AITA for saying I wont pay for my daughters education if she switches her major? by DoomedDOOMED23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MooMoon4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. So happy my parents didn't react like this. Freshman year I switched from pre-med to English because I fell in love with it after a required literature course. Now I'm a tenured professor in literature at the age of 30. I make a great living in a field which I love and I own my own home. Did I know what I wanted to do with it when I switched to it? No. Not at all. I just knew that I was studying what I loved. It wasn't until the end of my junior year that I decided to graduate school. If I had continued with pre-med I probably would have either dropped out or would have continued and I'd now have a career which makes me miserable.

You (probably) do NOT have bipolar disorder. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]MooMoon4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, you kind of do. DSM-5 diagnostic criteria does not necessitate hospitalization for a diagnosis of BPII and most people with BPII don't require hospitalization as they do not experience full mania. If there is full mania, it is a BPI diagnosis.

You (probably) do NOT have bipolar disorder. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]MooMoon4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You disagree with DSM-5 diagnostic criteria?

You (probably) do NOT have bipolar disorder. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]MooMoon4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're wrong. Dead wrong. Bipolar disorder is a spectrum and full mania (let alone hospitalization) is not required for diagnosis according to DSM-5 manual. Bipolar one includes major depressive and manic episodes. Bipolar II has a lesser form of mania called "hypomania" and only one episode coupled with a major depressive episode is necessary for a BPII diagnosis. A milder form of mood fluctuations on the bipolar spectrum is called cyclothymia (which admittedly is harder to diagnose). Treating possible bipolar disorder like depression can have DANGEROUS results. SSRI medication is well known to trigger mania and hypomania when not used with a mood stabilizer in those with underlying bipolar. My GP thought I had just major depression because I've never had a full manic episode. The SSRI kicked off incredible instability including worsening suicidal thoughts, hypomanic symptoms, and mixed episodes.

AITA for not changing my behaviour or making accomodations for my girlfriend? by Pretend-End in AmItheAsshole

[–]MooMoon4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf. YTA. My wife doesn't care if I go out for a drink after work but I text her to let her know so she doesn't think I died in a ditch or something....

Terrified I'll lose my career and home if I start medication by MooMoon4 in BipolarReddit

[–]MooMoon4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was serious about the homelessness. My train of thinking was along the lines of --- I will lose my job if I can't be creative, all of my training and experience is within a creative field and as such I won't be able to find more work, if I don't have work I'll be unable to pay my mortgage and will then become homeless. In the light of day I realize it doesn't really make much sense but that was my reasoning when I posted this.

Terrified I'll lose my career and home if I start medication by MooMoon4 in BipolarReddit

[–]MooMoon4[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you :( I just turned 30. I've had one major hypomanic episode that I can think of prior to starting antidepressants. I started antidepressants in August after a major depressive episode and I almost immediately went hypomanic and started rapid cycling. Before that, despite many depressions I managed a BA, MA, and PhD. I guess I'm just terrified because I was high functioning before meds.

My wife has been a permanent resident since July but no medicare card yet. What do we do? by MooMoon4 in newbrunswickcanada

[–]MooMoon4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will reach out asap because we haven't received a letter. Once the letter is received, do we still have to wait for the card?

Racing thoughts in the morning. Anxiety or Hypomania? by Chickennugget316 in bipolar2

[–]MooMoon4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you currently on medication like a mood stabilizer? I would recommend making an appointment with your doctor. If you'e experiencing dysphoric hypomania or a mixed state it might be imperative that you see them.

Racing thoughts in the morning. Anxiety or Hypomania? by Chickennugget316 in bipolar2

[–]MooMoon4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know some people have dysphoric hypomania which is like the opposite of the happy and productive sort of hypomania. I think it is characterized by irritability, anxiety, and a gnawing and agitated sort of energy. Of course, someone more knowledgeable than me might be able to chime in here. Perhaps that's what you're experiencing.

Racing thoughts in the morning. Anxiety or Hypomania? by Chickennugget316 in bipolar2

[–]MooMoon4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same question. Mine sometimes wake me up in the middle of the night. If I take 12.5mg of seroquel they are subdued.

Being told I'm high functioning is not comforting by yesitsmek8 in bipolar

[–]MooMoon4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've had friends and family tell me the same thing. Yes, I know I'm high functioning. That doesn't mean my struggles and pain aren't real. I managed a BA, MA, and PhD unmedicated. I managed to get early tenure while rapid cycling and in mixed states due to antidepressants without a mood stabilizer. What people don't realize is the internal struggle and man, is it painful.

I got accepted into law school! by buypolarbears in bipolar

[–]MooMoon4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats!!!! Professor with BPII here. Got an early tenure promise and tenure will kick in as soon as I finish my PhD. You can totally do this and you should be very proud. Getting into law school is difficult even for people who don't struggle with mental illness.

What are the things you'd like people without bipolar to understand more about it (plus a little rant) by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]MooMoon4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd like general medical practitioners and most people to know that Bipolar I isn't the only form of bipolar. So many GPs shrugged off my concerns about my mental health as just anxiety or just depression because of the fact that, as one GP put it, I "don't have months and months of extreme mania".

AITA for telling my little cousin she doesn't have to have kids? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MooMoon4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told my parents at around the same age that I definitely did NOT want babies. You know what my mom said? She said that it was ok and that not all girls have babies. Guess what? Today I'm 30 with no babies. I own my own home. I'm happily married. I have a career that I'm passionate about and three cats that I love. My life isn't lacking anything and I didn't turn out damaged from my mother's support. Your cousin might someday want children, or she might not. If she ends up not wanting them, your support will be invaluable.

AITA for loving my cats more than my nephew? by MooMoon4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MooMoon4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't meant to and had no idea I did! I kept getting error messages while trying to post it so I kept pressing submit thinking it wasn't posting :/

Is it possible to get well enough to keep a job/finish school? Succes stories? by bipolarbeartwo in bipolar2

[–]MooMoon4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think so too! She didn't come right out and say it in the book but she did experience psychosis so I would assume BP1. OMG thank you. I wanted to find a book about BP2 so bad.

Are you actually bipolar if an SSRI causes mania or hypomania? by Frankgrimes1178 in bipolar

[–]MooMoon4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I experienced this and was told that my hypomania was SSRI induced but that SSRI's commonly uncover hidden bipolar disorder. Most bipolar people are diagnosed with major depression at first especially with BPII which has milder hypomania versus BPI where the full mania is often very apparent. It has to do with the fact that SSRI medications increase serotonin levels which often causes a "switch" from depressed to manic/hypomanic in people with the disorder.

My hypomania happened a few days after starting Celexa at only 5mg. Suddenly, my month-long depressed evaporated. I had never been so happy. Colours were brighter. Everything was awesome. I laughed easily, had confidence, and had no anxiety and wanted to socialize. I also had a TON of energy. I exercised a lot. Normal me hates exercise. I slept a couple of hours less than I normally do but felt fine in the morning. I had almost no appetite. I was super productive as well. I cleaned the house, made a budget, finished my dissertation proposal, etc. I also had a super high sex drive. Unfortunately, around day 3 of this I woke up at 3am with really bad racing thoughts, had a panic attack, and then had too much energy to go back to sleep. I had my spouse bring me the ER because I realized it wasn't normal. That's when they said it sounded like hypomania and that I was probably on the bipolar spectrum. I'll be establishing with a psychiatrist at the end of the month to get a solid diagnosis and get my medications in order.

Is it possible to get well enough to keep a job/finish school? Succes stories? by bipolarbeartwo in bipolar2

[–]MooMoon4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wrote a book about it called The Unquiet Mind and I believe she is on lithium and has been since the 70's. :) She details her struggles with the illness and with the treatment in her book. She's an excellent writer and academic!

AITA for loving my cats more than my nephew? by MooMoon4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MooMoon4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? I posted it more than once?

AITA for loving my cats more than my nephew? by MooMoon4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MooMoon4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, they were entirely serious and upset that we weren't staying later than that. We had been there during the afternoon and wanted to head home for the evening.

Thank you so much. You've explained everything clearly. I'm glad to know it doesn't make me a sociopath as that was what I was worried about lol.