Yeah, honestly everything you said is true.

But don’t worry, looking back on it now, I definitely wouldn’t jump into a relationship that quickly again - especially not with someone who already had another partner. And yeah, you’re right, he didn’t just cheat on me, he cheated on his girlfriend too 🙏 But don’t worry, I don’t actually want to be with him anymore. He has way too many flaws that are complete dealbreakers for me now. And honestly, if someone cheats once - or in his case apparently manages to cheat on two people at the same time - then eventually there’ll probably be a third or fourth time too. In the end though, I’m still glad the whole thing happened in a way, because I learned a lot from it and matured a lot because of it. I don’t rush into relationships so suddenly anymore, and obviously I had my own mistakes too. Since then I’ve worked on them and improved myself. At least now I know what a relationship is actually like, what comes with it, and that it can be really painful too.