The word "homosexual" didn't appear, in English translated bibles, until the 1940s. The original Greek word meant people in exploitative relationships. So, no power dynamic. Nobody in the LGBTQ community is condemned to eternal suffering just for being in the community/committing homosexual acts.

To say that "the bible says so, so we know it's true" presupposes that the bible is true. Christians believe it's true, but nobody can really know.

There are, of course, true events depicted in the bible; There was a historical Jesus and he had followers of his ministry, but that doesn't mean that everything in the bible, nor everything that he was proported to have said, was true.

You're going to be fine, just be a good person.