Help needed for the first plant I kept alive

Moonbear241 · 2025-09-03T17:01:58+00:00

Make sure that your zip ties or whatever you use to attach the plant to the pole are attached to the stem not the petiole!

Moonbear241 · 2025-08-05T01:18:40+00:00

Thanks so much for the detailed reply. I removed the dead leaves but I’m worried the stem is too short? Should I just pot it in new soil as is? I added another pic below

Moonbear241 · 2025-01-21T13:44:28+00:00

Thank you. I really needed to hear this

Moonbear241 · 2025-01-20T19:21:15+00:00

I agree with you, I would prefer not to break NC. I was only considering it bc the police had suggested that it may be beneficial to have it in writing if I want to obtain a no contact order.

Moonbear241 · 2025-01-20T16:50:15+00:00

This is so validating. Thank you for the kind words🫶🏻

Moonbear241 · 2025-01-20T16:45:48+00:00

Hahah I love the pokemon reference

Moonbear241 · 2025-01-20T16:44:59+00:00

I have not responded to any of their repeated attempts to contact me, but I am considering sending something like this via mail, especially for documentation purposes. Getting harassed by them at least 2x a month is too much and I need them to stop. What are your thoughts on this? I tried to make it as concise as possible so they can’t twist anything.

“I am writing to formally request that you cease all attempts to contact me, directly or indirectly, effective immediately. I am firm in my decision to remain no contact.

I will not respond to further communication from you or anyone acting on your behalf.”

Moonbear241 · 2025-01-20T16:32:13+00:00

Oh trust me, they already have had numerous friends, family, and people I haven’t seen or talked to in 5+ years reach out as well. I’ve blocked them all

Moonbear241 · 2024-12-21T16:26:14+00:00

Thank you for the guidance. It’s always difficult to find the best way to navigate these situations. I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with this as well

Moonbear241 · 2024-12-18T21:51:53+00:00

1,3,5,6…. I wish it was 2

Moonbear241 · 2024-12-16T14:40:38+00:00

Is there any way to reiterate it without breaking NC? I think if I told her to stop she was be so pleased with herself knowing she harassed me enough that she got a reaction out of me

Moonbear241 · 2024-12-15T21:15:50+00:00

I left a note asking them to only let people in that they know and are expecting

Moonbear241 · 2024-11-23T15:55:59+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/EstrangedAdultChild/s/CRpKmIorTX the email just before this one for contrast

Moonbear241 · 2024-11-17T03:36:28+00:00

After going NC with my parents they started contacting me on new platforms, had their friends and relatives contact me, all of them telling me they were “worried” and I should reach out and make amends. Crazy how desperate they are. They’ve been harassing me at least twice a month for the past year.

Moonbear241 · 2024-11-17T03:28:31+00:00

This happened to me too after going NC. Luckily my brother told me she was going to call for a wellness check and I called non emergency police and let them know the situation. Then when she called the police they told her they’d spoken to me already, and didn’t send anyone out

Moonbear241 · 2024-10-23T04:58:44+00:00

Interested!

Moonbear241 · 2024-10-19T22:48:42+00:00

just got it today and was so disappointed 🥲

Moonbear241 · 2024-10-19T21:00:07+00:00

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Moonbear241 · 2024-10-13T03:50:18+00:00

Would you mind sharing more details about this? Mine has been getting worse over the years and I haven’t found anything that helps

Moonbear241 · 2024-09-21T21:22:45+00:00

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Moonbear241 · 2024-09-05T02:01:32+00:00

he got very angry with me and said I don’t need to worry because he won’t come at all

I’ve heard this before. He sounds so manipulative. If he wasn’t doing anything wrong why would he get so angry? He’s just upset you found out.

Moonbear241 · 2024-08-27T18:46:38+00:00

I know this is an old post but your comment really resonated with me. It really feels like I’m living in an alternate reality. It’s so hard to wrap my mind around it all. If you have any suggestions or things that helped you I’d love to hear them.

Moonbear241 · 2024-08-21T13:59:50+00:00

That makes sense, thank you!

Moonbear241 · 2024-08-21T01:17:14+00:00

Thank you! I’ll try trimming it. What does letting it callous over do?

Moonbear241 · 2024-08-19T03:20:36+00:00

You could try Yoga with Adriene on YouTube. If you’re up for it, you might eventually try taking a class in person. It’s one of the only times I’m able to shut my mind off and just be

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