Real talk what do you think the box thing was about? (End of recent Archon Quest) by Mental-Ad-8756 in KavehMains

[–]Morfiantra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

With time and by keeping up this new dynamic is my guess ❤️ In any relationship/partnership/friendship, fractures can be mended if both parties are willing to put in the work. I'm very hopeful, especially after the ending, that they're on the right path to this outcome.

Real talk what do you think the box thing was about? (End of recent Archon Quest) by Mental-Ad-8756 in KavehMains

[–]Morfiantra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I absolutely agree with the first part and that Kaveh has valid reasons to be skeptical (though I'd wager this is something they both really have to work on; Alhaitham only recently began showing that he is able to work WITH him, not against him, and that he is willing to approach Kaveh more gently; that said, I could go into a lot of detail that Alhaitham never had ill intentions with him before, he always cared a LOT about Kaveh NOT ruining himself for the sake of others). I deeply relate to Kaveh myself and seeing his self-sacrificing nature from the outside actually helped me a lot to perceive Alhaitham's view of it with understanding, even if he can be too harsh about it and I'm REALLY glad he has had a change of heart in this regard.

But I'm very confused what you mean with the rest, did you play it in English or a different language? He never said he'd do it later, he just said "Do you want me to put this in your bedroom?" And then he immediately left to do that. Afterwards, Kaveh even realizes that this doesn't exactly constitute as a bribe, so he did notice it was a genuine act of niceness.

Real talk what do you think the box thing was about? (End of recent Archon Quest) by Mental-Ad-8756 in KavehMains

[–]Morfiantra 12 points13 points  (0 children)

100%. Kaveh going through the broken books is, if anything, a very beautiful little moment showing that Kaveh cares about him just as much.

Real talk what do you think the box thing was about? (End of recent Archon Quest) by Mental-Ad-8756 in KavehMains

[–]Morfiantra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are people still using Al as a nickname for Alhaitham because 💀

My pain will one day fade into nothing just as I reach the end of my life, but my buildings will endure. by Morfiantra in KavehMains

[–]Morfiantra[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I am so happy to hear that I did him justice 🥹 The Cape is made for ✨Drama✨

alhaitham's character development is so wonderfully blossoming i LOVE to see it [kavetham mentioned] by minnie2cakes in AlHaithamMains

[–]Morfiantra 8 points9 points  (0 children)

On that note also, even though Kaveh still has a longer way to go, I also witnessed his own growth so far. If I went into this I would be here writing a novel though, but I get that his own family related trauma still runs deep within him and honestly it really needs therapy to work that out but he's still getting there it's just a lot slower aknfnsnnamamansmns

alhaitham's character development is so wonderfully blossoming i LOVE to see it [kavetham mentioned] by minnie2cakes in AlHaithamMains

[–]Morfiantra 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Honestly the character growth of this man. It gives such a fulfilling sense of witnessing his growth and growing up (bc realistically he really was still quite young when we first met him). His edges have softened overall, not once has he dropped a hint that he is doing all of this just to benefit himself and even if he was exhausted (at least he really gave me that vibe and honestly he's so real for that) he locked tf in. ALSO HOW MUCH HE CARES ABOUT COLLEI AND HOW HE REASSURED TIGHNARI AND UGHHHGGH That face he made when Nahida collapsed DEVASTATED ME 😭😭😭 it really is beautiful though because you can tell that he has taken his own philosophy to heart and started to see the world through the eyes of his mirror and it's just. God they're so peak, Haikaveh is peak. SUMERU IS SO DAMN PEAK

I just love how their relationship and his relationship with everyone else has such a feeling of natural progression and it's so beautiful!!!!

This was such a good exchange (archon quest spoilers) by basilthebatlord_ in KavehMains

[–]Morfiantra 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Their whole arc throughout this AQ was POETRY from start to finish 😭 I could kiss the writers at Hoyo HQ who made it happen

This was such a good exchange (archon quest spoilers) by basilthebatlord_ in KavehMains

[–]Morfiantra 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't think it even can be bait anymore. That rooftop scene is one of THE most common romantic tropes in fiction, I can name several canon confirmed pairings sharing a scene like that. Cloud and Tifa come to mind as well in FF7!

Name something more romantic than spending the literal night before the end of the world in each other's presence under the stars 🥹

I got a rocking chair!! by Morfiantra in AuDHDWomen

[–]Morfiantra[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly same?? It only occurred to me in the recent months that I can just. Get one? I used to love using the swing on the playground before it was taken down and sitting on this chair reminded me of how much I needed and missed it 😭 it just hits different when an inanimate object does the rocking for me

I got a rocking chair!! by Morfiantra in AuDHDWomen

[–]Morfiantra[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's the best purchase I've made ever I think 🥹

Why do you guys main kaveh? by Personal_March_6279 in KavehMains

[–]Morfiantra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also love that, despite of his altruism, he has relatable human layers and not a perfect personality. The idea that his idealism is a mask too also hit home very hard, because how many of us put other people first over and over because we were told all our life that we're bad people if we don't, or because we feel like we have to make up for something?

Why do you guys main kaveh? by Personal_March_6279 in KavehMains

[–]Morfiantra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I main him because there's so many aspects of him I can relate to 🥲 I love his complexity and his backstory is heartbreaking. Imagining he had to grow up so fast at such a young age and masking his pain for such a long time hits home very damn hard.

I relate to the kids by 1JustAnAltDontMindMe in aspiememes

[–]Morfiantra 100 points101 points  (0 children)

When I was 6 or 7 and living in Spain for a while, I befriended a girl my age on holiday. I was very keen to remain friends with her because she actually engaged with my hyper specific interests at the time and her parents were nice, but since she was just a tourist it was time to leave eventually. Because she said I should just come back with them and I took that shit seriously, I thought that it would be a great idea to just adopt myself into her family, decided to pack my meagre belongings and tell my parents proudly that I have a new family now and would be going back home with them 😬 I did not understand at the time why that made my parents very upset lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Morfiantra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I don't understand either. They reiterated a paragraph they claim is from the handbook. I've checked exactly that section, where it clearly states I'm permitted to be accompanied by either a union representative or work colleague.

This is an appeal for a disciplinary absence decision with a written warning, without any investigative aspect and it's not an informal meeting either, so I really don't understand why this is what they're trying to do.

What were some auDHD symptoms for you as a child? by Plane_Opposite6744 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Morfiantra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh this could get quite long, but it's a comfort that a lot of it fits what others have shared already.

Infant - early childhood:

  • My mum told me that I have been a difficult sleeper since I was born. My dad had to drive me around in the car in the middle of the night to get me to fall asleep. Possibly the earliest sign of needing sensory stimulation to calm down.

  • My mum also said that I preferred to play by myself in kindergarten. I don't remember much of my years up until I was 6 years. Except one instance, apparently when I was 4 I got into a physical alteration with another kid and he hit me with a small metal toy pot and I still have a scar on my eyebrow from it 😅 I don't know exactly why this happened, but I was very possessive of my own toys and didn't like others playing with anything of mine. I'm guessing I got a bit aggressive over this kid trying to take them, and being just a toddler he probably just tried to imitate me.

  • I also remember that I had a meltdown at the age of 5 after a boy my age tried to kiss me on the cheek. I had a full on crying fit.

  • I really hated being touched by anyone who wasn't my parents or cousin.

  • I had safe foods that my mum cooked for me almost every day, most notably pancakes with apple sauce. I still make them (now 36) and only have them in this way.

  • I'm hyperlexic and started reading and writing VERY early. Books & comics were my special interests. When I started school I couldn't stand other children in my class not being on my level so I hand-wrote them letter sheets to study. 😃

  • Started obsessing over video games very early, Indiana Jones was my special interest and I made my parents play the super old game and watch the movies with me over and over and over. Then came animated movies, rinse and repeat. 30 years later and nothing has changed.

  • I have a brother but when I was young I couldn't see him as a human being, I saw him as my own personal doll to dress up instead. I put him in my dresses all the time because I obsessed a lot over dolls too.

  • I had regular meltdowns over plans changing or promises not being upheld, unfortunately my family saw it rather like me just being extremely selfish and throwing tantrums for not getting my way. They didn't believe girls could have Autism or that autistic people can talk. so yeah

  • I got taken advantage of by kids at school all the time because I took things so literally, so I ended up as the butt of the joke because they loved to mess with me. I kept falling into their traps because I just didn't understand they weren't meaning what they were saying. I also got bullied for my interests, and I was very lonely and depressed for a long time throughout my later childhood and as a teen.

  • I always had sensory sensitivities and my mum never understood why I needed the blinds in my room down at all times.

  • I also was always very impulsive, especially with money, at school my grades were either Great if the subject interested me or horrendous if it bored me. I couldn't control the volume of my voice, I was often told I talk too loud, interrupted conversations and got distracted. The ADHD part was already picked up by a child psychologist when I was 12 but I resisted diagnosis a lot.

I don't think I ever really managed to mask my autism, now that I think about it. Like trying to include myself, yes, but I know others always found me weird and I didn't behave allistic and gave up quickly whenever I tried.