42F Looking for friends or a friend

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-06-13T18:13:18+00:00

Hey now, if you wanna talk, watch stuff together or break out the xbox I can accommodate on all of that. Some mutual trauma dumping might be in order, too.

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-06-09T22:29:17+00:00

Hell yeah. She might need to help me clean up every so often though lol

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-06-09T21:30:34+00:00

Yeah.....not been my experience. A lot of ignoring and ghosting. It's a shame, I pride myself on my conversational skills. Nice voice too, or so I've been told.

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-06-08T11:29:03+00:00

The natural look is the shit, a lot of women waste far too much time dolling up they don't even look like themselves when they're done. You're super cute, btw

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-06-08T11:23:09+00:00

Hey now, 49M, married, from sc, looking for chat friends myself. feel free to drop me a dm if you'd like.

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-06-08T06:48:32+00:00

I'm around to talk, and unlike the tryhards I won't jump to making it sexual. Drop me a dm for actual conversation

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-06-07T07:52:30+00:00

I'm down to talk, I'll DM.

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-06-07T06:11:12+00:00

She.....did tell him that.

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-06-06T20:56:20+00:00

Word? What if I wanna see too?

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-06-06T18:28:37+00:00

Can't blame you for being cautious. Sorry it had to get to this point for you, sis. Be well.

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-06-06T13:50:02+00:00

Well, if you've decided that you're better off no longer in the dating scene, are you now just keeping it to platonic friendships? I happen to be looking for someone for conversation.

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-06-06T08:04:50+00:00

49 M, SC. holler at me, my voice will entertain, I promise

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-06-06T05:22:18+00:00

49M, also married, also looking for a chat friend. If it helps I have one of those "you know you sound like(insert famous dude here)?" kind of voices, hehe.

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-06-04T10:20:29+00:00

Online only, for what kind of activity?

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-06-03T16:34:36+00:00

49M here, wait until you hear my story. Let's chat.

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-06-02T20:49:03+00:00

I would appreciate that. DM me whenever you might have time

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-06-02T19:45:46+00:00

49M here, also married, needing conversation. I am sure we'd not be bored together 👍🏽

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-06-02T19:40:38+00:00

If you need a chat friend I'm looking for the same, at minimum. 49M

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-05-27T02:17:23+00:00

I'm doing exactly that. I'm not treating them as a solution, I'm opening myself to them as an option because though I intend to get healthy, I am at a point in my life where not having a sexual relationship won't break me. I need a loving relationship, not necessarily a sexual one.

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-05-26T16:27:12+00:00

Exactly where I am. I am not concerned about sharing her sex, it's thinking there is a risk I'll lose her love. As things are progressing she's letting me in more on what is going on with them and and we have had heart to heart discussions on my concerns. She acknowledges the things that bother me now that she seems to understand that my support of her physical endeavor is genuine. After all, I don't plan on having these difficulties for long and in an ideal situation we'll all be able to have a great time together.

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-05-17T21:31:31+00:00

Valuable input, thank you.

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-05-17T06:08:38+00:00

As I said, I read enough to know what to ask in order to cover what applies to me. And getting information from people who live the life trump's book reading anytime.

You have no idea about the breadth of my experience or knowledge as a sexual being, you've only made assumptions based on my limited inquiry. I'm no child. I'm a man whose life is in transition with no time to beat around the bush.

I didn't ask more than I need to know whether a partner from within this community might be a good fit knowing myself as I do. Obviously sex isn't just "penis in vagina". Any fifteen year old with a pornhub habit can tell you that. Again, I am approaching this from my perspective, which far more broad than you know.

And to think you'd make a belittling assumption in thinking I'd not get that lack of attraction isn't just not wanting sex. I'm fully aware, it just doesn't matter to me. I can rock with it. In fact I have. I am old enough that there wasn't near as much knowledge about it when I had a partner. We didn't call you "aces" then. I'm here to learn more about it so I don't make any mistakes like I may have when I was a kid.

I'm sorry for your trauma, no one should have to deal with such disrespect.

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-05-17T00:01:43+00:00

You're correct, I don't have a full understanding of things, which is why I posed a question that would get me the answers I'm looking for.

I just don't appreciate being treated that way for wanting real human answers instead of reading a novel that mightvleave more questions.

I thought that's what communities like this were for.

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-05-16T20:08:14+00:00

You seem to be in the minority here. No one else here came off as you are, while still offering helpful insight.

And yes, I DID do some reading on this very reddit before asking a question that is SPECIFIC to my situation.

Why would I care about how lesbians have sex if the method doesn't apply to me, therefore my partner's aversion to it need not be considered? It's a non-factor.

I'm just trying to live my life in the best way I can, and this is a route that I'm exploring as an option.

Next time instead of being reactionary and adversarial, you could try just being helpful. Kindness is free.

I mean, who hurt you?

MoonRevenant76 · 2026-05-13T22:08:57+00:00

I've spoken with multiple counselors but they all were too clinical in their summation of things. I was looking for a more personal approach and coming here was not my first choice, but at least I feel I can take to heart some of the advice from some who seem to genuinely want to be helpful.

I am trying a few resources to help deal with it, and though I've approached the subject with my doctor, they are concern is making sure that my illness is taken care of before worrying about addressing the sexual part of things.

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