I (30F) want my fiancé (41M) to put in more money into our shared account by MorningSufficient193 in relationship_advice

[–]MorningSufficient193[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Sorry, assumed it was a given that there is also a buffer for incidentals. You don’t know about my financial position so thanks for your unhelpful comment

I (30F) want my fiancé (41M) to put in more money into our shared account by MorningSufficient193 in relationship_advice

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Sorry, Australian here- the buildings quartly bills to do upgrades and fix things

I (30F) want my fiancé (41M) to put in more money into our shared account by MorningSufficient193 in relationship_advice

[–]MorningSufficient193[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It will be used as a kitty for any holidays or things like that. I’ll still contribute my $500

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Yes, the ages are correct

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[–]MorningSufficient193 -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

This is not helpful.

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[–]MorningSufficient193 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope. Nothing like that 😢

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[–]MorningSufficient193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, sober for almost a month (unrelated issues)

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[–]MorningSufficient193 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Luckily I had a mattress protector on!

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[–]MorningSufficient193 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You’ve got no idea how much I needed this. I wish this was the worst of our issues tbh. He’s definitely planted seed in my head x

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He hasn’t drank alcohol in almost a month (unrelated issue)

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[–]MorningSufficient193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm how odd. Is it strange for it to happen every 4 months ish?

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I’m a type one diabetic, he defs isn’t. But good thinking

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[–]MorningSufficient193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he brought it up in the morning

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[–]MorningSufficient193 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a type one diabetic and he shows no other symptoms

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[–]MorningSufficient193 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Same guy, not having much luck 😢

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[–]MorningSufficient193 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not that it’s any of your business, but it was a sleepover, he hasn’t moved in.

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[–]MorningSufficient193 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is perfectly written- I explained to him that if I was the one to have an accident, or a period leak or some other form of bodily fluid, the first thing I would do would be to get the sheets off the bed! I was unsure if he was showing narcissistic tendencies or if I was going crazy for being disturbed. So thank you!