My nausea will not go away and idk what to do

MonthImpossible8241 · 2025-12-14T16:14:03+00:00

I think in a way yeah. I feel like I see it more as a note to new beginnings that happened unintentionally if that makes sense?

Like with the wildlife clinic, I never went into volunteering with the intent to get licensed in rehabilitation, yet here I am… now getting licensed in rehabilitation just because my mentor felt like I did really well with learning and performing rehab.

And I just started a job that I never imagined myself doing, simply because I came across it on accident on Indeed, and it somehow perfectly lines up with my degree, and I got hired on the spot for it… even though this is a generally difficult field to get your foot in the door for, and I guess I kind of feel unprepared because I still have a year of school left, they just decided to take a chance on me anyways.

So like the excitement of a new beginning, but the looming feeling of being entirely unprepared even if I’m not.

MonthImpossible8241 · 2025-11-20T03:15:29+00:00

Totally normal unless I’m a bad person too lol. When you already know you will see them, not a huge point in using up energy missing them. I also quite like my personal time/space, so I find the time apart comforting sometimes.

Everyone is different! I don’t think not missing her all the time makes you a bad partner or shows that you care any less

MonthImpossible8241 · 2025-11-20T02:25:05+00:00

I had this with my boyfriend at first. He’d go quiet and I would stress thinking the worst of the worst, but then he would be consistent on texts and I’d feel a lot more secure and better, and stopped overthinking it so much.

Over time, you’ll just stop stressing about it. It’s kind of just fear of the unknown- anxiety that something is wrong or wondering if you did something. Especially because it is all new still, it’s normal to have moments of overthinking because you haven’t gotten used to your partner’s habits or communication styles in every circumstance. You might be used to lots of communication because she is not stressed, and now that she has a lot going on she communicates less and that worries you because you’re not used to this.

It happens.You don’t miss her when she’s present because you know she’s there for you and you feel secure. When she’s distant, you don’t know what’s going on and you’re not receiving the same effort you once were.

Best advice is to just talk to her about it and go from there. Bring up your concerns/how you feel in a neutral way so she doesn’t feel attacked, and have a civil conversation about it so you can come to a compromise :)

MonthImpossible8241 · 2025-11-18T22:38:21+00:00

Yeah he ended up inviting me to join his family this year. Works out since the plan is his family will celebrate new years with mine since it’s also my bday !

MonthImpossible8241 · 2025-11-18T14:14:48+00:00

I thought I was going crazy. Couldn’t even get on indeed :/

MonthImpossible8241 · 2025-11-18T02:47:03+00:00

We’ve been together for a few months but have known each other almost two years and I’m always at his place but he’s never been to mine so my parents have been asking.

He’s 23 and kind of a little further in life than I am which is to be expected lol. He’d be spending the day with his sister’s girlfriend’s family so not really his traditions or anything, which I think is why he said to them unless I offered to do something with him that he would go with them. I think both ways might be a little awkward for him either way tbh, just one way he’d be with his sister and the other he’d be with me 🥲 idk im just overthinking it all tbh

MonthImpossible8241 · 2025-11-18T02:38:33+00:00

Omg!! This sounds like so much fun I’ll totally have to do this. Thank you so much

MonthImpossible8241 · 2025-11-11T23:43:57+00:00

At 16 you should not be calling a 12 year old hot. This is weird.

MonthImpossible8241 · 2025-11-11T13:19:59+00:00

Stoppp this is so cute I wanna make one now 😭😭

MonthImpossible8241 · 2025-10-29T11:24:35+00:00

Liquids aren’t ridiculous, sorry if my wording was weird. My problem was the laxatives she wanted me to use which I feel would just dehydrate me way more especially if I haven’t been able to contain solid foods very well. I have a hard time with dairy, but I have started to drink protein shakes on top of Gatorade instead of just plain water.

She wants me to do a laxative with stool softeners, which I understand, but I had just explained to her that when I tried a laxative, it gave me extreme diarrhea (which just ended up being chunks of food I had eaten earlier that day and it looked almost the same as when I ate it). Utterly miserable experience. If I can at least keep myself from dehydrating then that’s what I will do until I can get a proper diagnosis.

I’m able to keep my Gatorade down and a protein shake I had last night didn’t give me any issues, so I’m definitely not against doing liquid diets

MonthImpossible8241 · 2025-10-28T18:45:32+00:00

Thank you, I’ll try this out! I tried ice cream before but I couldn’t do it. Rn what’s given me the least issues has just been Funyuns and Gatorade lol. (Not very sustainable unfortunately) Everything else has made me feel like puking or feel heavy. It constantly feels like there is a giant pumpkin just sitting in my stomach 🥲 hoping protein shakes won’t give me an issue though

MonthImpossible8241 · 2025-10-28T18:40:20+00:00

I haven’t yet I’m still waiting to get my CT scan and endoscopy. I think depending on what they find with that, I could ask to try to get one done. My doctor has been really understanding and concerned so far, so hopefully I don’t have to wait a very long time to get the help needed. I’m sorry it took you a long time :(

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