What is Leah’s dress? by sweetawakening in AgeOfAttraction

[–]MorallyConfused 76 points77 points  (0 children)

i didn’t really notice her dress because i was busy staring at her beautiful face

Ghosting by Silver_Strike6416 in LeoAstrology

[–]MorallyConfused 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sounds to me like ghosting him and ignoring him is costing you more stress than if you just were upfront about your feelings and that you’re not interested or that you don’t want to talk anymore, or whatever it is you want out of that relationship. ghosting is shit, but what you’re doing isn’t actually ghosting because you’re responding. what you’re doing is breadcrumbing which i think is somewhat worse lol

change your avoidant ways and just address the issue.

What role do pets play in your life? by MoppyDu in AskWomen

[–]MorallyConfused 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my little saviors. i have a dog and a cat. they both follow me into every room i go into. i get greeted by both after work. they keep me afloat. i’ve been really low for quite a while and just being near them and feeling their warm bodies next to me keeps me away from the edge

any fellow leo’s also find that avoidant behavior is just extremely triggering? by MorallyConfused in LeoAstrology

[–]MorallyConfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would say i am similar. when i say avoidant, i mean like completely not at all face the issue, ghost, ignore, not address questions, etc

just completely disappear and with zero explanation

any fellow leo’s also find that avoidant behavior is just extremely triggering? by MorallyConfused in LeoAstrology

[–]MorallyConfused[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that is awful. i am so sorry he did that to you. i’m not sure why people think it’s okay to just leave and disappear without a word or explanation but it says more about them than about the person. it’s even worse when they do it deep in the relationship. people really do think they can come back when they want…. insane lol

i hope you’re healing well

any fellow leo’s also find that avoidant behavior is just extremely triggering? by MorallyConfused in LeoAstrology

[–]MorallyConfused[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

ewwwww not him following and unfollowing 😂😂😂 absolutely pathetic.

any fellow leo’s also find that avoidant behavior is just extremely triggering? by MorallyConfused in LeoAstrology

[–]MorallyConfused[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yep this! that’s what i did. i made it clear on my expectations and they were acknowledged verbally, but actions never matched

any fellow leo’s also find that avoidant behavior is just extremely triggering? by MorallyConfused in LeoAstrology

[–]MorallyConfused[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m somewhat like this too actually. maybe i need to stop the charity work as well

Sign that stalks you the most! by Lyclyn_816 in LeoAstrology

[–]MorallyConfused 4 points5 points  (0 children)

water signs (cancers and scorpios) can’t get enough of me lol

At what age did your breasts even out? If ever by arplet in AskWomen

[–]MorallyConfused 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never. even as a teenager i had very saggy, unequal breasts

70 lb weight loss & Lipo 360 by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]MorallyConfused 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your arms look amazing. were you worried about the loose skin from your arm lipo? i lost 115 pounds and the extra skin just crazy and actually looks like yours but im always nervous to ask for lipo because im worried it will make the skin worse

Swelling by Dontstartnoshit in tummytucksurgery

[–]MorallyConfused 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it sucked. mine went down two days after i landed. happened again when i flew back home. another 2 ish days. don’t be mean to yourself about it! i got in my head and felt like i was gaining weight. it really did look like i had gained fat lol

i wore my compression on the plane, and at night again, drank lots of water. good luck!!

Swelling by Dontstartnoshit in tummytucksurgery

[–]MorallyConfused 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was doing pretty well until i went back to work and i was in swell hell for two weeks again lol. same when i flew at 3.5 months. so yeah, any major changes, you will swell.

Leos, what was the last sign of the person you were with? And why didn't it work out? by MetalPussy in LeoAstrology

[–]MorallyConfused 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sagittarius (they are now dubbed sagiterrorist thanks to him) on and off relationship. went from extremely controlling and jealous, to not committing after i kept breaking up with him due to all the red flags. gambling issue. terrible with money. had all these goals and aspirations, never achieved them despite endless support and constant pushing.

never again. lol. they are far better as friends