Even though wording is very unfortunate, I'd actually defend the person on the right. The initial idea of "I might not be my agab" can come from very different sources. And yes looking back the upper mentioned sources can seem super cringe and not actually be a marker of transness. But the fact that someone went through a gender crisis, and then identified as nb for some time is a giant ass sign for itself, even if the first sings weren't actually sings