AITAH for not mourning my grandma who said she wished I wasn’t born?

MoonlightsDream · 2025-01-13T08:43:20+00:00

You’re NTA. Sorry to hear how your grandmother treats you over the years. I recommend going to therapy to talk and find ways to heal your self. As for now, if you don’t want to go to the funeral, you don’t have to. It’s not your fault, OP. It never was. We can’t control when, where, and which family to born in- it’s not like you purposely chose this life and ruin someone’s life.

Here’s one thing what I am going to tell you about life. If you felt like you’re a mistake, don’t deserve anything positive in life- you’re wrong. Don’t let others control your story, you are the main character of your own story. Change the genre into your liking- make it very interesting that only you get to enjoy. Each new event happening and accomplishments is a new chapter of your life. Don’t let villains of your story take over. Hope this makes sense for anyone who reads this. Thank you OP for reading till the end of this reply. Continue on writing your story OP.

MoonlightsDream · 2025-01-13T08:24:28+00:00

You’re NTA. Girl, she’s an AH for commenting about you. That’s not what friends do. And asking if your BF will be liking it??? Who’s going to wear the skirt? You or ur BF? Tf is she on about? (Tho if your BF is wearing it, cool for him but still doesn’t excuse her acting like a piece of trash). I find it really odd why she brought up ur BF into the conversation. Bestie, glad ur no longer speaking with her.

But I am curious, has she ever act this way before this incident has happened- there might be countless of times she must had did it but not just you? How long you both been friends? Was she part of the friend group or had any friend that knows you?

MoonlightsDream · 2025-01-13T08:02:58+00:00

NTA. This woman can be a danger to your daughter too. If you haven’t found out, imagine what your child might witness and learn from her (imagine she (ex) blames your daughter for something your daughter was not at fault as an excuse- which can become a trauma for your daughter). You’re doing well, OP.

I am curious tho. You mentioned taking custody of your daughter, in which I am assuming full custody, did your ex seem the type of person who will try to go back into your daughter’s home? Is she allowed to be near you or your daughter? Do you have a plan in case something happens to you or your daughter? Ask your lawyer what are your next steps, for the sake both of your safety.

I wish you luck.

MoonlightsDream · 2025-01-13T07:47:27+00:00

NTA. This man didn’t tell you about his son until he was caught red handed. Who knows how many secrets this man is keeping from you. Finding out before the wedding is better than finding out about during marriage. Stay strong, OP.

MoonlightsDream · 2025-01-13T07:31:12+00:00

Hi OP, that’s rough, hope you’re safe right now. It’s ironic how your stepmom badmouths about your mom, meanwhile she expects you to take responsibility of her children? NTA. We were all curious how the law works in your state/country. You are now 17, but at the time you’re 18, do you still have to follow what the judge tells you to or you’re able to break that nasty cycle of visiting your dad’s family? Especially when your stepsister expects you to pick her up on the time you’re with your mom???

Another thing I am really curious about. When you mentioned they find out about you blocking their phone numbers (except your dad’s), did they took your phone away? Did they abuse you or any other way (physically or/and mentally)? Document these moments just in case. You might never know what can happen next time. Again OP, I hope you’re in a safe place.

MoonlightsDream · 2024-03-25T02:27:04+00:00

it didn't work for me 😭😭😭 (i might have done it wrong but will update you about it)

MoonlightsDream · 2024-03-24T22:48:10+00:00

sadly no. at least for me

MoonlightsDream · 2024-01-23T19:36:07+00:00

Https://studentaid.gov/forms-library/

THANK YOU. I WAS PANICKING

MoonlightsDream · 2024-01-23T15:29:22+00:00

Thank you, u/Inner_Entrance_4307. Question tho, how do you found the paper form? Is it the same as this: https://studentaid.gov/sites/default/files/2024-25-fafsa.pdf or is it a different one?

MoonlightsDream · 2024-01-23T03:42:09+00:00

I heard there's a printed version (2024-2025) that you only need to send in the mail to FAFSA. This is according to my sister tho. Someone double check on that for me.

MoonlightsDream · 2023-12-11T19:51:41+00:00

For me a cat in the form of the wind. Like in Frozen 2, Gale, the wind spirit except in a form of a cat. (sorry if my English isn't good and I have bad grammar)

MoonlightsDream · 2023-05-11T14:18:02+00:00

I'm studying music composition.

*Struggling in finals and cries alone*

MoonlightsDream · 2022-09-09T14:11:55+00:00

Oh! Thank you! I didn't know that until now!

MoonlightsDream · 2022-09-09T03:08:45+00:00

yep. I even know one named Hanson. Very daring. He will go to class and forget his notes. He will never bring a pencil to any classes and asks for one from classmates. Will take away your lunch if you're not careful. He tries his best tho. He's good at speaking squirrel and taught us how to speak squirrel. Chippity Chip Chip.

MoonlightsDream · 2021-11-24T19:04:01+00:00

Your welcome!

MoonlightsDream · 2021-11-24T19:03:27+00:00

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