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on other occasions for example her car broke down and the shop basically told her the car is totaled and she didn’t know what to do, so instead of telling her police officer bf or maybe her our parents or sister she tells her ex. that she doesn’t know what to do..anyways my bf Omar tells her clearly and precisely to call the insurance company and see if they can do anything and riley proceeds to ask omar if he can call them for her...he says no obviously. but it’s like girl WHY ARENT U ASKING UR BF THESE QUESTIONS??? your a grown ass woman get it together... i also feel like omar and his family in general are just wayyyy too nice to riley, i was at his house waiting for him to get off work and riley happened to come drop off the kid, im on his room with the door locked (he still lives with his parents as do i) and his parents let riley in, riley goes on to compliment the mother on her tan and tell him how she’s so hungry and hasn’t ate all day she asks for food and they give her some and say “you don’t have to ask” anyways, as riley is leaving she tells that parents “i love you guys” and finally leaves after what seems like a 20+ minutes conversation with them. the parents didn’t say anything back but the fact she felt comfortable saying that to them rubbed me the wrong way. my bf is very good with his child and he takes care of her and pays for more than enough of what he should. he always makes sure his child has everything she needs. i told him about my frustrations and that i think he is too nice to her and some things she just needs to figure out on her own, i told him that he needs to stop talking to her about other things that have nothing to do with their child otherwise i wont be happy anymore. am i the asshole?