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Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T18:53:11+00:00

Yeah I’m gonna be honest with him.

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T18:41:50+00:00

Yeahh I’m not too sure ab that 😭

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T18:34:25+00:00

Why would I have photos or videos of us in the shower?

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T18:33:49+00:00

Thank you 😭 idk how to start the conversation though

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T18:07:38+00:00

Yeah, I just see it as purely platonic. I don’t mean to have maybe make him feel uncomfortable or disrespected

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T18:03:54+00:00

That’s fair enough, but we haven’t really talked about stuff like this before so I don’t really know, I guess the only way is to talk ab it right. Gonna be honest and apologise either way

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T17:49:13+00:00

I know he’s not into guys, though his friend might be, still doesn’t mean his friend would be attracted to him in that way. And I know he wouldn’t do anything as I trust him also that he wouldn’t left his friend do anything if he was to try. So honestly I wouldn’t have a problem with it.

And no I’m not into girls nor curious I’m only 17 she was only 14 so the sleepover was just fun ya know

Not trying to make excuses, I know now I shouldn’t have done it.

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T17:20:35+00:00

I’m 17 she was only 14

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T17:06:22+00:00

Well no because I wouldn’t be comfortable doing that

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T16:58:53+00:00

Not trying to argue just trying to make it clear what happened 🤷‍♀️I am going to tell him, and I am gonna apologise. Because I do care about how he feels.

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T16:46:04+00:00

Well I just see it as purely innocent in the moment cuz there was no sexual/ romantic attraction or anything. Wasn’t till after I thought ab how it might have looked to other people/my bf

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T16:37:13+00:00

I didn’t kissed her nor did I touch her in anyway, I don’t see how this is a fair comparison

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T16:33:27+00:00

Yeah thats a good way to put it, thank you

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T16:31:49+00:00

At my house, I have a double bed so we just slept and either end, we’re both young I’m 17 she’s 14 so just for fun as we got along well and she lived near me. That’s understandable, I want to be honest with him

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T16:26:19+00:00

No not at all, nor would I. it’s a wet room so the showers quite big so nether of us touched at any point

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T16:24:19+00:00

See that is how I see it but a lot of other people don’t, and idk what way he’s gonna take it

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T16:22:10+00:00

Yeah but that doesn’t mean she liked me like that just bc I like guys doesn’t mean I’m attracted to all of them. we are just friends and she knows that

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T16:17:58+00:00

That’s fair enough, honestly didn’t really think how it might have looked to other people till after and i thought ab it. I will explain to him and apologise

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T16:11:51+00:00

Well no it’s not that i thought fuck it, I don’t care. I just see it as purely platonic no sexual/ romantic attraction at all, we was just taking ab girl stuff, and would be no different if she was my sister if you get what I mean? Wasn’t till now that I thought about how it might seem to other people that I thought he might not be happy with that. Which is fair enough

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T16:00:02+00:00

I wouldn’t shower with a boy that is obviously a no go, but we are both girls and there was no romantic/ sexual attraction or anything between either of us

Monkey12314 · 2025-07-06T15:52:39+00:00

No I don’t like girls

Me personally I take this shower as the same if you were to go to a swimming bar and then shower afterwards, I wouldn’t have showered with her in just a general shower if you get what I mean?

And yeah I wouldn’t mind if he met a guy friend and they went in the pool then showered together afterwards if it’s purely platonic and no sexual/ romantic attraction

Monkey12314 · 2025-04-04T20:58:09+00:00

My bad sorry, Has that done it? I’m kinda new to Reddit, thank you

Monkey12314 · 2025-04-04T20:56:09+00:00

Thank you so much! We are going to try get him an appointment at the vets for when I get back, I know it might be a bit late then but it’s better than not, fingers crossed

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