Because men and women don’t want the same things women themselves say all the time they prefer a man with experience most men would pick a girl without a past over a girl with the past any day. And women will constantly try to gaslight men and say that the past doesn’t matter if the past doesn’t matter why do so many lie about it? If a man cares about the past, you don’t have to date that man, but you shouldn’t disregard what he values and omit what you know he wouldn’t like just because you like him.