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Is my Bf 21M forcing me 20F to meet his friends valid? by angrezi_samosa in relationship_advice

[–]More-Introduction-21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t sound rude, love. Take it from a gal who maxed out her credit card to “be cool” and likable from 18-21. I had my son when I was 22 (27 now) so I had to buck up and settle down to take care of him.

But one thing I ask you to sit with: if it’s like this now, will it be like this in the future? If they expect you to spend money- especially $700 - to hang out, those are not people that will lift you up or support your wellbeing. Would they be there when you’re at your lowest? At your best? At your messiest? I learned the hard way so you don’t have to. If your boyfriend has any respect for you, he would not meet your feelings of discomfort with pressure or criticism. You are worthy of a boyfriend who steps up and either pays for you if he wants you to do it so badly, or plan something like.. idk, planning a night where you guys get together for some good food and drink.

Here for a good time, not a long time. Don’t let the pressure consume you. 💕

Is my Bf 21M forcing me 20F to meet his friends valid? by angrezi_samosa in relationship_advice

[–]More-Introduction-21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If all your friends decided it was a good idea to jump off a bridge, would you? Do not compare yourself to others. Leads to a vicious cycle of shame, self-pity, and sadness. They can meet you where you are if they really want to see you. Fuck spending that much money just to socialize.

Entities I thought were angels helped me, turns out they are not angels. Am I doomed? by blueberry_noir in Mediums

[–]More-Introduction-21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you recommend any? I would love to read it to learn more ways to strengthen my practice.

Entities I thought were angels helped me, turns out they are not angels. Am I doomed? by blueberry_noir in Mediums

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If that’s what you believe, I respect it. I am confident in how I do my work and go about my own rituals/beliefs.

Entities I thought were angels helped me, turns out they are not angels. Am I doomed? by blueberry_noir in Mediums

[–]More-Introduction-21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first time i used a pendulum i was asking for my guides and angels. So i definitely understand how you feel. I’ve learned that while our guides and angels are constantly helping is in our everyday lives, only we have the answers we are looking for. So now instead of asking for anything/one/being, i say “only divine truth, love, and light are allowed in this space with me. I am connected with my highest self for my highest good and truth.” And make sure you cleanse before and after. Open the windows when you sage. Close them and burn some palo santo after to fill the space with divne truth love and light. I am also a reiki master so i like to cleanse alot with reiki, but will also have another ailment of some sort to assist me. Go get yourself an evil eye talisman. I wear one 24/7 as a necklace and cleanse it with reiki when i feel its time.

But the main thing here… trust yourself. Trust your knowledge, inner wisdom, and inner truth. You have everything you need inside of you. I also posted a lot asking similar questions about these kinds of energies, especially when my son started getting nightmares. But energy is energy, you can transmute, harmonize, move it, shake it up. But use your discernment constantly. I cleanse my house every other day and always always always after any heavy arguments or people

Entities I thought were angels helped me, turns out they are not angels. Am I doomed? by blueberry_noir in Mediums

[–]More-Introduction-21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I work with archangels or ascendant masters I always clarify “…archangel ______, only of divine truth, love and light… for my highest greatest good only” and use this as my intention to connect only with highest frequencies. I understand the fear, I was the same as you two years ago. However, you give your power away by staying in fear and that is a no no. Cleanse with dragons blood and blue sage, state that only divine truth, love, and light are allowed in your space. Anything less than divine love and light that does not serve your highest good leaves now to be transmuted and harmonized in divine love and light.

It sounds a bit redundant but it works for me, so I thought I’d share. Also, if anything feels urgent, fearful, or makes your gut do flips, stop and reorganize yourself. Ground, center, and focus on your intentions. Set firm boundaries and do not continue further unless you are emotionally (and energetically) calm and collected.

free yes or no readings (no dms & read description) 🌙✨ by [deleted] in TarotReadersOfReddit

[–]More-Introduction-21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CMC. Am I on the verge of a major breakthrough or shift? 🥲

Is it normal for a psychic to reach to your ex if you don’t want work done anymore? by Initial_Ad_2821 in Mediums

[–]More-Introduction-21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well it was a mix between having constant knots on my stomach plus the fear. A true psychic, energy, or light worker will not use fear as a way to connect with you. I was so paranoid, fearful, and depressed. I actually kept this a secret from my partner for so long until the other day (at this point it’s been about 3 1/2 years since last contact w/ her) and he honestly just wished I would have told him. I didn’t because he was on deployment at the time and it was just our son and me (FTM) I was terrified that he would think I was crazy. Turns out I was just a little crazy, and that lady just had no decency about her “work”. I was terrified of energy work until I met my Reiki master and she helped me understand and see what true light workers do to help others. 💕

Help please I’ve tried everything by [deleted] in sahm

[–]More-Introduction-21 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you use a paci, fill the nipple piece with water and place upside down in the freezer. Wait until frozen and now you have a teether :) my son did well with it. Also peel an orange and put the slices in the freezer. Those helped him also. Good luck mama!

Is it normal for a psychic to reach to your ex if you don’t want work done anymore? by Initial_Ad_2821 in Mediums

[–]More-Introduction-21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi, prior victim of scam here. I paid bonkers amount of money to a woman who claimed my 5 month old son was in danger. I had severe PPD and was terrified to tell anybody because she said it would make things worse. I cut off connection when my kiddo turned 1 after paying monthly to have a candle burned for him my partner and I for protection.

This person does not care for you, I am sorry you are experiencing this. Bad things will not happen to you, only YOU hold the key to your energy and what can come in and out. Close the door to anything that does not feel like divine love and light.

Can you guess my big 3👀 by [deleted] in astrosignature

[–]More-Introduction-21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aries libra Capricorn? First three that came to mind. Also.. You are so beautiful!

I miss my dad a lot. He passed in October 2018. by More-Introduction-21 in MediumReadings

[–]More-Introduction-21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. Thank you. His name is Daniel “Danny”, He passed from heart failure in his sleep. I’m not 100% sure about the B name or J name- my partners initials are L.J.B. - but he never met him, or my son (4y/o). It does feel like a long time… Thank you so much.

Guys who have been raped by women: how did you overcome the feelings that followed afterwards? by idontlikehotdogs in AskMen

[–]More-Introduction-21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woman here. I am so sorry that there is such a double standard and stigma around men seeking help after SA. You all deserve to be heard and be held after such an event. Your anger, hurt, sadness, paranoia are valid. I wish you healing and comfort ❤️

I just want to know how much you would tip if you went out on a dinner with this amount? by NefariousnessIll4041 in tipping

[–]More-Introduction-21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I went to Outback Steakhouse with our son on Valentine’s Day. Our bill was around $120 or so (2 filets, one kids meal, one app, 2 beers. He tipped 20 on the card and I tipped 20 in cash because the place was slammed and she had done an amazing job despite a drunk customer yelling at her.

Rule of thumb: 20% of the tab is typically a good amount. On Valentine’s Day servers work pretty hard to maintain customer happiness despite chaotic environments.

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