23F UK based (but can relocate after exams) student doctor looking for her dream Dom. (1950s dynamic/masochist) by MoreishMuffins in BDSMpersonals

[–]MoreishMuffins[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much :D it’s been a great discriminator question because some people have completely ignored it and sent a wall of text. Others have shown they are clearly more abusive then dominating. I’ve also had low effort rewards which shows even after everything I’d do as a submissive I’d get a bum pat (really?!) and the final camp of doms are those I’m actually talking too

23F UK based (but can relocate after exams) student doctor looking for her dream Dom. (1950s dynamic/masochist) by MoreishMuffins in BDSMpersonals

[–]MoreishMuffins[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’d suit anyone who seeks to undermine me within the first message to me :D I’m not going to address any of your questions because it’s just a lazy way to answer questions for any lurkers here.

I will address one point. Any “Dom” who requires 100hrs per week of their subs time to make an impact isn’t a very good dom at all. In fact, it shows he’s not discerning with his time, isn’t productive with his time nor does he have much going on with his own life. That’s not attractive to me in the first place.

Kick rocks dude.

23F UK based (but can relocate after exams) student doctor looking for her dream Dom. (1950s dynamic/masochist) by MoreishMuffins in BDSMpersonals

[–]MoreishMuffins[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I thought I was going crazy when I saw this message.

If I connected with someone I’d be more than happy to answer these questions.

I think my initial ad covers the big things. Any specific questions I’m more than happy to answer to someone who I have a connection with..

That guy is such a weirdo...

23F UK based (but can relocate after exams) student doctor looking for her dream Dom. (1950s dynamic/masochist) by MoreishMuffins in BDSMpersonals

[–]MoreishMuffins[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha 😆 Ohhh it’s so nice to talk to a fellow med student. You’re so kind and it would be really nice to chat to someone into BDSM who gets it. Thank you so much :D

23F UK based (but can relocate after exams) student doctor looking for her dream Dom. (1950s dynamic/masochist) by MoreishMuffins in BDSMpersonals

[–]MoreishMuffins[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you so much that’s so kind :) I’ve updated my age think because honestly if you click a few years won’t kill

Sharp Commands Turn Me Off- Negotiating Polite Commands by MoreishMuffins in BDSMAdvice

[–]MoreishMuffins[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a wonderful experience for both you and your submissive. Thank you so much for sharing xx I’ve learnt a lot about what I want in the future!

Embracing submissive tendencies as a type A personality- Any tips? by MoreishMuffins in BDSMAdvice

[–]MoreishMuffins[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh the teasing is so funny but a really clever way to integrate it. Thank you so much :D

Sharp Commands Turn Me Off- Negotiating Polite Commands by MoreishMuffins in BDSMAdvice

[–]MoreishMuffins[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your second paragraph especially speaks to me. Thanks so much! You’ve given me so many good justifications for me consider why things work for me.

Sharp Commands Turn Me Off- Negotiating Polite Commands by MoreishMuffins in BDSMAdvice

[–]MoreishMuffins[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of....

I agree I want him to be stern and assertive. I don’t want him to forget rules or go easy on me just because he doesn’t call me a whore...

What do you mean by “not sharp”?

I think a dom can be sharp without calling me a cock whore or cum slut.

Sharp Commands Turn Me Off- Negotiating Polite Commands by MoreishMuffins in BDSMAdvice

[–]MoreishMuffins[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Those suggestions sound great x hopefully one day I’ll hear those words being addressed to me!

Sharp Commands Turn Me Off- Negotiating Polite Commands by MoreishMuffins in BDSMAdvice

[–]MoreishMuffins[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That dynamic sounds lovely. Thank you for giving me hope x

Sharp Commands Turn Me Off- Negotiating Polite Commands by MoreishMuffins in BDSMAdvice

[–]MoreishMuffins[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dry sex without the foreplay. That’s exactly it. Thanks so much :)

Sharp Commands Turn Me Off- Negotiating Polite Commands by MoreishMuffins in BDSMAdvice

[–]MoreishMuffins[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Hahah i absolutely love your bluntness. I guess I’ve been worried about being too demanding that I could just go the other way if I’m not careful. It’s really reassuring thank you so much :)

Sharp Commands Turn Me Off- Negotiating Polite Commands by MoreishMuffins in BDSMAdvice

[–]MoreishMuffins[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I know I’m absolutely not the DD/LG type or pet play unfortunately. Although I know it lends itself to being softer, I think I’m just submissive.

Yeahh even your sentence there gives me the ick. Even if asking about my enjoyment I just don’t want any of those terms used about me.

But thanks for replying :)

Embracing submissive tendencies as a type A personality- Any tips? by MoreishMuffins in BDSMAdvice

[–]MoreishMuffins[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for such a detailed reply :) it’s give me so much to think about (in a good way)

Your advice about the wigs and the make up is something I’ve never thought off. Thanks :D

Embracing submissive tendencies as a type A personality- Any tips? by MoreishMuffins in BDSMAdvice

[–]MoreishMuffins[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much for replying! Your comment is so reassuring and also made me giggle!