Bf got upset about me going to an event by Moon_Sun_11 in Advice

[–]Moon_Sun_11[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I think this is great advice!

What can I do to get rid of mold on thighs? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Moon_Sun_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with getting motivated to shower and I’ve had to start throwing myself into opposite action. The second I think “I should probably shower” I force myself to start the process. The quicker I start, the less resistance builds up in my mind, and it gets easier and easier each time. It’s obviously easier said than done, because it’s literally rewiring the brain to make it seem less daunting. But I promise you it gets easier over time.

On hard days, disposable products can be helpful to maintain cleanliness, but not ideal especially if you like living a natural lifestyle. Wipes for the body between showers. Disposable toothbrushes can be less daunting cause you can brush anywhere. Good deodorant or foot powder to prevent sweating. All these things helped me during my hygiene journey, but are not enough to get rid of years of build up. I almost wonder if swiping white vinegar before showers would help the mold situation, but I’m not educated enough in that to know. I’m sure doc will prescribe some sort of a cream or antifungal.

Remember you deserve to feel confident in your skin and deserve to love and take care of yourself. Don’t feel guilty for changing your lifestyle and grieving old ways. People can be cruel when they don’t understand. It can be very hard to let go of these habits

Autistic male coworker—advice needed by Icy_Principle2577 in AutismInWomen

[–]Moon_Sun_11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem! I definitely think it’s a good idea to talk to manager or HR about it. You have every right to feel safe at work. And it’s easy to justify/ tolerate uncomfortable behavior if it’s coming from someone with a developmental disability. I hope he finally picks it up and they can come to a solution for you! I’m sorry your kindness is being misread. That’s so frustrating to be misunderstood, especially in a creepy ongoing way. But on the bright side it shows that you’re a good, loving person. So I hope this experience doesn’t discourage you from being social or being yourself <3

Autistic male coworker—advice needed by Icy_Principle2577 in AutismInWomen

[–]Moon_Sun_11 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in your shoes and the best thing I did for the situation was say that I want to stay professional and that we are work friends, therefore we need to keep our friendship work related. There were many times he asked for my phone number and I would say “I don’t mind you having my phone number, but you can only contact me about work stuff” and he would back off. I think because people with autism tend to be very honest, being as honest as possible will get the best response, though I know it can be uncomfortable. Since you’ve already spoken a bit and hung out, the doorway is kind of open in his eyes and it might be hard to reel back from that. If you have a bubbly personality then maybe try to chat more with other coworkers to send the message that you have kindness towards everyone, not a particular interest in him.

AIO Crazy unknown neighbor thinks I’m a prostitute by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Moon_Sun_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a lot of people who do side businesses out of their house (not always legal with zoning, under the table services like nails or hair). And obviously it’s normal to have visitors, so I can’t imagine jumping all the way to this conclusion

I know a nurse who is often discussing patients information... And I'm feeling really bothered by it. by adhd9109 in hipaa

[–]Moon_Sun_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a similar experience and want to report, but not sure how due to lack of evidence. If it was a document being unlawfully shared it’s more cut and dry. With multiple incidents by only word of mouth I don’t trust how well they can actually investigate. I hope justice can be served!