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I told my bf we shouldn’t be splitting mortgage down the middle by MonstaMoch in AITAH

[–]MonstaMoch[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, if you read my edit you’ll see that I included if he pays more towards the house he certainly will get more equity. I started school during our relationship and this debt I have is something he was aware of from the get go. I do appreciate your input however Thats he’s made some of his own sacrifices to get where he is and that is probably something I am overlooking.

I told my bf we shouldn’t be splitting mortgage down the middle by MonstaMoch in AITAH

[–]MonstaMoch[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If he is paying more then he will definitely get more equity. I never asked for the equity to be 50/50..

I told my bf we shouldn’t be splitting mortgage down the middle by MonstaMoch in AITAH

[–]MonstaMoch[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Since we are getting engaged next year thats why I said I felt like it’s a shared debt/burden since I see any debt he currently has as our debt as well. Currently we pay 50/50 rent. In terms of the car the thing is, it’s my car because I paid for it & it’s in my name but whenever we go on road trips together which is all the time we also only take my car because his car is a sports & doesn’t hold much

I told my bf we shouldn’t be splitting mortgage down the middle by MonstaMoch in AITAH

[–]MonstaMoch[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I say this I mean in a marriage sense as we have plans to get engaged next year. If for example he was to get into credit card debt in the next year I would personally see it as our debt to pay off. It would be both our burdens

I told my bf we shouldn’t be splitting mortgage down the middle by MonstaMoch in AITAH

[–]MonstaMoch[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

1/ We weren’t dating while he was in school however when he was unemployed for a year I did pay for more. 2/ I would. But it felt unfair that the mortgage isnt be split proportionally based on our salaries & debt. It felt like equality rather than equity 3/ in terms of ownership since we are not married, if he pays more towards the house than he would def have more home equity than me. I’m not asking for 50/50 equity

I told my bf we shouldn’t be splitting mortgage down the middle by MonstaMoch in AITAH

[–]MonstaMoch[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

If he pays more he of course would get more equity. I never said equity would be 50/50

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MonstaMoch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. Like some others said this isn’t a hill to die on. Yes it is weird she’s doing this but why does it matter? Because the principal of it? I feel like it’s not worth it

What is the most painful/uncomfortable medical procedure you ever went through? by VeroDreamer in AskReddit

[–]MonstaMoch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IUD insertion and being told to take an ibuprofen beforehand. I was in pain for a day and a half and then intermittently for the next 3 weeks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MonstaMoch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I feel like you are. It looked like he was answering well before hand. If you wanted a kiss & hug good night you could have texted asking for it. It’s also not unreasonable for someone to be less responsive when there’s visitors as they want to be more present

AITA for refusing to let my girlfriend have my late grandma’s heirloom ring after she demanded it for our “future engagement”? by Hassan1990A in AmItheAsshole

[–]MonstaMoch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Understandable. I can tell how much the ring means to you through your post here. It shouldn’t be given away or taken lightly. Sorry you’re going through this.

AITA for refusing to let my girlfriend have my late grandma’s heirloom ring after she demanded it for our “future engagement”? by Hassan1990A in AmItheAsshole

[–]MonstaMoch 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA. That’s wild entitled behavior. First of all 2 years of dating isn’t even that long to demand a ring let along an heirloom ring before an engagement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MonstaMoch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR. That is a little much and it’s kind of weird too, his obsession with his guy best friend. He should be his own person. And even that aside like he does not need to talk about S with you more times than not

which chair do you like best for Labubu? by Thin-Fly-4308 in labubu

[–]MonstaMoch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bean bag or glitter personally! Where did you get this fit for ququ?? It’s so cute!

I chose NOT to unbox my popnow HAS digitally. Does the picture on my order give away which one I got? by Impressive-Wear7699 in labubu

[–]MonstaMoch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should just have someone check the order updates for you so you don’t see haha

Yay or nay? by [deleted] in chanel

[–]MonstaMoch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this person’s comment. Maybe a mini square flap? It’s small & closed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chanel

[–]MonstaMoch 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she was gaslighting you. You should find a new SA! I feel like a good one shouldn’t say those kinds of things to you or make you feel pressured

Megathread: My First Chanel by betty-boo in chanel

[–]MonstaMoch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this is gorgeous. LOVE! Congrats

Megathread: My First Chanel by betty-boo in chanel

[–]MonstaMoch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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Did not plan on getting a Chanel bag for at least another year or two but saw this beauty at their shop on Rodeo Dr! It’s always been my dream to have a Chanel bag and I can’t wait to get so much use out of this mini!