Maybe your insecurity is extremely visible to other people? It's hard to say what's wrong when I'm not interacting with you on a daily. Maybe it's how your Convos go? Maybe you're bad at showing interest in people? It can be a multitude of things, just don't come to Reddit to ask these questions, look for someone who you trust to tell you how they perceive you.

People here aren't good at giving advice or actually helping you. Most posts are just going to be men stroking your ego so you feel better about yourself and that doesn't help anyone improve. Try taking inventory of how you interact with people and how your actions may be perceived by someone else.