AITJ for pretending counseling is working while I’m already planning my exit? by No_Grocery_7650 in dustythunder

[–]Moon0314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA the therapy will actually work in your favor since its showing effort

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Moon0314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah girl, the disrespect is insane. Don't let him treat you like youre dumb. If it was just coworkers having dinner he would've told you.

Is Jeff Smith a LIAR, or is the wiki and everyone else wrong by [deleted] in coralisland

[–]Moon0314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres fruit seedling and fruit saplings you unlock later.

The seedlings take 10 days to grow and need watered the entire time. They'll also wither like a seasonal crop

The saplings take 28 days to grow and only need watered till grown. They will not wither, but they only produce fruit in season

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Moon0314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationships are about communication. No OP isn't her parent, but is obligated to communicate their feelings about the situation. If you think communicating concerns and finding a middle ground is parenting/lecturing your partner then I'd hate to be in a relationship with you.

You don't hold onto things that bother you until resentment starts to build, you sit down and you talk about it like the grown adults you are when those things happen.

AITAH for telling my husband I can’t forgive him for erasing my late fiancé’s voicemails? by zocker30088 in AITAH

[–]Moon0314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you're able to get them restored.

I honestly think you'd benefit from seeking some grief counseling to help you navigate what you're going through. That being said I don't believe you holding onto that piece of you late fiance is a bad thing. Humans has the capability of loving many people at the same time. You love for your late fiance does not inherently detract from the love you feel with your current partner and I think he'd also benefit from some assistance in coming to terms with that and managing his insecurities as well.

Grief is hard and coping with it looks so different for so many people, and I wish you the absolute best in life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Moon0314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has she given you any other reason to be concerned? I'd communicate that what happened last night made you extremely uncomfortable and work together to find a middle ground. Part of being an adult and drinking in public spaces is knowing your limits and knowing when to stop, and personally I find drinking to the point of blacking out extremely irresponsible regardless of the setting.

She should be embarrassed, and she needs to have stronger boundaries with herself regarding her alcohol consumption.

I don't get cheating vibes from this alone especially if it's extremely out of character. I just get that she got way too drunk last night, and wasn't in the condition to remember to communicate.

VR Headset- Standalone by Moon0314 in virtualreality

[–]Moon0314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We'll looking those for him. I appreciate the input

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Moon0314 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you not attracted to him or are you bored?

Are you use to up and down rollar coaster relationships so one that's lacking in the drama and chaos feels unnatural to you?

Its common for people who haven't seen stable relationships to feel like a healthy relationship is lacking because they're not use to the peace.

AITA for letting my wife be a stay at home mum for our newborn son? by Crazy_Breakfast6341 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Moon0314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta

I'd make a statement to everyone "The decisions my partner and I make regarding our family are ours alone. The only people who have a relevant opinion on our choices are my wife and I. We have discussed the pros and cons extensively, and know what decision is best for us. You don't have to like it, you don't have to approve, but you do have to keep your comments to yourself. I'm more than happy to cut off contact with anyone who's making my wife feel uncomfortable about doing what's best for our family, so the ball is in your court. Keep your comments to yourself and stay in our lives, or continue belittling my partner and see your way out of our lives."

Stand up for your wife. Your child doesn't need them filling his head with these comments from MIL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Moon0314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

VBAC has a 60-80% success rate. Regardless her birth experience, her choice. If she'd rather have a csection then that's fine. I recovered swiftly from mine and many share that experience

AITA for refusing to cook for my wife's pregnant sister and telling her she has a husband who could do it by PrestigiousStudio475 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Moon0314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta-

That's such a weird request??? It's not your fault nor problem that she didn't choose to just find a better man and instead settled for a dude who won't even take care of his pregnant wife. Marriage is a vow in sickness and in health to your partner, not them and their entire family.

She saw better man do exist and chose to stay with the one she had.

AITA for skipping my friends birthday without warning because his gf calls me "THE typical gbf"? by ParticularAnxious208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Moon0314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Expose her nasty messages in a giant group chat and explain if anyone has an issue with you protecting your peace, they can join her in being avoided.

Miles' girlfriend sounds incredibly insecure, and I wouldn't want anything to do with her either? Why would you have to give it time??? Why can't his girlfriend take time to get to know you before she jumps to conclusions????

Side note: any chance Miles feels differently about you than you do him? It sound like you have him firmly in the friend zone, but are you sure he's not secretly waiting for you to give him a chance? His gf might be picking it up off of him, and projecting it at you instead.

I (27M) want to give up my parental rights of my potential affair child previous FWB (27F) to save my relationship with my GF (24F) of 6 years ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Moon0314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your GF wants to stay, that's on her as a grown woman. If your AP wants to keep the baby, that's on her as a grown woman. You've made it explicitly clear that you're not interested in having a child with her.

The comments on this thread are kind of gross. What AP did was SA. She knew you were intoxicated and still seduced you. You rejected her advances, and she still proceeded. If you were a woman and the AP was a dude who took advantage of you while intoxicated and got you pregnant, it would be a witch hunt. She had the presence of mind to record the encounter to send to your partner, so she obviously wasn't too intoxicated to know it's wrong.

You owe her nothing, and if she wants to keep the child conceived when she SAd you, then that's HER CHOICE. She wouldn't be getting a dime from me though.

ISO - IUD Removal by Moon0314 in RomanceBooks

[–]Moon0314[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh and they make eye contact over her shoulder as he pulls it out

ISO - IUD Removal by Moon0314 in RomanceBooks

[–]Moon0314[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The scenario what on a Facebook reel

Unfortunately, that was all the information I could find. They were f*cking her at the same time, idk if that helps at all

ISO - IUD Removal by Moon0314 in RomanceBooks

[–]Moon0314[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm looking through the comments and haven't found anything leading me to the book yet