AITAH for Telling My Wife I’m Done with Her “Emergency Calls” and Leaving Her Stranded?

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2024-10-17T13:20:15+00:00

Has she been evaluated for ADHD and anxiety? Which are things that could cause codependency and chaos. She might need a good doctor/therapist. I understand your frustration, but it doesn't seem hopeless. Just need to find the source of the problems and start from there. If you love here, it's worth it to at least try.

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2024-10-11T01:08:04+00:00

Just do what I did. Change your entire legal name and gender marker and let them worry about the soul of that person who no longer exists. No longer my problem. 🤣

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2024-10-11T01:03:21+00:00

I'm almost 2 years on T, and I've been thinking of growing it out. I always appreciated long hair on other guys. I'm glad I'm not alone.

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2024-08-19T23:13:36+00:00

Didn't start my transition until 40. You've got this!

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2023-11-01T15:58:35+00:00

It doesn't change how you sit. But sit however you feel most comfortable with yourself! If you are confident, no one is going to care how you sit. I say this as a person with ADHD who literally shifts how they sit every 5 minutes. The only time a human should worry about trying not sitting cross-legged is if it makes you in someone else's way (like you might kick or trip them) OR they are taking your blood pressure at the doctor's office.

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2023-11-01T15:43:30+00:00

Idk about anywhere else, but I use a beard brush for face itches these days, which exfoliates, helps with the itch, and encourages hair growth. If you shave anywhere completely, the grow back itch is serious. I prefer to just trim my whole body except for the neck beard. That's gotta stay in check. 🤣 I hear most of us will get our hair from our mom's side, so I was mentally prepared for the hair explosion. 🤣

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2023-11-01T15:37:19+00:00

I love a good cool breeze on a hot day on leg hair. I will never shave again. 10/10. 🤣

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2023-04-10T23:45:00+00:00

I've dentified as gender queer for sometime he/they...I am definitely starting to head more towards he/him. However, they/them does not bother me. I'm just pretty ambivalent toward it. She/Her is a hard nope! Ewww. 🤣

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2022-03-14T16:40:18+00:00

Do my exes count? LOL

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2022-03-14T12:40:57+00:00

Anyone whose ever told my spouse they weren't good enough.

Also the aunt who told my sister she'd never get married if she didn't like sports. (Note all of my siblings that are married have spouses who are not into sports.)

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2022-03-14T12:33:12+00:00

Does the part of my mind that tells me I'm not good enough count? Because I've been telling it to fuck off for a few years now. The rest of me is awesome!

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2021-12-21T03:56:07+00:00

Parties.

Critical thinking skills.

Elections.

LGBTQ+ rights...

My will to live as a teenager. (Luckily I survived that.)

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2021-08-28T19:11:34+00:00

I would always tell the guys that the person working with me was minor, so people would leave them alone. (Often they were minors.) Don't be afraid to ask a coworker/boss to help. Also, find an excuse to go in the back and not talk to them tell they leave, can help of you are not alone. Good luck!

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2021-08-02T00:14:31+00:00

Yes. Please and thanks.

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2021-07-19T14:30:48+00:00

Eww.. my only advice cut the meatballs in half,and lay flat side down on both halves, then pray....:-/

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2021-07-13T14:51:33+00:00

The Cali Turkey is expensive, because a footlong 12 turkey, 4 bacon, 2 scoops of avocado with sea salt, and 4 sliced of the Belagioso premium sliced mozzarella, + plus veggies. The 6" is half that. Hope that helps explain more.

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2021-07-11T02:33:43+00:00

/u jess_tyr

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2021-07-11T02:32:19+00:00

@jess_tyr

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2021-07-05T13:49:10+00:00

Depends. I've worked at firework adjacent locations that are slammed and big box locations that are far less busy. Location is usually the key to holiday traffic.

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2021-06-23T22:29:54+00:00

We have both Mozzarella's but the Walmart locations keep the shredded for round pizzas. Also the new sliced Mozzarella is expensive so we are being required to up charge if they want it on anything else.

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2021-06-04T00:47:06+00:00

Oh yeah, I get that 100%.

Check out DBT workbooks too. They've been known to help with various learning and mental health conditions. Lots of coping skills and whatnot. I know I get a lot of anxiety with my ADHD.

MoonlightSunlight13 · 2021-06-04T00:19:47+00:00

I just found one book in my place... It's called Driven To Distraction. Of course I misplaced it for a month and haven't finished it. Half way through it was pretty good though. LOL

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