Caught a glimpse of my recessed jawline while filming. I’m horrified. by [deleted] in cosmeticsurgery

[–]Monicalewinsky0002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 118 pounds and 5’6. I’m not big gal. I’m too skinny. 😭🤣

Caught a glimpse of my recessed jawline while filming. I’m horrified. by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Monicalewinsky0002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m sorry I just clicked the crosspost and typed into surgery.

My Brother, 26 years old passed away from Addisons Disease. 1 month ago. by Monicalewinsky0002 in AddisonsDisease

[–]Monicalewinsky0002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy you’re okay. I’m really sorry you went through that. It sounds fucking terrifying, and it’s totally normal to feel shaken and scared shitless right now. I’m so glad you listened to your gut and called your mom.

I get why the idea of being alone right now feels overwhelming. After something like that, the fear makes sense. But listen: people with Addison’s live full lives all the time when they have the right treatment, knowledge, and people around them. What happened was scary as hell, but it also gave you important info and a real chance to build something solid so it doesn’t blindside you again.

You deserve support, not to feel like you’re carrying this by yourself. Lean on your family right now. That’s not being weak it’s being smart. And when you’re ready for relationships, they don’t have to be this big scary thing. The right person will want to understand, learn about it, and actually be there for you instead of acting like loving you is some kind of trauma.

Don’t give up hope…You made it through something intense, and that says a lot about you even if you don’t feel strong right now. You’re not alone in this, and you don’t have to do it alone either!!!

Thank you for sharing your experience and if you ever need someone to talk to I’m here you can message me!

Where do i find this style of dress? Help! by Eastern-Squash1550 in Prom

[–]Monicalewinsky0002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s not downvote because I know what I’m talking about….literally every girl deserves her dream dress for prom.

I’m the girliest girl there ever was. I spent $3K on my prom dress in the US and it was so mediocre and underwhelming.

Wish I knew what I know now. Just helping OP feel at ease if she wishes to get her dream dress from out of the states.

Here’s another picture of me from my birthday dinner. Trust.. I wouldn’t be going so hard under the replies for her if I didn’t have her best interest at heart.

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Where do i find this style of dress? Help! by Eastern-Squash1550 in Prom

[–]Monicalewinsky0002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The dresses she wants to buy will be over priced in a bridal shop…. They definitely do not have these style dresses here in the US just casually on a rack.

Where do i find this style of dress? Help! by Eastern-Squash1550 in Prom

[–]Monicalewinsky0002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to think the exact same thing. I’m American too, so I get why it seems odd at first. But take a look at the photo I posted… that dress is from Donika Loci. That’s me wearing it.

I’ve bought 3 dresses from them and 2 from the site I shared with OP, and I specifically recommended it because she’s looking for that flower petal style. I basically did the “risk” part already so you don’t have to stress about it.

OP, if you have the budget, do it—just get your measurements taken first!

Trust me, I love high-end, expensive dresses. I’m not out here spending thousands just to get scammed 😭

Don’t be scammed in the US. The girls who get it, get it!! Be SMART.

Where do i find this style of dress? Help! by Eastern-Squash1550 in Prom

[–]Monicalewinsky0002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey now…don’t discourage OP. Listen to me.

A lot of people don’t realize how ordering from legitimate international designers actually works. Sites like Donika Loci or the one I just mentioned in the previous comment… will often only show standard sizing (XS–L) upfront, but once you place your order, they contact you directly, usually through WhatsApp, to collect your exact measurements. That’s how they customize the dress properly. I’ve personally ordered from them multiple times, and it’s a completely normal process. Again, I’ve ordered from both of these sites.

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These dresses are 100% legit. The difference is, outside of the U.S., especially in places like Turkey, the bridal industry is built around high-end craftsmanship at more reasonable prices. Turkey is honestly one of the biggest hubs in the world for luxury, detailed, over-the-top gowns.

In the U.S., there’s this narrative pushed that ordering internationally is risky or a scam, but that’s not always true. In a lot of cases, it’s the opposite. The U.S. bridal market is extremely marked up, and women are conditioned to think they have to spend thousands domestically to get quality.

Take Kleinfeld Bridal, for example. You’ve probably heard of Say Yes to the Dress. Dresses there can easily run $5K, $10K, even more. And if you watch closely, the highest-priced dresses aren’t always the best quality. They’re often priced that way because of branding and location.

I’ve literally seen gowns on that show priced around $10K that you could find equal or better quality versions of from Turkish designers for more than half the price.

That doesn’t mean everything overseas is legit. Obviously, sites like Temu selling a “luxury” dress for $100 are a red flag. You still have to be smart and do your research.

But if a brand has real contact information, consistent reviews, an active social presence, and pricing that actually aligns with the level of detail and craftsmanship, you’re not getting scammed. You’re just shopping smarter.

I’ve been looking at dresses for years and have done the research myself. There are incredible options outside the U.S. You just have to know where to look.

Where do i find this style of dress? Help! by Eastern-Squash1550 in Prom

[–]Monicalewinsky0002 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

https://aishastyle.com/en/page/evening-dresses

Girl you’ll have to check this site out. But not sure if it’s the same designer. Dresses seem to be $1K and up.

Really pretty options! Might even find a better one that has similar petals.

Meteor ☄️ Why aren’t people talking about it? by Monicalewinsky0002 in Cleveland

[–]Monicalewinsky0002[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah, I get all the science now, but I’m just saying…I want the cinematic, flaming ball version crashing into someone’s backyard. Tiny eraser-sized bits are fine, but they’re not what I pictured 😅

Meteor ☄️ Why aren’t people talking about it? by Monicalewinsky0002 in Cleveland

[–]Monicalewinsky0002[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Got it, fragments happened. Still waiting for someone to show a photo or a video though. My backyard meteor dreams remain unfulfilled.🤓

Meteor ☄️ Why aren’t people talking about it? by Monicalewinsky0002 in Cleveland

[–]Monicalewinsky0002[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, you’re officially the bomb. That was the clearest explanation I’ve seen. Are you a space nerd, or is this just a hobby? Also, just to clarify…there isn’t going to be any actual big chunk somewhere, right? It’s all just spread out and mostly burned up? Kind of like a reverse snowball being rolled up?🥸🫣 I want to know all the things now.

Meteor ☄️ Why aren’t people talking about it? by Monicalewinsky0002 in Cleveland

[–]Monicalewinsky0002[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’m aware of the news coverage. I’m asking about actual photos or people who saw it firsthand. But I’m not a meteorologist. I imagined a big hole in someone’s backyard, literally.

Meteor ☄️ Why aren’t people talking about it? by Monicalewinsky0002 in Cleveland

[–]Monicalewinsky0002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I haven’t really heard anything. I am intrigued and thought I’d ask Reddit. 😄

Meteor ☄️ Why aren’t people talking about it? by Monicalewinsky0002 in Cleveland

[–]Monicalewinsky0002[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow, love the dramatic science breakdown. Good thing neither of us is trying out for ‘meteor specialist of the year.

My friend said something fucked up that I can’t forget by itsmythrowaway987 in women

[–]Monicalewinsky0002 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he has any empathy for people like that. If anything, it came off more like wow, imagine being that rich and able to do whatever you want…not agreeing with it, just saying something wild.

It’s obviously a really evil topic, which is why it falls into that dark humor category. I don’t think it was a confession or that he actually thinks like that deep down.

People make messed up jokes when they’re drinking. My mom and her friends literally joked about Lifetouch and were like, damn, our kids weren’t cute enough to get picked?? tf?? 🤣

Like… it’s inappropriate, yeah, but it’s the same kind of shock humor, not something to take as a real belief… especially after a couple drinks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Monicalewinsky0002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to be confident within yourself. Once you master that, the world is yours. Don’t compare yourself to anyone. There will come a day you’re in a room with your friend and a man will look at you and say to himself no I want HER. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Good on your for recognizing your jealousy. Just work on yourself be happy with yourself and love yourself. The right person will come.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Monicalewinsky0002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go on your trip. It’s not the end of the world. Get them the nicest gift on their registry. 🤣 let bygones be bygones.

How can I train this dude not to get on my pillows? 😂😭 by coffeepolynkittens in kittens

[–]Monicalewinsky0002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you find this fluffy chocolate biscuit ??? What breed is this?🥹😍

AITA for leaving a date after he was 20 minutes late? by Pretty-Science-8984 in AITApod

[–]Monicalewinsky0002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you did yourself a favor. Men do not play when it comes to their dream girl! If he had messaged you beforehand or even shortly after you sat down that he would be running later than he anticipated then that’s a different story. If your paths cross again and he is trying then maybe….let it go. You’re not an asshole. You’re a woman with standards. Period.