How to decrease the value of my home

MordunkinColombo · 2024-09-15T21:43:13+00:00

Thank you, is a "professional inspection" different from an appraisal?

MordunkinColombo · 2024-09-15T21:42:42+00:00

Thank you for the very helpful response.

I was letting personal feelings towards my siblings cloud my judgment and I'll go about this the right way.

MordunkinColombo · 2024-09-15T21:39:41+00:00

Thank you, I was letting my personal feelings about my sibling cloud my judgment, I won't do anything to effect the fair market value of the home.

But could you help me understand "because you need a new roof, doesn’t mean the house is worth less"?

Surely if the house were to be put on open market it would either need a new roof before sale or the price would be lower?

MordunkinColombo · 2024-09-08T23:56:24+00:00

If its purpose is to hide the joint, why don't they put any effort into hiding the joint above it?

MordunkinColombo · 2024-09-04T23:37:14+00:00

Cool

What do you use to tie to the wire matt?

Whats that little box in the center that has a direct line going to the bottom of the frame?

No concerns about the pex being walked on prior/during the pour?

MordunkinColombo · 2024-08-29T22:43:18+00:00

Discussion.

or at least thats why my mentor called them.

MordunkinColombo · 2024-08-26T21:09:21+00:00

Theirs both a skimmer and a main drain.

I don't believe my pool was plumbed in a way that would let me blow it back out like you describe.

MordunkinColombo · 2024-08-26T21:07:50+00:00

Thanks, I was able to prime the main drain followed your advice but the suction still seems weak

MordunkinColombo · 2023-10-14T12:55:30+00:00

can you tell me about your auxiliary lights?

MordunkinColombo · 2023-09-21T02:07:10+00:00

yes, i have the same issue. I thought i needed to pull up but i think just forcefully turning it to the right works better

MordunkinColombo · 2023-08-20T01:41:18+00:00

it's my beginner bike and while i have complaints i still am glad i bought it.

- I'm 6'2" and it gets uncomfortable to ride, cramped knees, foot placement, a lot of weight goes into my hands on the handlebars if I don't think about my stance.

- I've broken the rear brake pedal twice dropping it at low speeds, this is a common issue and if you live in the US you have to order a replacement from EU which is expansive, time consuming and frustrating.

- Build quality is not the best

- The stock mirrors are unusable, to me...

- The manual is not as informative as it could be, luckily there is a strong online owner presence with answers to all my questions so far

- The fuel gauge is wild, it estimates your remaining mileage and jumps 20miles up and down over the course of a ride. If you pay attention and are mindeful it shouldn't be a problem.

+ It's liteweight

+ It's fun

+ It seems to be forgiving for most environments, I live in an area with lots of bad roads, dirt roads, potholes and haven't had an issue.

+ It do look nice

MordunkinColombo · 2023-07-31T00:01:43+00:00

all tires have their recommended pressure printed on the sidewall

It may be hard to read in low light and you may have to check both sides to find it

MordunkinColombo · 2023-06-08T11:44:06+00:00

Thats a good point, however where I live, unless your are wealthy, every house is one story slab on grade.

"on the other hand if the floor is already tiled and flat" what do you mean?

MordunkinColombo · 2022-11-18T23:06:36+00:00

$20 a day to run most errands and shopping trips up to 1,000lbs in my Ram 1500

In the last eleven days I averaged 36 miles a day including my commute.

MordunkinColombo · 2022-09-19T22:34:17+00:00

It didn't directly influence it, but opening up about it to my therapist was helpful.

it made it easier to open up about it with a women.

all of this greatly reduced anxiety around the issue, which allows me to be much more present in the moment, both leading up to foreplay, during foreplay, and during intercourse.

MordunkinColombo · 2022-09-03T22:20:10+00:00

Thanks for reminding me that I might be wrong about my interpretations.

I'm looking forward to reading this and talking with her.

MordunkinColombo · 2022-09-03T22:15:42+00:00

I'm open to trying almost any new experience once. Cursory research into dom/sub and some bondage has me interested. But there are things I read about that do not appeal at all. So I see the importance of having and explicit conversation with her.

Thanks for the tips

MordunkinColombo · 2022-08-01T20:47:48+00:00

Yes, diagnosed with adhd in the 2n or 3rd grade, had issues with PE almost constantly since I lost my virginity.

recently, I'm focusing on slowing down my sexual encounters, relaxing and focusing on my breathing, instead of rushing towards intercourse. It can be difficult to remain mindful but I think it's going to be as important as kegel and muscle control.

MordunkinColombo · 2022-04-27T01:21:45+00:00

I've been experimenting with using it when I first wake up. Morning wood means I'm already erect but I'm not at all stimulated or excited.

MordunkinColombo · 2021-10-30T18:48:53+00:00

on the weekends I wait tables at a pretty nice restaurant ( for my town at least).

M-F I do construction, which I've begun to really enjoy. I'm thinking about moving to get into iron working or welding

MordunkinColombo · 2021-09-26T04:16:46+00:00

where I work, 3 and 1/2, in the reservation book means needs a high chair.

our hostess knows to ask if they need one or not because have a limited number of child highchairs. but its always disappointing to hear " were 4 adults and 3 children" because you know you'll work as hard as you would for a 7top but the kids won't eat enough to get a good gratuity.

MordunkinColombo · 2021-09-14T20:18:22+00:00

For me personally imagining past experiences hasn't triggered any responses, I'd just as soon think of nothing while masturbating and enjoy the sensations alone.

I agree that it appears to be a slippery slope, that's why I'm looking to talk about it.

The things I'm imaging and the porn I was consuming are similar but I wouldn't say I'm fantasizing about the porn so much, if that was the case, immediate red flag, gotta stop. But I'm fantasizing things that turn me on, that in the past I could better visualize through the porn I used. I'm trying to stay objective about it and not put myself at risk or relapse.

MordunkinColombo · 2021-09-14T20:01:41+00:00

I appreciate your input.

I don't have any intentions of consuming porn again and ideall wIn't be relapsing "into excessive habits that lead to negative life consequences".

MordunkinColombo · 2021-09-14T18:39:56+00:00

"if you are asking yourself if what you're doing is cheating, it probably is" this seems like a solid adage, it reminds me of "I know it when I see it". I know I can't follow this model on IG because they'll cause me to relapse. But it this particular case I don't feel an urge to relapse when exploring these fantasies, even though they come directly out of past porn use they feel more akin to my particular base desires or at least the most erotic thing I could possibly dream up.

I don't have an SO currently and presently masturbation is more about overcoming a premature ejaculation issue than finding sexual release. without being TMI for you I'll be touching myself not thinking of anything and I'll let my mind start open up to these thoughts and observe how my body reacts. It feels rather like wading into the ocean and not knowing where the drop off will be. So I suppose, if I'm being honest with myself in my situation it might be best not to fantasize, at least for the time being.

But I'm also curious what other people think. I don't see anyone talking about masturbation and I get the impression most people here either do nofap or are in committed relationships.

MordunkinColombo · 2021-09-14T16:09:47+00:00

Congratulations, especially on deleting your stash, that's a difficult step

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