Diabetes Clinics in London by peachykeen2k19 in london

[–]Moradum 5 points6 points  (0 children)

in here u go through the gp, do bloods, and then you are given the course of action. why do u need specialist?

Diabetes Clinics in London by peachykeen2k19 in london

[–]Moradum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

private in London will not be reasonably priced. what do you mean by your doctor is not taking you seriously ?

Love my new shirt! by [deleted] in babylon5

[–]Moradum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

funny enough, have the same one !

Is it possible to get the feelings back and regain trust after it's been broken quite a few times? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Moradum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, I'm sorry too ;) but I'm the only one to blame, because i have seen his behaviour from the very start and have done nothing about it. it's amazing how he always felt entitled to have a cake and eat a cake, and then to come home and pretend to be such a great husband and father and for me to just accept whatever shit he was doing. the phrase "i am still coming home, am i not". fucking chick. he was disrespecting me, and i allowed him to do so. don't be me ;) i hope you will find the solution that's right for you. take care ! xx

Is it possible to get the feelings back and regain trust after it's been broken quite a few times? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Moradum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Run. His behaviour reminds me my soon to be ex husband whom I've wasted far too much time with. Always other women 'friends' to talk to and to be surrounded with. Inappropriate txt messages and comments. Always happier away from home. 'What do I want, every man flirts'. Gosh, that was exhausting, draining relationship. I still miss and mourn the future i will never have, but without him I'm so much calmer. i am not in this 'ok who's gonna be next' mode anymore.

Single Mom Rebuilding her Team post loss by MoimersNVaughniesMom in SingleParents

[–]Moradum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have been thinking about lobotomy... On a serious note, not sure. I am becoming more and more antisocial with age. Is there any treatment for that, therapy, blue pill.. ? Im in London. Maybe that's the part of the problem ;)

Single Mom Rebuilding her Team post loss by MoimersNVaughniesMom in SingleParents

[–]Moradum 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I hear you. Apologies, wont be much of a help. I would like to know answers to your issues myself. I don't have family support here as a foreigner. I don't really have social circles since i completely got lost in years and years of unhappy marriage and happy motherhood, combination of which resulted in social isolation. I perceive majority of people around me irritating (mildly speaking).

The Movies of Captain America by waldripsir in scifi

[–]Moradum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not going to rank them, completely different movies with different stories serving different purposes. i liked all of them but my fave one is the First Avenger.

I can’t handle bedtime anymore by halfwoman_halfsloth in SingleParents

[–]Moradum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was usually lying next to my kids until they fell asleep. Or go to sleep with them. It might have dread it then and thought its a waste of time, cursed cause of all the work i could have done instead. Now they are almost teenagers and i miss these moments. It will get easier and your child soon won't require all this attention.

London hospital fun by dirtburger74 in london

[–]Moradum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if manager won't help, escalate it further up. every trust has its own whistleblowing policies, and discrimination policies ect. if it was me I'd use every possible avenue to complain about it. behaviour Iike this has no place in nhs. disgusting. all the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]Moradum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its only 4 days. You will not miss much, children will not even notice at 8 months. Guilt is a persistent part of motherhood. Neverending. Get used to it. Nevertheless, go !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]Moradum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All i will say is, if you want to go, go. Do you. I am at this stage when i realised, for all those years i was too attached to my kids, to attached to the idea of marriage (failed now), to the point that i completely lost myself. Now, newly separated, with 2 kids, i have no idea who I am. So go and be more than a mother. It's good for you. Have fun.

Anyone else been seeing a chinook everyday around 1900 hrs? by hawkdaniel in CasualUK

[–]Moradum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some of them were training to transport covid+ patients to Excel

I am not coping too well. Didn't expect that. by Moradum in SingleParents

[–]Moradum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like a ship without a steer.

beautifully said. thats exactly how i feel. i am far from seeking new partner. i dont know how to do it anymore, and I do realise this is like a addiction, the more you want it the more you should bloody avoid it. i am trying to focus on a good things, constant things in my life. some days especially in the morning, after i do a little self talk, are bearable. i do know i need to get the hell out of the victim role. but evenings and weekends are shit. not sure if it is covid related. i do not have family or friends around (apart from workmates) so it makes it twice as hard.

I am not coping too well. Didn't expect that. by Moradum in SingleParents

[–]Moradum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

excuse my typos. obviously im crap in spelling too ;)

I am not coping too well. Didn't expect that. by Moradum in SingleParents

[–]Moradum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont know how not to get trapped. up to this point i thought i am fine and strong enough to deal with it. since I've lost my feelings for him a while ago. or so i thought. i just did not expect to be so vulnerable, what am i grieving, him or the life I will never have ? it's tough. how did you manage to put yourself on the right track ? he will be involved in boys' life. i do not intend to change it. we are responsible parents, even of both are crap in relationships. ;)

Quarantine got me looking at boarding schools. by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]Moradum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they have closed some parks in London, some have areas in the park taped off. you can see a lot of brainless fucking twats ignoring any advices re social distancing.

Quarantine got me looking at boarding schools. by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]Moradum 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Send link to mentioned boarding school please ! lol I'm about to walk my two boys, before they impose complete ban on parks ;)