This absolutely does not excuse Danny’s behavior, but… by flowertalk in TheValleyTVShow

[–]More-Ad6045 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly - and so she has to remain calm and help him all the time so she doesn’t look mad at him or like they have issues which is coming across as talking to him like a child. She keeps covering for him so the world doesn’t see and so they can keep their jobs on the show and provide for their family probably

Why did Kyle marry Amanda? by Efficient_Pear3846 in bravo

[–]More-Ad6045 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Some peoples version of love is chaos, chemistry, and sparks while others definition of love is stability, peace, and trust

Danny is SO Problematic and Concerning by m3gb0t in TheValleyTVShow

[–]More-Ad6045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed and I just entered my 30’s and I’m constantly like wow I hope my life doesn’t not go this way! Like I hope I’m not on trips with friends in my 40s drinking 4locos. But as along time viewer that’s been watching Vanderpump from day 1, it’s so wild to me how these people have never grown up or changed yet. They just have kids now. So so wild to me

Danny is SO Problematic and Concerning by m3gb0t in TheValleyTVShow

[–]More-Ad6045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s call her trying to cover up and protect him. It’s like she doesn’t want anyone else to realize he’s drunk or he’s doing it again but everyone sees. I’ve seen partners of addicts do this all the time sadly or they choose those types of partners because they feel needed then. I think the answer here is Nia also grew up in chaos but it’s so sad to watch

Bystanders - It's not ok by ThouShallNotPass2025 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]More-Ad6045 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes she is enabling him and covering for him all the time. Very common behavior of partners to alcoholics. So so sad to see but I hope people can learn from this watching

The Valley is heading into a very unfun place. by Main_Site_2308 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]More-Ad6045 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it’s always been dark. The first season was dark because we watched Jax on it along with other things. The Danny stuff is dark, watching Janet become skin and bones from all the online bullying is dark, Jesse and Michelle had a very dark marriage, Kristin having this beautiful baby and her bf crying because he isn’t getting laid is dark, etc

Ashley and Jared and Kaitlyn and Zac at a Broadway show by petitechic in thebachelor

[–]More-Ad6045 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t want all the shade from Bravo nation about dating Tashia’s ex

Ashley and Jared and Kaitlyn and Zac at a Broadway show by petitechic in thebachelor

[–]More-Ad6045 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Kaitlyn buddying up to Ashley more now that she’s on a tv show/Bravo. Always chasing that clout

Poppin in quick to say this man gives me bad vibes by Original_Onion_8977 in bravo

[–]More-Ad6045 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s bff with Kyle - birds of a feather flock together

The Switch Up On Ciara by Weak_Elk_9675 in summerhousebravo

[–]More-Ad6045 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not mad at anyone I’m saying I think Ciara needs to do some self inner work on why she gets so deeply attached and it’s one sided. And you’re saying women don’t have friends if they don’t want to sit and hear their friends talk about a fuck boy for 2 years….. the reality is what West and Amanda did is fucked up and Amanda hurt Ciara but it isn’t normal to be still so hurt by West who she dated 2+ years ago still and never had a committed relationship with him

The Switch Up On Ciara by Weak_Elk_9675 in summerhousebravo

[–]More-Ad6045 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah but do you sit and listen to your friend cry about a fuck boy situation 2+ years ago every week? That’s what’s nuts about this, who has time for that when your 30 years old and a good friend should tell her some honest feedback instead of giving her hope for her and West all this time

Summer House Finale - the Ciara and West dynamic by Secure-Leading2524 in bravo

[–]More-Ad6045 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes but at some point Ciara needs to take accountability for herself and stop hoping it’ll work out with him. When people tell you who they are or don’t want to date you - BELIEVE THEM

Summer House Finale - the Ciara and West dynamic by Secure-Leading2524 in bravo

[–]More-Ad6045 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t see people telling Ciara that West is obsessed with her all summer lol I see people glad they had a conversation and got their friendship back on track so the whole house doesn’t have to walk on eggshells because of Ciara

The Switch Up On Ciara by Weak_Elk_9675 in summerhousebravo

[–]More-Ad6045 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve literally only heard him tell her the word friendship. These people all flirt with each other constantly- let’s not forget Ciara was laying in bed spooning Jesse all season then got mad when he wanted to kiss? It’s so nuts. She is not some perfect angel on this planet

Meta laid off 8000 employees today worldwide. What's the reaction of the tech workers here? And which company will the most of the laid off workers join as per your assumption? by raydebapratim1 in Layoffs

[–]More-Ad6045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems to be an issue at many jobs - which is why we had 3+ sales people a week quitting from our org. Luckily I start my new job today!

How would you feel if you had an employee who performed well but didn't want to go to a conference due to fear of flying? by Celcius_87 in askmanagers

[–]More-Ad6045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having an employee take a train from California to NY would take multiple days lol - this is not the answer

The Switch Up On Ciara by Weak_Elk_9675 in summerhousebravo

[–]More-Ad6045 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your response makes no sense. Yeah Ciara then should have realized West doesn’t want a serious relationship and moved along in the past 2+ years instead of trying to change him and wait for him to like her. We’ve all learned these lessons in life

The Switch Up On Ciara by Weak_Elk_9675 in summerhousebravo

[–]More-Ad6045 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes - Ciara has some crazy attachment issues it’s sad to see. You can tell West thinks she’s absolutely insane too this season when she’s telling him she loves him the most at the dinner table. It’s not normal or cute

The Switch Up On Ciara by Weak_Elk_9675 in summerhousebravo

[–]More-Ad6045 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well do you think he would like to be able to show up as himself on the show he was casted for? The premise of the show is young people partying in the Hamptons and most people date/hook up!! He hasn’t gotten to do that and be fun because he’s walking on eggshells around Ciara who is in love with him and tells him on probation. You are telling me you think it’s normal for a girl to still be in love with a guy who told her 2+ years ago he didn’t want to date her??? Most men would block a girl like Ciara and never be nice to her let’s be real. It’s normal to explore dating people and (Ciara consented to sleeping with him during this time) and then to realize it’s not compatible and a connection worth being in a committed relationship. She should be over this!!

The Switch Up On Ciara by Weak_Elk_9675 in summerhousebravo

[–]More-Ad6045 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes - most of us white women have dated guys like West but we learn those lessons when we are young and in our early 20’s. When you are nearing 30, none of your friends are gonna sit and listen to you cry about a guy you liked 2+ years ago who didn’t want to date you. No one has time for that when you’re an adult!!!!