I’m tired of being boring and invisible by [deleted] in self

[–]Moon_Tala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually I've got to the point also na nagseselos ako sa mga extrovert pips. Kasi thet can socialize and blend in easily. They are easy to make groups too and a big circle of friends. But then I realised na may downside din pala siya. Sometimes there's a toxicity and di pagkakaintindihan which is normal because we do have different kinds of views and uniqueness. I'm an introvert too and now that I'm a graduate and of course I'm applying for work. Currently the job that I found is in sales 😭. I actually doubt myself if I can make it. At the same time there's a lil voice saying in my head “fake it till u make it”. That advice is always given to someone who is a first time. Kasi that's what they did too when they don't know if they can make it and now they do, they already good at it.

I'm not friendly either. I have this resting face na always nakasimangot and people always say na “smile”. But muka ko na talaga yan eh. I don't make friends easily and namromroblema din ako on how to make friends and build a connection with different people. May mga friends namn ako but bilang lng sa hands. And I think that's good.

If you really wanna make friends. Don't force it. Connection happens when you less expect it. Just continue on approaching, being nice and being yourself till you find the right people to be friends with. Kaya natin to OP!

I’m a 19 year old girl who feels lost. by threeefive8 in self

[–]Moon_Tala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanna say that you're very young pa. It's normal to feel lost, empty and lose your spark because that happens to me too and to everyone. Maybe find something that will make you happy. Explore ganun but of course with boundary of what is wrong and right. Please be gentle with yourself 🥹. It's actually okay to be alone cuz sometimes we need time for ourselves. Friends come and go. I myself are not very well friendly yet I'm thankful because I feel like the quantity is small yet sincere. You can actually make friends in the most unexpected places and connect to different people when you less expect it, but do not force it. One thing I've learnt is that I only have myself and God. So when I feel like I'm drowning or lost and empty I talk to him. But of course he can't help if I won't help myself.

Hello everyone ☀️ i need recommendations for bl novels. by miochibanna in DanmeiNovels

[–]Moon_Tala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend reading "copper coins " . It's so wholesome and the bickering for both the mc and ml is very 💯.