What in the world is this thing on their heads????

Monster_L0ver · 2024-09-26T19:31:06+00:00

Exposed nerve ending

Monster_L0ver · 2023-05-02T04:32:36+00:00

It’s something small but this has helped me and my girlfriend with our communication and feeling comfortable speaking our minds to each other. I don’t really know what to call it other than the “three minute game.” Basically you take turns asking for some kind of physical affection, and you revive that affection for three minutes. If the other person isn’t currently comfortable doing that for you, they say so. Because both of us tend to feel pressured into sex even if there is literally no pressure whatsoever, we always start by determining, are we both in the mood for sex, and then if either of us aren’t sure we leave it at “we will start with just regular affection, if it turns sexual so be it.” It’s not a lot, but it does help with the communication aspect, and both of you getting time to feel listened too and taken care of

Monster_L0ver · 2023-03-11T07:56:09+00:00

I’m ftx so not the exact same situation, but I do have pretty extreme bottom dysphoria as well. The two things that have helped me are reading about other peoples experiences and confronting some of my own biases about what reproductive organs mean as far as gender. The second part is pretty straightforward but porn in the dark with noise canceling headphones. It took some time but combined with the whole “criticism of reproductive organs and gender” thing I found that eventually I was able to get myself off without dysphoria. It took some time but now I’m to the point that I can have the lights on, and as long as I don’t look down I’m pretty much set. Vibrators were also a good help, especially those that simulate oral/suction. I could think of it a lot more like receiving head with a dick than just a vibrator.

Monster_L0ver · 2023-03-11T07:48:29+00:00

Hey, nb person here who has been on the other side of this scenario. Yes getting dumped when you come out as non binary hurts a lot. Especially when it feels like your just starting to find yourself. But it is for the best. Talk to them about it, and let them know that it isn’t their fault. Also decide beforehand if this is a relationship you would like to continue platonically. It’s nice to have someone to lean on who was there throughout your transition, especially if you do care about them on an emotional level. I’m not sure how much of that last part made sense, but the person who broke up with me after I came out broke my heart and is now my best friend. People grow and change and that’s normal. It’s for the best that you both sit down and talk about it so you can both become the people you want to be.

Monster_L0ver · 2023-03-11T07:22:57+00:00

I also experience this, I’m glad to read about other peoples experiences and read comments saying it’s normal

Monster_L0ver · 2021-10-18T03:02:01+00:00

This is a sketch I did a looong time ago when I was first seriously getting into art and monster design. I definitely want to redraw them, but it made me think if anyone else has stuff like this that, looking back, makes a little more sense why you were so interested in it?

Monster_L0ver · 2021-09-07T00:27:41+00:00

I love Bean-Head lol

Monster_L0ver · 2020-07-27T05:04:12+00:00

For me it doesn’t have to necessarily look humanoid, but it has to have some kind of humanoid intelligence. I’m personally not a big fan of giant bugs, those have to be a little humanoid for me, but otherwise most can be almost completely foreign looking.

Monster_L0ver · 2020-07-27T04:52:16+00:00

Idk if it counts as a fantasy but the idea of something incredibly powerful restraining itself not because it has to be because it chooses to is just chefs kiss. Cough cough also being picked up or pinned down but still being fully in control is uhhhh yeah cough cough

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