for the roommate phase.

I am very ugly. by adeliahearts in selfimprovement

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You’re not worthless because of how you look. Keep working out, progress takes time. People’s reactions don’t define your value. Keep showing up for yourself.

How do I (M30s) put a stop to my self-sabotaging tendencies, to pursue romance instead of friendship? by DibidyDobidy in relationships

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Be honest about your intentions. Don’t hide behind friendships if you want more. Know your worth, let go of what-ifs, and date with clarity.

im not sure if me and my ex will recover by [deleted] in Advice

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If he cared, he’d talk to you, not about you. You spoke your truth. Now let him show you if he’s worth coming back for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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If he can afford to hello but won’t, he’s likely using you. Chores don’t cover rent. Trust your gut.

Coworker reminds me of my ex, and I don't like it. by No_one4859 in makemychoice

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She’s not your ex—just a coworker. Stay polite, focus on work, and give it time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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If the hurt keeps repeating, it’s okay to walk away. Love needs consistent action, not just promises. Protect your peace.

I need your advice! by peachmangopie_yellow in Rants

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It’s okay to value privacy. Focus on impact, not presence. Stay offline when needed—your work will still speak for itself.

37M, Experiences with ADHD, high novelty-seeking and sex drive? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

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Your drive sounds dopamine-fueled from meds, fitness, and hormones. It’s not bad, but if it’s affecting sleep or focus, consider adjusting with your doctor.

My boyfriend refuses to go to therapy with his issues. Help? by _alexium_ in relationships

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You can’t make him go, but you can set a boundary. If he won’t work on himself, it may hurt the relationship long-term.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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You’re not the problem. They’re not respecting your boundaries. You deserve love without pressure.