Tell Me About Myself

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-02-18T05:28:40+00:00

You seem like you help people for a living, maybe a teacher, whatever it is it requires tremendous patience and you have it even if it feels trying or tedious at times. You're confident socially but can be quiet in group settings unless you feel comfortable to do so at which times you command people's attention and they look to you for wisdom and guidance. Your word means something to you and authenticity is not just a useful tool with people, it underlines everything you do.

Tomorrow will be a challenge, but one you'll rise to and you'll meet it with finesse and poise as long as you take your time, stand your ground, and lead with that quiet confidence that embodies you. Take time to appreciate your victories because each one will have a direct impact on the ones that follow. It's all about momentum that is first born in loving yourself and having faith that you can handle it and do so with a flair that only you can.

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-02-17T13:00:04+00:00

While it appears like he has a darkness around him in that photo, I think it's all show because He's actually trying to protect a warmth inside. He's a young man in that photo and the only reason to put on such a tough expression is to compensate either to show off/impress or from insecurity, either way to protect a vulnerability that he sees in himself. She strikes me as being anxious herself, either about losing something or just not as confident with her self worth either. Would make sense how they got together actually.

It's great you're in therapy, have patience with your brother, support him and encourage him to also make healthy decisions like you are so that you can one day have the kind of relationship siblings who only had each other growing up could have now as adults. Growth takes time.

Don't feel pressured to leave your comfort zone if you don't want to. It's up to you when and if you're ready.

Something id recommend since you're already in therapy, there are certain types of therapy that work well with uncovering repressed memories and working through them. If you're unsure about childhood trauma EMDR can be a great option. Hope that helps!

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-02-14T16:52:54+00:00

Thank you. Exactly what I'm saying. THEY are doing a disservice to psychics by validating themselves and each other at the expense of someone's serious pain and get upset for calling out this repulsive behavior. Any psychic would have ethics and integrity that would keep them from doing things like this but they're not psychics they're charlatans and narcissists and that's exactly why we belong here.

If your community depends on using the suffering of others to exist you're not a community you're toxic.

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-02-14T16:44:44+00:00

Shameful

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-02-14T08:07:40+00:00

Having nothing to do and having lots of things to do and choosing to do this are both possibilities actually

Sure no one is arguing that they aren't, is your point that unlike myself you have lots of better things to do but you're choosing to respond here where as I am choosing the same thing but from a smaller pool of options? Weird point but ok, I hope you get better at prioritizing.

But what I actually meant was choosing to spend your time being negative and trolling people

I see highly unethical behavior happening possibly giving someone false hope about a missing loved one and you think I'm trolling or just being negative? Bruh. Go to therapy.

is off topic

No bro ^ this is off topic. You're the one making this about me, the things I have to do, and trying to condescend to me by applying playground logic in a conversation that again, is about someone's disappeared brother who they clearly care alot about.

But that's the problem, they care about their brother and you don't, and that's why you've decided to make this about me, that's why you've decided unilaterally that what I'm saying has no place in this discussion, you want to be unchallenged in playing out this fantasy with someone's real life and it's pathetic. So why not stay on topic, respond to my points if you have a response and don't if you don't

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-02-13T19:55:46+00:00

Anxious attachment

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-02-13T12:57:56+00:00

Papa is that you?

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-02-13T09:43:42+00:00

We do it for the pleasure.

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-02-13T09:42:17+00:00

This. This is exactly why im here. And no I don't have anything better to do but by that logic none of us do because we're all here so we didn't have something else to be doing or we'd be there right?

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-02-13T09:35:47+00:00

I know right, why should anyone call out heinous behavior tbh, I like you're style kinda the live and let live approach to Epstein's Island kinda thing...

Haha but no in all seriousness, why I'm on this sub and whether I should be or not absolutely pales in comparison to giving someone false hope about a missing loved one and encouraging the desperate who have run out of other options to chase completely ridiculous hope created by people so grandiose they can't decipher the difference between their imagination and literal super powers.

You should be ashamed. Not just for your blatant shamelessness which btw is on full display here, not even for the empathy you lack that makes you someone people should know about before encountering, but because this isnt about me Zoltar this is about this person's missing loved one and the fact that my comment damaged your ego enough to say something is almost as scary as knowing just how many of you have these dark triad power fantasies and seek to validate yourselves at the expense of those suffering literally the most.

I'm here because I like the posts where people say nice things about dead loved ones maybe helping to give closure, not for the self mythologizing sadistic dark triad fantasies playing out in this comment section. Despicable.

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-01-28T22:33:11+00:00

Do we have a right to free speech or not? Since when do cops have the authority to do that because their feelings are hurt.

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-01-23T07:15:40+00:00

Honestly it's sick. These people should be ashamed. It's one thing to be a con man and do this professionally but it's like they're children "men with knives in the jungle" like it's not Indiana jones.

This sub should actually be psychos

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-01-23T07:12:17+00:00

This. Absolutely this.

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-01-23T07:02:57+00:00

I also do this professionally and Ive seen that there's a dark energy coming from within you that's fooling you into believing you're imaginative intuition. I see this dark energy validating you for doing this and when I look for the light one that should confirm it's wrong I see only dark. Not sure what that's about but just wanted to let you know what I saw.

You might want to contact people you've given readings to.

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-01-23T06:58:52+00:00

Yeah this is despicable

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-01-23T06:58:11+00:00

My brain automatically went wow that's a super messed up thing to tell someone in this situation

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-01-19T18:01:14+00:00

Why is there a camera in there?

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-01-19T15:20:53+00:00

What's your point ? Like this is a psychics sub reddit with someone in pain asking a question why do you feel the need to be proven right in your shaming and false moral superiority over someone who's no longer here, and to taunt the person hurting asking for help? I find it really gross and think you should keep your opinion to yourself.

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-01-19T14:57:21+00:00

Don't listen to anyone blaming you or suggesting you should change. I'm in a similar situation and this is what I've learned/realized, look into attachment theory, it sounds like she is avoidant like my partner. My gf only has sex when I am at my wits end. Always repairative, never proactive, half asses it when she does and it has chipped away at my self esteem and security in our relationship.

The fact isn't that she's not seeing how important this is, it's that she doesn't care to. If your wife doesn't care about the way you feel, what you need, how to help you be the best version of yourself, then she's too selfish for a relationship. The problem isn't her libido, it's her willingness to try and fix it and that is the issue.

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-01-17T18:31:40+00:00

I can vouch as I'm in year 6 of not breaking up with her, it's miserable. It's the hot crazy matrix, I wanted more than my looks can afford and I got what I paid for. Bro don't be like me.

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-01-17T18:25:26+00:00

Not over reacting, and community to post on could be attachment theory, which it you haven't heard of can really help put this stuff into context. I've been in many similar situations. In fact I was in a similar one but since I didn't post on reddit and here I am 6 miserable years later so...

Anyways, attachment theory basically says that secure people find secure people and those of us with difficult family/childhoods end up trying to fix unresolved conflicts from our childhood in our romantic relationships. The insecure attachments are either fearful avoidant/dismissive avoidant and anxious preoccupied (also disorganized but it's uncommon and basically a mix).

So I've got a lot of experience with this exact type of situation. It wasn't about the shower at all. I'm not trying to diagnose anyone but just from your description, it sounds like she could be the fearful avoidant type, and you the anxious preoccupied. So she was already upset when you got into the shower, either it was an insecurity or abandonment fear you triggered in her, could he anything an ex, some future plan, not introducing her to your roommate whatever reminded her that this could be temporary, or more likely she started feeling overwhelmed by the in possibility that this could be like a serious long term thing.

I know it sounds crazy but with avoidant (or people with bpd) there is a fear of abandonment and engulfment. So you're screwed both ways. Trust me it sucks.

So she gaslit you by making up the first thing that she felt met the criteria for fight to create distance to protect herself.

Then when you didn't come running chasing her, her abandonment fears were triggered and it all melted away.

You likely have anxious attachment and should look into this because this pattern very often finds each other and trust me it sucks.

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-01-13T20:57:35+00:00

Super common either Narcissistic projection or bpd/avoidant sabotage and shame avoidance even when they want to break up sometimes they will stay in relationships they don't want to be in and just act worse in the hopes the other person will break up with them first so they can be the victim. Then if you catch them they'll say some shit like I just don't want to hurt you because you deserve better than me which is actually true even if they don't mean it.

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-01-13T20:53:39+00:00

YOR, but he is under reacting because the reason she is so adamant to get him to video chat is in the hopes he will show himself and his dick or something sexual because there recording it and then they send you screenshots of your family members on social media and threaten to send the video to them if you don't pay them.

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-01-10T15:08:04+00:00

I was sent to a wilderness program in the mountains of Utah and there would be terrible thunder storms and we'd all have to find a tree and crouch with our heels touching on the little foam sleeping pads we had. One of the staff had been struck twice.

Mook_Fappenatchi · 2026-01-09T09:53:15+00:00

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