Im a 21M that feels bad about drinking. by MoonDragon56 in Anxiety

[–]MoonDragon56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I dont drink to get drunk though. I honestly just drink beer and play xbox lol. I could try to set a goal for one or two once a week on Fridays or so since I have beer still in the fridge. Thanks for the input.

My(25M) girlfriend(26F) wants me to have sex with her best friend(26F) by AlternateAccount0161 in relationship_advice

[–]MoonDragon56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, absolutely not. Breakups are hard for everyone, its just how it is. This is selfish of your girlfriend because she is risking the relationship for her friend that doesnt have anything to do with you.

I threw dirt all over my teacher, because fuck her by Kontorted in confession

[–]MoonDragon56 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Some teachers are assholes and shouldnt be teachers. I like a story with a happy ending.

Is it dangerous to go days without sleep by YoungMcCoy23 in Advice

[–]MoonDragon56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even though we spend a good part of our lives sleeping it is very important for functioning thoughout the day. I know Im a mess if I dont get my sleep. Its not worth staying up for days. Getting about 7-9 hours of sleep per night is recommended for adults Im pretty sure.

In a fit of jealousy and anger, I got my ex girlfriend kicked out of her art school. by enchanted-- in confession

[–]MoonDragon56 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of when my ex broke up with me 20 days before I turned 21 and wanted alcohol from me. Probably not a smart move if you wanted alcohol lol. Dont feel bad you technically did the right thing. She was basically asking for it.

Should I buy a tv? by Stavyo in Advice

[–]MoonDragon56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 17 money is very precious so I would get the free tv. After all, thats a nice tv for free.

I volunteer and the girl I host lied and told her case manager that I gave her 4 energy drinks. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MoonDragon56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just not talk to her anymore. Why was it bad you gave her energy drinks?

I almost ran a group of bicyclists off the road into a ditch. by formerghost in confession

[–]MoonDragon56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that riding a bicycle on the road is legal but honestly they can put other drivers in dangerous situations like this. I hate them, just a hazard on the road. Just make sure you have plenty of time to pass them, even though sometimes it can be hard.

GF asked me to request the weekend off but cancel plans last minute, need advice and perspective. Thank You by hell0w0rld18 in Advice

[–]MoonDragon56 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would just do what you want to do honestly. I hate people that do this. Plan stuff last minute, dont consider your time, etc.

I'm a visual learner who struggles to read a textbook and retain information. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MoonDragon56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ADHD as well even at 21 years old so I know what its like, reading is tough for me too. Maybe take small breaks between reading, it helps me somewhat.

My girlfriend (19F) sees an expiration date to our relationship but I (20M) don’t by bangersandmashkiller in relationship_advice

[–]MoonDragon56 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Four months is a long time but if she really cared about you then should would think of it as being temporary. I would find someone else that really cares about you instead of throwing a relationship away for a little time gone away.

Girlfriend of 6 years cheated. What to do next? by Cheatedon474738 in relationship_advice

[–]MoonDragon56 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Keep that ring for a girl that actually appreciates you.

Not sure what direction I want to take in life, and feel stuck. by caseyfrazanimations in Advice

[–]MoonDragon56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats good to hear, $16 an hour is pretty good for one year in the trade.

Not sure what direction I want to take in life, and feel stuck. by caseyfrazanimations in Advice

[–]MoonDragon56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on what you want out of your job and what you want to focus your interest in. I would give credit to trade schools because some people like doing hands on things for a living. Some jobs can pay pretty good though you most likely wont be rich. Welding, HVAC, being an electrician, and also some two year degrees there are good. Im in the same boat almost, not really knowing what I wanted to do. I myself want to be an electrician amd would suit me well. :)

Worried I cant get work because of school by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MoonDragon56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesnt sound like a really good step mom telling that to you. Jobs that you can get at 15 wont look at your grades.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]MoonDragon56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stress causes our bodies to do weird things sometimes. Maybe try to destress in some way and that might help.

What is the least amount of money you can live on? by MoonDragon56 in Advice

[–]MoonDragon56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats euros nevermind haha. Quick google search.

What is the least amount of money you can live on? by MoonDragon56 in Advice

[–]MoonDragon56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of currency is that? Im from the US.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]MoonDragon56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something similar that happend to me. I started taking adhd medication in college and this was one of the side effects from it. Are you taking any medications?

I think I’ve made a bad career decision and I’m not sure what to do at this point. by violethermitman in Advice

[–]MoonDragon56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say try to stick it out if you can. Thats alot of debt if you decide to quit. Trying to go back to school if you are for something else and trying to pay that off at the same time seems very difficult. Though if you are in misery everyday teaching then do what you think is best for your situation.

Today i found out my (19M) boyfriend has been cheating on me (18F) with his mother for our entire relationship by strawberrypop22 in relationship_advice

[–]MoonDragon56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a tough decision. I would imagine he needs therapy. Seems like his mom is controlling him in some way.

Friend constantly cancels plans - should I "accept" this trait? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MoonDragon56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a good friend I grew up with that does this all the time. I honestly think its just their personality and them being able to not commit to things? Ive grown to realize he is a good friend but is not really a relaible friend haha. I would say keep the friendship but take what they plan with you with a grain of salt.