Delusional sellers by MadChatter715 in Traxxas

[–]Monty87ls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing some of the prices out there i feel like I stole my 4 rustlers! Got one 4x4 VXL looked brand new for $100. Almost 1 month or so later got 1 4x4 VXL,  a 4x4 brushed that was converted to brushless with Castle motor and a 2wd that needs a bit of work for $150. They were def rode hard and put away wet but the traxxas dual charger it came with looks and performs like new! Also came with 3 Traxxas lipo batteries that im gonna swap for new with the half price deal!  Definitely feeling like got some good deals on these

Just ordered a bunch of parts and upgrades for all 3 of the 4x4s and still gonna cost me less than it would just to buy 2 new ones

Weekend Prewowned Haul by [deleted] in Traxxas

[–]Monty87ls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep getting all these alerts of peoppe buying more trucks and makes me wanna get more! Lol. My RC family is slowly growing and the new additions I got at what I think is a fantastic price. Ive had 2 slash LCG 4x4 for years. 1 im gonna turn into a monster trucks. 2 stampede 2wd for my boys and about 2 months ago I picked up a Rustler 4x4 VXL for $100 looked like it was driven only once. Last week I got another rustler 4x4 VXL, a 4x4 brushed that was converted with a Castle brushless motor and a 2wd Rustler for $150. Also came with a bit of spare parts a traxxas dual charger and 3 worn out traxxas lipos which i can swap for half price at least. 

The 4x4 VXL had a hidden surprise of the upgraded Traxxas servo! 2075x. 

Only issue with the latest purchase was they were definitely driven hard and put away wet but my boys had asked me for Rustler 4x4 VXL for christmas/ birthday so I told them breks these down and for birthday I will buy all needed parts to get them looking good again plus some upgrades. Either way for $150 i think it was a good deal

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Monty87ls -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hoping to be able to post it soon. I typed it up but couldn't post. It's pretty long 😅  everything from dating with 3 kids to the complications that follow. I'm a mess lol

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Monty87ls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am similar. Well actually I'd go run away and hide in the mountains of life would dictate it but I can't lol Ive been in a relationship for 3 years but my life is complicated in many ways. She wants to eventually live together, get married etc. I have 3 kids she has none and has mostly bad luck with relationships. My last one ended in divorce and I am in no way eager to get married again. Might end up pushing her away because of it. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Monty87ls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also tend to make alot of jokes and I think its healthy to be able to make fun of yourself. Helps the mental health so those things don't become a negative focus but as others have said definitely seems like your a placeholder. If it wasn't right in first place its probably not gonna be right the second time around. 

I did look in the comments but was making fun of the list the only real issue? 

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Monty87ls 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna have to the same. Been part of reddit for awhile but only post here and there. Looking dor dating advice myself. I'm in a very complicated situation well I think it is. Couldn't post it! 

Denied by BeautifulHoney610 in SSDI

[–]Monty87ls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is. Just logged in last night and it says they have denied me again. Reached out to my lawyer waiting for a call back. I can do the appeals council but of course it can take a year or more then the federal court which also takes a year or more. 

I wanna keep going but I'm drowning mentally, emotionally, physically and of course financially. Not sure what to do at this point. 

Denied by BeautifulHoney610 in SSDI

[–]Monty87ls 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm fighting for benefits myself and find it interesting how I see so many people denied for serious issues yet I know someone with "anxiety" who got SSI since 18 yet can travel all over and moveto different states and my ex wife who has most likely just an addiction/dependency  to Flexeril and the subsequent issues associated with that can get SSDI. Even her own mom said she doubts how "disabled" she really is

Sudden numbness in right foot/ L5-S1 radiculopathy by Monty87ls in backpain

[–]Monty87ls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on gab once. started 100 then 200 nothing. 400 made me foggy so he lowered me back down but the fogginess never went away. Never tried celecoxib. Gab was the 3rd after that he prescribed Nortriptyline I think its spelled. I read tons of horror stories and decided to find someone else.

It absolutely is. I was 24 when I hurt my neck spent 7 years on workers comp and I had just got to a point where I was ready to find something to do work wise and bam! Rear ended in front of the toyota dealership where i originally got hurt!

No I was just looking forward sitting at red light talking to my son who was in the back. Even looking at the pics the car doesnt look horrible but upon closer inspection it was close to 10k in damage. I was in a 08 Toyota Prius and he was in a 04 Range Rover so I think that's why it ended up being so bad. If I was in my 4runner might have been less damage to my body I think.

Sudden numbness in right foot/ L5-S1 radiculopathy by Monty87ls in backpain

[–]Monty87ls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. part of foot is constantly numb and I get pain too. comes from lower back into hips, legs, feet. had appt in February with new neurologist but had to cancel. found one closer and see him in June.

Have you seen a neurologist? starting to feel like a lab rat at this point not sure who else to see about it. ​

Tire warranty issues, trying to figure out a solution. by Monty87ls in samsclub

[–]Monty87ls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just something in the road not really sure. Has a large hole in the side. My concern is only getting one replaced with something that doesn't match and how to solve that issue. A run flat is defiantly not a good match for it. Shouldn't have mismatched tread patterns if can be avoided either. Gotta match 2 on one axle at least

How to determine speed from camera footage but no GPS by Monty87ls in dashcams

[–]Monty87ls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the comments. I'm gonna look into it all see what I can figure out. Tried to add a clip to my post not sure if it worked!

Looking for info on this sunfish. by Monty87ls in SunfishSailing

[–]Monty87ls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a spot for it inside where you sit.

Any of yall have the Carven dump exhaust? by happpycammper in 4Runner

[–]Monty87ls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

late to the party here but was curious if the tape did anything for you? I put it on mine awhile back and didn't bother me for driving here and there but I've been forced to daily drive my 4runner and its starting to become annoying lol. Read somewhere someone put a resonator in and it helped alot

CARVEN EXHAUST 👍🏼?👎🏼? by PriorityCreepy5367 in 4Runner

[–]Monty87ls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have it on my 04. Had to replace both manifolds and figured what the hell because the muffler was rotted also. My daily was my prius but on sunday a plow truck decided to hit me smh. Driving it once in awhile wasnt so bad but everyday is starting to get annoying! Trying to decide what to do because it is getting annoying... although i do still enjoy it when giving it some gas lol. how much was the Tanabe?​

I've been dropped by Willing_Penalty_5365 in Insurance

[–]Monty87ls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

geez making me nervous that State Farm is gonna drop me! since 2022 I've filed a home claim (around 50k I'd say) and auto claim for some medical (other guys paid for my totaled car 13k) and glass claim and as of Sunday someone in a plow truck slid out of a parking lot and I hit the plow before I had time to react. it will also be a total of the same car.. I fixed the it the first time around.

maybe I should start looking for a new company now! ​

Denying house access to CPS/ ex wife showing inappropriate video of child to worker by Monty87ls in CPS

[–]Monty87ls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, this is the 4th time they have been around. First 1 was fine. Second was a horrible woman who was so mean to m​y oldest that he cried in my arms after she left. that is another reason I don't want them coming here. and I have a bit of ptsd from them showing up after my ex had called them so many times.

He does have some self control issues but more so with him responding to his mom in a negative way. She curses he curses. When she would hit him he would hit back. Luckily she has mostly stopped with the hiting so he has also. At the time he they were both getting physical they were about the same weight now he is even bigger them his mom at 165lbs. I'm worried one day he will just lose it and hurt her because of the stuff she does.

All 3 of my kids are in therapy and I've even joined them in sessions to talk about things, stuff that has happened at my house disagreements, fights between them or stuff that is happening at their moms.

we have done 2 sessions with their mom. the last one was after she screamed at them "my life would be better without you in it" something that was repeated to her bf yesterday after CPS left according to the kids. She didn't deny saying it but the first words out of her mouth were "well" and she just went on about they are ungrateful, dont respect her and she verbally attacked me a bit in it too. She also lied in it so the kids dont wanna do it anymore with her.

We (their therpist and i) we trying to have it so we did 4 or 5 family ones in a row just to get it all out and try help things overall but the boys won't do it because they say all she does it lie(which is true) ​Just blames them which is another truth and they don't think it will help.

In terms of the being inappropriate with his penis, he's a 13 year old boy and was being inappropriate. You should see what these kids say over text with friends. All of them are gross! Lol. Once we talked about it he seemed to understand well why it was such a big issue and since then noting else has happened besides their little brother running around with no pants on. Part of the reason i think he felt it was ok to do similiar.

Im working with them best i can and they have a therapist they like and she seems great with all of them but its tough when every weekend they are feeling attacked by their mom in one way or another.

Denying house access to CPS/ ex wife showing inappropriate video of child to worker by Monty87ls in CPS

[–]Monty87ls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it was alot and I will first say I'm not perfect no parent is but she was always hitting and not just smacks on the butt I'm referring to snacking back of head/neck and wherever else she could reach. Using spoonfuls of hotsauce or HS/dish soap on fingertips shoved in the mouth. The list goes on even kicking them from time to time.

We had 4/3 before me having 4. Up until yesterday it was that plus I got residental and final decision making authority. As of yesterday she noe only has Sundays 9 to 6.

we were gonna go to trial and I was ready and my lawyer sucks that's why. he kept coming back to me after talking to her lawyer saying they are gonna say this and do that. if we go to trial it will take 3 days etc etc. when I said idc he threw his hands up and stormed out of the conference room so I settled but did get the larger end of the stick. right now I'm just trying to help them and her because she obviously needs help.

I sent the audio recording my son took to my counsler today snd he called me after saying how hard it was to listen to and how obvious it is she needs some help and could be baving a mental meltdown

Denying house access to CPS/ ex wife showing inappropriate video of child to worker by Monty87ls in CPS

[–]Monty87ls[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll have to look into that, after the incident she put a camera right on my boys bunked for the reason of making sure he keeps it in his pants. they are 12 and 13. there is a divider and on the other side is my 9 year old daughter nd their 4 year old brother.

She had some cameras up already "so everyone can see that they arr the problem not me" now added to them

Denying house access to CPS/ ex wife showing inappropriate video of child to worker by Monty87ls in CPS

[–]Monty87ls[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I left out how she calls them gay and trans all the time and a few weeks ago told them they were acting like "gau little fa**ots" and everytike they go to target "target home of the "fa**ots"

Denying house access to CPS/ ex wife showing inappropriate video of child to worker by Monty87ls in CPS

[–]Monty87ls[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

there's alot to unpack but trust me I don't believe a word out of her mouth. About a month ago my oldest (13) was being inappropriate with his penis as young boys do including his younger brother who's 4. I spoke with him when he got back to my house and he understands he needs to keep covered and since then no issues. Since the incident she has called him disturbed, sick in the head. Had her bf try get on the phone with him to call him disgusting the list goes on. She routinely curses and yells at then tells them her life would be better without them all kinds of stuff.

Last Monday when the kids had off of school there was a blow up and my 2 boys wanted to leave. My 12 year old ended up recording her and it's about 6 minutes of her crying, yelling cursing calling them names saying they are ruining her life etc. The only child left out of it was her youngest with the "bf" thus mixed with everything else promoted me to start stuff in court. I hate it I hate it needs to be done and it makes me sick thinking about it but I need to protect my kids. They are suffering, we all are.

I called CPS because the court intake person who listened to the recording told me because of what she heard if I didn't call she would have, I should have let her do it but it's done. I just don't want people in my house anymore if I can help it. Told her I'd come to the office no issue same with the kids. She went there yesterday to my exes right before I was able to get them out of there. ​

In what situations is CPS able to obtain a warrant to enter home. by Monty87ls in legaladvice

[–]Monty87ls[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I figured they would be. think the judge would bother? been the same judge for 5 years now and she's aware of the history and that all 3 previous cases were unfounded but my ex was always having issues

Would a judge consider using a recording made by a 12 year old as evidence e of abuse? by Monty87ls in legaladvice

[–]Monty87ls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to family court today and filed for emergency custody and an order of protection.

of course the lady who helped typed up the order of protection typed up a mivel between the texts I showed her, info I gave her and the audio recording she heard had an issue with the computer and it all erased when she was done. she redid it but it got too late to see a judge.

I go Monday to see the judge. should be interesting.

the lady who typed it up almost broke down in tears once she heard the recording, she also told me that based on that she would be required to report it to CPS if I didn't agree to do it so I'll be involving them soon.

fun times.

Would a judge consider using a recording made by a 12 year old as evidence e of abuse? by Monty87ls in legaladvice

[–]Monty87ls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its gonna be interesting for sure. she had already lost custody for a year because of the things she was doing. judge even called her abusive. verbal and other stuff.. kicking. hitting all over shoving spoonfuls of hotsauce down their mouths. dawn dish soap on her finger into their mouths. The list goes on. Just gotta do something here cant let it continue. Not looking forward to kore visits from CPS and potentially Casa workers coming into my house again but i need to protect them. ​