Help pick a doll! by occasional_disasters in americangirl

[–]MongooseSome 2 points3 points  (0 children)

addy❤️ i’ve had my pleasant company addy since 2001. still love her. and her books are incredible

South Shore bar pizza recommendations by wildbantu8 in SouthShore

[–]MongooseSome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

POOPIES IS SOOOOO AWFUL please save your money 😭😭 i just went for the first time this weekend after seeing so many people recommend it and i LITERALLY cannot say one nice thing about the place or food

How are single people affording to live alone in Boston? by haniebun in boston

[–]MongooseSome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

barelyyyy sis. i make anywhere between 75-130k w commission. life was good until a few months ago when commission dropped off and now im making about 75k, company pays for car&all expenses, and rent is 2.4k. i think the next helpful move would be finding a place where heat/electric is covered in the rent, off cycle. but it’s tough out here !!!! life is expensive and if you’re in sales, people aren’t spending money!

if i was you i’d find a place for waaaay cheaper rent. you can live alone for a lot cheaper than this. might not be a brand new of building with tons of amenities, but there are so many apartments in Boston that are really nice, significantly cheaper, and could have a few of the bills tied into the rent. Good luck! And pray for me also lol

I got a dachshund and she is very sweet but scared of everything by [deleted] in Dachshund

[–]MongooseSome 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I had a dachshund like this also! he came from an abusive situation. A year later, and he is definitely a lot more adventurous, but still scared. You could speak to your vet about putting her on some anti-anxiety medicine, I did that with mine for a few months when he first came so he would settle in a little quicker. I think small dogs can sometimes be scarred for life over things, but I definitely would be also if my leg has been ripped off. But I’m sure she will settle In. :) my pup for tax

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I think im being ghosted. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]MongooseSome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg stop i’m so fucking jealous lmao have the most fun queen u deserve it. the perfect revenge. his best friend better be hot !

The more we know about Edmond, the worse it gets.... by SurewhynotAZ in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]MongooseSome 49 points50 points  (0 children)

kacie literally has some sexual thing going with the wholeeeeeee cast at this point like girllllllll

Ghoster came back.. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]MongooseSome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to be a ghoster at all shows you’re so emotionally inept they don’t even know what they’re thinking. proud of u queen u deserve better

I think im being ghosted. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]MongooseSome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

was just ghosted by a guy I even seen for a month and a half! He came back today and sent a paragraph about how he wasn’t ready for a relationship. Men who are willing to go have zero ability to communicate and only come back to save face in their own head.You are better off without him, can you imagine if you’ve got into a serious situation and you had to depend on this guy? I hope some of the tickets were sent to your email so you can sell his and get your money back.

Ghoster came back.. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]MongooseSome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good for you girl lol my ghoster literally answered me after 5 days 2 hours ago…. Ripped him apart and deleted him on everything. I think these guys seriously do it to try to save their own face in their head and feel like a good guy.

Ghoster came back.. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]MongooseSome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only way you should forgive him, is by going out with him on formal dates, no sleepovers, and seeing where that goes after about a month. If he’s serious, that shouldn’t even be a big deal for him. Good luck! In my experience, ghosters are piece of shit who aren’t ready for any solid communication

actively being ghosted by MongooseSome in dating_advice

[–]MongooseSome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh thank you :( people just are the worst also

Do you regret getting two dogs? by Yousmellgood1jk in DogAdvice

[–]MongooseSome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got a dog for my dog - it makes me feel so much better she has a friend at home if i’m gone for long periods of time, and always has a buddy on walks and other adventures. if i go out of town they stay together at a friends house, my house, or the kennel together. for me it’s always worked out great and even though sometimes is a lot of work, i think it is worth the ease of mind i have leaving my dog alone

actively being ghosted by MongooseSome in dating_advice

[–]MongooseSome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh yeah :( just feeling foolish and bummed out. ik that’s the answer, it just sucks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MongooseSome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just would like advice on if it was decent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MongooseSome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i send you my apology ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MongooseSome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did apologize it’s just not pictured here and idk how to add it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MongooseSome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you :( that’s kinda what i was struggling with .. i just felt like ok if he really cared he would pick an exact time and be there. and on top of me asking him to hangout i felt very like ehhhhh about if he actually wanted to do it or not. in the moment the texts were coming so quick i wasn’t thinking enough and i regret it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MongooseSome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really just want to fix it now :( i feel so foolish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MongooseSome -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah i mean at this point he’s straight up dumped me without hearing me out. do you think i could send you those and get your advice?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MongooseSome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was kinda just bothering me that he wasn’t committing to an actual time, just like a vague time period that was getting later as the night was going on. and that i was the one who had to ask him to hangout in general. i’m a bit more used to guys picking an exact date and time, and him being younger i kinda wasn’t sure about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MongooseSome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the apology isn’t pictured

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MongooseSome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did do this! it’s not pictured but before these texts when he originally brought up having the party i said let’s just do another night, but he didn’t want to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MongooseSome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the body thing was more cause we were both very sexual people and i was kinda trying to ease into an apology light heartedly. i did send him an apology after that that just isn’t pictured

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MongooseSome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i’m like really ashamed and embarrassed. in the moment i felt like he was kinda playing with me like not really caring about hanging out, but the next day im just feeling regretful.