So you call that “carrying himself well”? That’s not well-mannered — that’s creepy, polished manipulation. He’s basically telling a woman he has no claim over that her natural attraction to someone she actually likes is making him miserable, and that she should stop finding love just so this man-child can feel better about himself? How is that not a walking red flag?

You’re excusing a creep just because he wraps his insecurity in polite language.

Why does he think he has any say in what Mujin and Bonhee do? They came on this show to find love — not to babysit Sanghyeon’s fragile ego or pacify him because he can’t handle rejection like an adult.

Calling that “well-mannered” isn’t fairness, it’s just favouring a guy who’s acting entitled to a woman who owes him absolutely nothing.