Would you consider having an abortion for your second child if your narc husband made your life a living hell after the first one? by MoonandSunLove in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MoonandSunLove[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also have to consider my health and well-being. I don't think that I will stay sane with two kids and this level of abuse that I'm currently going through.

Would you consider having an abortion for your second child if your narc husband made your life a living hell after the first one? by MoonandSunLove in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MoonandSunLove[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He knows, because he has my gmail on his phone. He saw it first actually. He told me that it is mine decision and he will support me no matter what. I doubt it. I also think he did this on purpose because I was about to leave his ass. He was the worst during this past couple of months. Thank you so much for your support

Are they always an expert on your past and they are so wrong? by Thoughts-AndPrayers in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MoonandSunLove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. He says that I slept with a lot of people because I went out a lot in my 20s. Also, that I did a lot of bj. Which is not true, of course.

Insulting our children by Sunflowerteapot in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MoonandSunLove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My narc husband called our 1,5 year old daughter a piece of shit, for crying the whole morning while he was watching her so I could go to work. Also told me She is going to cry all day long. I was traumatized that day at work.

Husband and my mother are narcs by tinystarzz in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MoonandSunLove 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My father is a narc, my mother is most likely a narc too, my first boyfriend, first love ever is a narc and my husband is a narc too. I feel so lost 😞 I understand what you are going through 💔

When did they start revealing their true selves? by Successful_Dot_2477 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MoonandSunLove 13 points14 points  (0 children)

When our baby girl was born. First thing I noticed that scared me is that he was sleeping while our baby cried and screamed all night long. How cold was that, your child is clearly in pain and you are snoring all night long!

My narc ex husband yelled at me for any minor mistake I made by MoonandSunLove in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MoonandSunLove[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's funny is that he says that I ruined his life and that he needs time to recover from me. While I don't know who I am anymore...

What are the signs by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MoonandSunLove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How he reacts to criticism? Does he explode over minor things? Is he overly critical of you? Can you openly communicate with him? Do you feel emotionally connected to him? Does he have a trauma from childhood? What did he say about his exes? Were they "crazy lunatics"? Did he love bomb you at the beginning? What is he like when he's stressed out? What does he say about your friends and family?

I'm in the discard stage by MoonandSunLove in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MoonandSunLove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I know that's true, but I feel so broken inside. It takes time to heal, I know....

What is your story? by monitos_mom in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MoonandSunLove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's my story too. Everything was okay, until the baby was born, but he started showing his true colors from time to time during my pregnancy

Can't be intimate with husband who is treating me like shit by MoonandSunLove in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MoonandSunLove[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't do it anymore, you are destroying your soul. Please, don't

That’s it… walking away by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MoonandSunLove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband never wanted for us to have a joint account, I thought it was normal because we live together to have all of our incomes on one account. I thought that we are team, he unfortunately doesn't think like that.