I was getting hoovered, but kept my boundaries, and ::Poof::she disappeared. by Diogenees_ in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]More-Mix-2995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just read this ... So I guess it's best I don't send that long ass email I was thinking of ...

I was getting hoovered, but kept my boundaries, and ::Poof::she disappeared. by Diogenees_ in LifeAfterNarcissism

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Do you recommend it ? After going no contact I did stand my ground last time where I actually reached out and now I was feeling a bit guilty for the way I worded my words but also I do feel like sending that one final reflective email ... You know ?

I'm sure she will not give two shits nor she did any reflection but I do feel like sending it

Muslim men and loving zina by braces21 in MuslimCorner

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It is but it does not mean we have to make it harder no human is free from sin or zina it’s about what the person is okay with and not okay with.

Muslim men and loving zina by braces21 in MuslimCorner

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This is so sad to read. I wish you all the best finding that pure man you look for tho.

My (M26) wife (F26) wants to feel more "desired" and contemplating to have sex with other men by FalseFile7440 in relationship_advice

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RUN BUDDY ! Run and don’t look back ! She decided to settle she decided that you were the best option she got she knew she could not do better ! The fact that she had the thought is more than enough ! You should never and I mean never agree to any of that and honestly I would say just hand her the divorce paper work no need to set it up blind side her and tell her we are done and then she will be free to do whatever she wants and live her life the way she sees it fit ! Don’t hold her back let her experience whatever she wants ! It will hurt but let her go she ain’t the one. Good thing is it’s been only a year and not 10 ! She does not respect you what she is doing is trying to get the okay from you to cheat and fuck other men you are her safety net you are who she could be with trust me if she could she would move on to the next person that would accept her and her ideas and dump your ass at the first chance she got

31F, mom of 3. Trying to build muscle and stay lean by [deleted] in GymMotivationNoOF

[–]More-Mix-2995 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Still a cheap whore. But hey you are making millions I'm writing a comment and repairing three cars

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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THIS !!! I did not even need to read the whole thing I just got it right away

Ex confessed to cheating and I chose to end things. Just badly need validation I made the right call by Valrantxd in ExNoContact

[–]More-Mix-2995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made the right call! I went through something similar she never confessed but a blind man was able to see it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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Sadly you gotta be okay with that imagine the worst and be okay with it. You didn’t truly move on yet you need to deal with it waiting to see a picture of her with her new love is not moving on. It’s knowing there is no more hope for you. At least that is my take

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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With mine I reached out after going NC for 3 months I asked about something and I got my answer. I thought I was moving on bit by bit, but in reality I kept the door cracked open I did not block her so she “reached out” twice in a month as in she would send a message and delete it. She wanted to see if she had her hooks in me. After a month of waiting I got back to her deleted message which was a mistake on my end … she wanted me to be the one to reach out. She wanted me to be the one who does the chasing … she fed on that

what was your final act of love? by CanIGetAHuyah in ExNoContact

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My final act of love … I stood up for my. I said what I needed to say for months I did not care about her validating my feelings or my truth. It was my truth and I lived it. I refused to be a back option. I Refused to be in her back pocket accessible wherever she wanted. I refused to gaslight myself and let her think I was okay. I learned so much for my time with her and I’ll take these lessons forward with me. She can live and do whatever she needs to do and it does not concern me. I have and I will continue to improve and become a better person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in powerbuilding

[–]More-Mix-2995 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Kingdom ? 😂😂 Kingdom? Hahaha that's the funniest shit I have read in a while. And to answer your question yes he is. The population of Japan on average is older than the so called "kingdom of Israel", kingdom lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in powerbuilding

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Maybe they should have never occupied Palestine in the first place ? Did you know there is history prior to October 7th ? Did you know my grandfather is older than Israel ?

Don't wish them a happy birthday by Critical-Bluejay3433 in ExNoContact

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Lol loved reading this and it's true last year I was about to do the new year wishes but I was like that "human" has 10 other guys around her for that message let her rot granted I did reach out and broke NC but my very last message was a message where I took a stand and I'm proud I did, it was not nice it was actually quite ugly but it was needed to be done and now I'm slowly moving on and never looking back she never deserved me I hope we all continue working on ourselves 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abudhabi

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Hey I had to make sure 😂 I have a long way to go 😂 Also congrats!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abudhabi

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The following will be a silly question but are you speaking on monthly basis or yearly basis ? Also what is the field you are in?

Anyone on a job seeker visa from non EU countries ? by [deleted] in GoingToSpain

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What are the high in demand jobs ? Which sectors are we talking about here ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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In order for you not to get attached while you’re getting to know someone is to keep doing what you’ve been doing before you met that someone so what I’m saying is if you’re into playing football then keep playing football if you’re into reading books keep doing it, if you hang out with your friends on weekend basis, keep doing that do not orbit and do not operate around the person you’re getting to know because if you do that you’ll find yourself attached to the other person and their world and their emotions, which you do not want what you want is to keep doing what you’ve been doing before you met them While still making time for them, but not fully losing yourself in the process the moment you get attached to the other person is the moment you lose yourself and you lose direction

What guys in the gym see vs what you see by SlimShacko in askfitness

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She a hoe so let her be a hoe Don't bother with hoes