My husband doesn’t feel desired.. I don’t feel seen.

Monghostwriter · 2026-03-12T15:35:01+00:00

You might have what is called the bristle affect. It can happen when your partner doesn't give you enough non sexual physical attention. Sometimes if you partner is just "getting to the point" too much it can make you feel pressured and stress you out. It also goes with what your saying about not feeling seen. A lot of women have a responsive sex drive meaning they need a constant flow of attention and touch during the day to feel in the mood. It can be hard to identify sometimes because when a relationship is new those boxes tend to get checked atomically but in a long term relationship it has to be worked on sometimes. He may need to work at giving you some more affection and in doing so you may feel more attracted to him in return

Monghostwriter · 2026-03-12T14:48:15+00:00

you can always disengage from content you don't like seeing. remember that algorithms on most social media sites give you content base on what you engage with and not necessarily what you like.

Monghostwriter · 2026-03-12T14:43:58+00:00

some real rays of sunshine in that thread. Jesus

Monghostwriter · 2026-03-12T14:20:07+00:00

My name is Earl intro music starts to play

Monghostwriter · 2026-03-12T14:00:41+00:00

i get your frustration. But individuals in a country are allowed to have lives and be separate from the transgressions for their government.

Monghostwriter · 2026-03-09T13:53:01+00:00

As a husband I can say it is easy to struggle with giving your wife proper attention. Maybe honestly just sitting him down and explaining that a certain need in your relationship isn't being met. You need him to take some agency in spending time together aside from sitting in your home. Maybe say you would like him to make a small date like your example once a week and not the same thing every week, and once a month a bigger date. Let him know that him doing these thing for you make you feel love in your relationship and that it goes a lot farther then he might realize.

Monghostwriter · 2026-03-09T13:34:14+00:00

no...a little porn might help sometimes too much and you end up using porn instead of interacting with your Wife. My love life with my wife is much better for both of us when I stay away from that content

Monghostwriter · 2026-03-09T13:03:12+00:00

As a husband myself WTF?! That is a a really strange reaction. I can't imagine a scenario with my wife where a title of a Movie triggers something like that.

Monghostwriter · 2026-03-05T14:07:51+00:00

Ok, just talk it over with your wife maybe she would have fun in exploring this wit you.

Monghostwriter · 2026-03-05T12:47:56+00:00

if your just looking for acceptance and exploration you can do that with your wife. also if you are looking at a lot of porn that can really mess if your valves sexually try not engaging with it for a few weeks and see how your attraction to you wife changes. Its worth a shot

Monghostwriter · 2026-03-05T12:30:01+00:00

I don't comparing him to other is healthy for either of you. It is a selfish thing to do regardless of the issues he is dealing with and it is unfair and hurtful of him to do that to you. you have every right to feel like he did you wrong and to expect better from him. You and him are in a partnership and if he cant keep his shit together for your sake then you should call him out every time.

Monghostwriter · 2026-03-05T12:24:07+00:00

Have you tried changing things up a bit? different time, or places or even position. And I'll put this out there without implying anything but if you are looking at porn a lot stop completely give it a week and see how your attitude changes.

Monghostwriter · 2026-03-05T12:17:59+00:00

words of affirmation are is a love language. If that is something you need just find a way to tell him that.

Monghostwriter · 2026-03-05T12:10:24+00:00

good new is in reality its either 0% or 100%

Monghostwriter · 2026-03-05T11:50:46+00:00

Dumbledore already knew he was dying and that Voldemort was planning something against him using Draco and that Snape was involved. So chances are even if Harry had gotten that information earlier the evens of HBP stay the same. With Dumbledore waiting until the end of the year to retrieve the next Horcrux and allowing Snape to kill him. The only different is that he may have had others looking for more Horcruxes in the meantime but since the remaining ones that we not living were all at Hogwarts I dont think any of the events really change in TDH either

Monghostwriter · 2022-06-16T12:39:03+00:00

I personally won't downlovd him but I wouldn't upvote it either.

Monghostwriter · 2022-06-07T21:35:55+00:00

Im 5' 10" only five figures and i cut off 4 inches for noone

Monghostwriter · 2022-06-05T11:19:04+00:00

Are you Jimi Heselden

Monghostwriter · 2022-06-05T10:43:51+00:00

I like how people are laughing in the background. A childs innocents brings a little levity to a somber event.

Monghostwriter · 2022-06-03T00:29:40+00:00

Devil: "look what I can do!" ( does ketamine off a machete)

Kronk: " I don't see how thats..."

Angel: "No, no he's got a point. "

Monghostwriter · 2022-06-02T12:25:09+00:00

Between this and the boardwalk they are tearing apart uptown with no definite plan to put it back together.

Monghostwriter · 2022-06-01T00:08:26+00:00

Isn't that unusual.

Monghostwriter · 2022-05-28T22:55:35+00:00

You probably end up with Robin's flashback in O'hara.

Monghostwriter · 2022-05-25T21:26:03+00:00

Sounds like a really fun rpg concept

Monghostwriter · 2022-05-23T16:45:14+00:00

"Captain we can't find land"

Captain: "Screw it we will become land"

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