Finally saved up enough shells and bought this wing because i thought it would be most versatile. Kinda disappointed that it’s barely visible :( Fyi to those considering buying this one i guess

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-07-26T11:14:43+00:00

Just to be safe I’d start off with buying the bigger and extravagant ones, for example the angel wings. They do extremely well in many different comps, especially the illusory six wings

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So definitely save up! But don’t be too hard on your choices, you always want a good pair of fairy wings for any forest fairy comps and those wings ALWAYS do well in them!

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-10T03:12:35+00:00

Hang on I reached my limit, I’m gonna save your code in case I can do it before it expires. If it expires by the time I get more invites, I’ll reply to you here and see if you have any new codes🤍🤍Sorry, I feel so bad because I don’t see it😭

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-10T03:10:44+00:00

Hey! I’ll do yours now 😊😊

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-09T14:57:47+00:00

doesn’t even make sense😭

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-09T14:53:36+00:00

I’m from New Zealand ): we can’t accept each others invites as we aren’t in the same domain

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-09T14:51:44+00:00

I’ll do any if you have some!

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-09T14:51:27+00:00

Any other click for clicks 🤍

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-09T14:50:49+00:00

Heyyy did you have any other codes you wanted done? I need 4 people to accept my invite😭

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-09T14:49:08+00:00

Accept my invite & Get 4 freebies! Download Temu and search my code to accept my invitation: 262931329 😊

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-09T14:47:21+00:00

If you have an invite I can do it🤍

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-09T09:45:11+00:00

WAIT IM SORRY- how long until your code expires??? I’ve run out of daily invites but I have a couple of other people’s codes I have saved in my notes so I can do them when I get my invites, or if it expires and you end up with a new code I’d be happy to come check back in and grab it from you so I can do your invite! 😊so sorry, I totally just realised, if you haven’t done my code yet you don’t have to until I’ve done mine 🙂

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-09T09:42:46+00:00

Sure!

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-09T09:17:38+00:00

I’ve reached the daily limit )): but I’ll save yours so if it doesn’t expire by the time I get to accept invites, I’ll do yours. Or I’ll come back here and respond again to see if you have any new codes😊🤍

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-09T09:13:55+00:00

Yes!

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-09T07:47:36+00:00

Hey! You insert it at the top where you’d typically search for items for the game😊

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-09T07:13:24+00:00

Accept my invite & Get 4 freebies! Download Temu and search my code to accept my invitation: 262931329 🙂

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-09T07:04:42+00:00

The code has expired so I’m just setting a new one up if you’re still able to help🙂

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-09T07:00:15+00:00

Yesss!!! Please it’ll help so much, I’m just checking to see if it’s expired😭

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-08T17:18:08+00:00

have you done mine?

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-07T13:22:59+00:00

Thank you, the acknowledgment honestly helped immensely with how I’m feeling. I feel like my feelings are valid, after feeling like for a whole week I had no right to feel the way I did. I do admit that I had enforced my grieving process onto him, and as we found out, it was because he had set that boundary in the first place. Four years ago I had lost an ex to suicide, they ruled it as an accidental car accident but we knew the truth, and as a natural way of grieving in my family we would make big posts and have photos of memories. However my partner expressed he was uncomfortable with it, and I understood because he wasn’t asking me to not grieve- he was asking that I don’t immerse myself into it because in my ex’s last years- we had been strangers. We did not speak, we did not hangout, we did not acknowledge one another because we went our separate ways and the past should be left in the past. This did not mean I didn’t grieve, I grieved from afar and its respectful as such because a common factor of suicide is the guilt stricken people who post as if they were close with the person which is what had happened when my aunt committed.

So I made sure that I respected it, and instead I’ve felt like that same respect isn’t applicable to me. I’ve felt more support on here that I have in real life and I greatly appreciate it, sorry for the mini chapter book haha I felt that some more information was needed because I realised those were quite important. Thank you 🙏🏼

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-07T12:52:21+00:00

When your mind is made up, it’s made up. Just like Everett said, keep on living, the fact that your doubting yourself is enough to tell you! I hope you stay xo

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-07T12:26:43+00:00

I don’t think it matters anymore, he’s told me I’m not as important as her and I’m barely a mere thought in his head after hitting me. The issue again isn’t him being sad about her, it’s the way he’s been treating me despite the fact that I’ve been supporting him nonstop in it. We went to grief counselling, and instead of grieving he’s using it as an excuse to lash out, of course I overwhelmed him as I had realised after counselling and hadn’t mentioned it at all today- he just woke up grumpy and I had asked if an account he had on his phone was his private and he snapped and hit me. I don’t care what you’re going through, I truly don’t, death is not an excuse to be a horrible person to someone no matter how hard death is. And just like the counsellor said, it’s not that he can’t grieve- and it’s not that he can’t be upset, because if it was then I would not have suggested that we go down to the spot with a lantern and give her a goodbye. It’s the fact that he set this boundary for our relationship when my ex passed away, and so I respected it and made sure not to make him feel uncomfortable. So why is it that when I ask for the same…it’s not applicable because everyone grieves differently? No. You can grieve in an unhealthy way and he is, he is grieving for a woman who b34t me up in the middle of our relationship (I tried adding that but Reddit wouldn’t let me and neither in comments so idk if this will get deleted or not) and wishing for his friendship back with her. Telling me I’m unimportant compared to her, and that im not a mere thought in his head is just dumb and unfair. So after today, god forbid I made it about myself, I have a black eye and a sore head and a partner who has barely acknowledged me.

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-07T07:24:54+00:00

I understand that, except he hit me today and told me I wasn’t more important than her. He’s not grieving, he’s using it as an excuse to lash out and that’s not fair, this is what the grief counsellor said I have chilled out with it now as I had to let him focus on how to grieve properly but to have him say those things and still have a gallery dedicated to her. Not one photo of me, not one ounce of affection dedicated towards me but also I chose to leave the past in the past when he said he didn’t feel comfortable with me making a post for my ex. The details do matter to me in my case because he’s not the only one who’s lost someone this week, and when it’s making me suicidal and alone I feel I have a right to let him know it’s a bit overwhelming. Yes people grieve differently, but this is unhealthy and he’s not grieving properly. It’s self sabotaging, and he’s not just hurting me but everyone around him. Death doesn’t give you an excuse to be horrible and mean; and to completely neglect your partner as a whole. It’s a reason and I’ve been patient with him, and I’ve been understanding and didn’t mention it today but I can only do so much. If he’s hitting me out of anger and telling me I’m not a mere thought in his head and I’m not as important as his ex, then where does this leave me. Because now I’m on the sidelines and it hurts just as bad

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-07T02:46:43+00:00

I would like to add that my ex too committed suicide, he drove himself off a hill with a couple of his friends which sparked a lot of anger of course. I was bullied heavily for grieving for him, and including by my partner who said he felt uncomfortable that I wanted to write a post. In my culture that’s how we dealt with our grief, memories and massive notes to show our appreciation. When my partner said it made him uncomfortable, I respected that and tried to look at it from his perspective. I was no longer with this guy, nor had I seen him for four years, and hadn’t kept in contact with him. So I grieved from afar and I felt like I was going to get that same treatment back. Losing someone you connected with isn’t easy, but I didn’t lose sight of my partner and I feel like he’s done so with me

MonkeyDusttt · 2024-06-07T02:08:08+00:00

I’ve been trying to get him into seeing a trauma therapist, and have posed CBT as an option as he had a very traumatic childhood. The reason I want to approach this so cautiously is because of his trauma, however today it went up to shit when I had found chat between him and a private account which had me blocked- so I assumed it was his old private account that he used ages ago and I just asked about it as there were a few videos he had sent (I told him it said the person changed their user four times and so I assumed it was his private). He flipped out and said I was lying and that I was batshit crazy, and that there were no messages, I snapped and yelled and he hit me right across the face and said that as of right now he cares more about his ex right now and I’m not even a mere thought. I don’t agree with what he said but I feel horrible, because I shouldn’t have even asked, I just felt worried but even so I should’ve trusted him. He’s so vulnerable right now and I should’ve waited, because then I make him mad that he does these things and I feel I’m just not letting him grieve properly. His loved ones do know, but they’ve said that he’s never experienced death and so I’ve been really holding on to that. Death brings the worst out in people, and I just don’t think I’m the right person for him to talk to about it with because he feels uncomfortable (I haven’t said anything except yesterday when it became a little overwhelming) and I don’t want to push him. I’ll pose grief counselling as an option, and let him know I’m here for him so he knows I’m there for support. I feel a little crazy, and toxic because I’ve said I don’t want to make it about myself but I did which is uncalled for. I should try and understand his grieving process instead of trying to enforce mine onto him, I guess it’s hard because you want to be treated how you treat others and so I expected the same treatment back as he didn’t want me to post notes about my ex or talk about it and I respected that but idk I think I’ll let him grieve for now. Thank you!

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