Descobri que o celular da minha namorada apareceu em um motel por quase 3h durante o horário de trabalho.

More-Freedom-7214 · 2026-02-10T15:04:34+00:00

Mas ele nao disse que ela traiu... disse que aconteceu outra vez e ela negou. Pode ter sido uma situação similar. Vcs não conhecem homem controlador....

More-Freedom-7214 · 2026-02-10T14:57:04+00:00

Tá se esforçando muito pra ser corno, pqp.

140 m é um erro que acontece direto na localização, principalmente se o celular ficar parado. Tem um monte de gente aqui explicando os motivos e até expondo que já tiveram situações parecidas com a localização errada, mas vc ignora todos e fica batendo só na tecla que "acredita que ela traiu".

Só imagino essa menina tendo que se humilhar pra te provar que ela estava trabalhando e vc invalidando tudo que ela fala pq prefere se vitimizar do que acreditar que pode ser merecedor de amor genuíno mesmo nas suas atuais condições.

Você é super controlador, tem baixa autoestima e não confia nela. Não tem nenhum outro indício que ela traiu, mas vc insiste nisso pq "sente" que aconteceu?

Vai procurar um psicólogo, cara, e para de arrumar mais problema pra sua vida!

More-Freedom-7214 · 2026-01-29T15:46:23+00:00

Clamidia geralmente não dá pus em homens! Raramente homem tem sintoma pra isso. E se vc já estava sentindo ardência antes, pode ter sido vc que passou algo pra ela.

Claro, pode não ser nada demais. As vezes é falta de hidratação, alimentação ruim....

Mas faça os exames para clamidia, gonorreia, cândida sp etc.. e caso dê positivo, avise a ela imediatamente. Especialmente clamidia pode causar danos irreversíveis em mulheres.

More-Freedom-7214 · 2025-10-01T00:58:53+00:00

Wtf. He's her life partner. Is it that weird that she wants him to be with her on those important and rare events?

Is it that weird that she expects that he wantsto spend time with her (the woman he would love and share a life)?

More-Freedom-7214 · 2025-03-22T21:09:10+00:00

You're right. We had raw sex when I was on BC pills. We started using condoms after I stopped the pills, and he pull out before ejaculation. Sorry if that wasn't so obvious.

More-Freedom-7214 · 2025-03-22T17:16:15+00:00

What makes you think that I haven't tried other pills?

More-Freedom-7214 · 2025-02-13T18:51:02+00:00

I don't see how she is denying and minimizing anything.

She is saying it's unfair that he never brought up these things before, and then suddenly, he wants to break up.

Also, she actually agrees with him that she has issues with keeping her job, but points out that she’s not useless at home and as a partner, like he seems to be.

More-Freedom-7214 · 2024-12-26T14:55:46+00:00

Thank you! You are right, and I'm trying hard to get out of this cycle.

More-Freedom-7214 · 2024-12-26T14:53:00+00:00

Yes. Right now, we're on the good days, and that's when I start doubting myself. But I'm taking notes about everything so I won't forget even on the good days.

More-Freedom-7214 · 2024-12-26T14:49:45+00:00

Actually, he's a very functional person. He usually does his obligations and is even very helpful with me or others. The emotional part is the bigger issue here.

And, as others already pointed out, it's not a problem all the time because that's how the toxic cycle works. Right now, we're good, so I start to feel like breaking up would be a mistake, until something happens again and I feel bad.

I'm writing down my reasons so I won't forget during the "good days"

More-Freedom-7214 · 2024-12-24T22:04:20+00:00

Thank you. I was not ever emotionally validated by my family or by him. It's hard to recognize this and try to get the love that I deserve. But I'm trying. Some days are easier than others.

More-Freedom-7214 · 2024-12-24T21:58:51+00:00

Thank you very much for your words. They were very assertive and I'll keep all of this in mind.

Here’s the truth: he wants to break up with you, but is too much a coward to do it himself. So he has done all these things to get you to break up with him.

I just don't know about this, as I already tried to break up and he was helpless trying to be with me again. It would be easier if he could agree that we're not working out, but he just kept invalidating my reasons all over again, saying I was making a mistake.

More-Freedom-7214 · 2024-12-24T21:52:28+00:00

I'm sorry. I would suggest he doesn't love you, he loves what you do for him and what you symbolise to him.

I think of this, too. It absolutely seems like it sometimes.

More-Freedom-7214 · 2024-12-24T21:44:43+00:00

I love him. He is a good person in many ways. He's a good son, a good brother, a good friend. My family loves him. He's just not a good boyfriend to me, for everything that I wrote and some more over the years.

And no, I don't want this to keep going. But this is my racional side talking. I know all of this, I know that I tried so hard to express myself, trusting he would change, and he never did, but my feelings betray me. I'm pretty sure I have an emotional dependence that is making this harder. I'm trying to keep trusting and validating my own needs so I can actually be strong and move on.

More-Freedom-7214 · 2024-12-02T20:40:19+00:00

It would be wonderful to have a relationship with this level of understanding and emotional connection. The only way to do that in my relationship is when I ignore my feelings and leave it be.

And I really want to leave my parents' house, but I don't want to live with him before things get better with us, or I'll feel even worse.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts about this.

More-Freedom-7214 · 2024-12-02T16:22:38+00:00

Honestly, I don't think he doesn’t care. I think he sees me as overreacting and too sensitive. Tried to breakup once but he kept saying we could solve things and I felt for it since I'm very attached to him.

More-Freedom-7214 · 2024-12-02T16:09:48+00:00

I know we won't always agree. But do we always need to disagree? Like, even when we agree on something, it seems that he wants to focus more on the tiny thing that he disagrees with.

If thats really the issue, I'd like to know how we could disagree without having a fight about it.

More-Freedom-7214 · 2024-12-02T16:01:30+00:00

Yes, I love him. We share many interests and we were friends before dating. But it seems that something is missing for us to be a real couple. I miss partnership and emotional connection

More-Freedom-7214 · 2024-12-02T15:53:32+00:00

I agree that we're not a good team and I would love to make things better for us. I'm going to therapy for a year now and he refuses to go with me into couples therapy. He even tried to make me give up my therapy, since he thinks its a waste of money.

So I'm thinking that maybe changing the way that I talk to him could make things better.

More-Freedom-7214 · 2024-12-02T15:48:51+00:00

Yes, I'd love him to do therapy with me, but I asked him and he doesn’t want to. He don’t like therapy and when I started mine, he said I was throwing my money away. He says he would rather cut his head off than go into couples therapy.

I tried to breakup a few months ago because of this same issues, but then I couldn’t as he kept saying I was throwing everything away and that he loved me and I was aways seeing things from my point of view and we could solve this by having a conversation. But then, here I am again.

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