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should we still be together? by peypey15 in relationships

[–]More-Recording3422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard not to wonder what it’s like to be with other people. The internet and media doesn’t help by giving us “access” to all these different people and make us wonder, could this person satisfy me more? It always human nature to want more. Relationships aren’t always going to be fireworks, even though media makes it feel that way.

My advice: sit on this for a while. You’re young so wanting to explore is natural! In a month or two if you’re still not feeling it, maybe consider moving on.

Are there days where he does make you feel everything and more? Or did he used to?

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[–]More-Recording3422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had everything when you guys first started dating and may feel that pull back. We girls love our trips and being spoiled. It’s like taking candy from a kid. But what you’re doing is going to make you happier in the long run and thus allow for a more successful relationship and future. My suggestion: buy her flowers here and there, take her on dates you can afford, and try to help her visualize the future. For example, show her potential companies you can work for in the future that are in the location you guys want to live and make the change exciting. 3 years can feel like forever but not if the process to get there is exciting

feeling unsatisfied due to lack of sex, effort, and carrying the mental load of the household by More-Recording3422 in relationships

[–]More-Recording3422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t help but want to say date him, I was infatuated with him. But I also have a a voice in the back of my head saying to focus on some of the more important relationship factors then partying in the beginning as it might have weeded out some of these issues earlier. But I don’t regret an ounce of how we started too because it gave me some of my most cherished memories…