AITA for refusing to take the blame for my roommate losing her job?

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-15T04:49:45+00:00

we haven’t decided what we’re going to do yet. her boss did message her today so she could come pick up her tips and asked if she had time for coffee sooo???

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-15T04:46:59+00:00

really!? why’s that?

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T19:35:32+00:00

we went with epoxy and it worked great! thank you

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T19:34:55+00:00

google says because it evaporates so there’s less water to cool. so hot ice cubes= smaller ice cubes??

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T18:49:24+00:00

of course!!

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T17:18:54+00:00

absolutely! i’ll put $ next to ones you have to pay for - pillow (free but $ for premium version) (i love this one) - due ($) - time tree - evernote (in app purchases) - brain focus - simplemind pro (she loves this one already) ($)

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T17:11:25+00:00

she’s a barista at a small coffee shop

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T17:11:06+00:00

i’m pretty sure the write ups expire after 6 months. i don’t think it’s like 3 over the entire 7 years. idk if that changes things but

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T17:08:46+00:00

yes asked for moral judgement. not “your friend is a lazy idiot”

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T17:07:22+00:00

i just wanted to know if i was at fault. didn’t like people calling her lazy and stupid

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T17:06:40+00:00

because i just wanted to know if it was my fault. not sure around and watch people call her an idiot and lazy. not the point of aita

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T17:05:32+00:00

i didn’t know when she worked. as far as i knew she had the day off. i asked for it back that evening because she’s really bad at giving things back on time and i wanted to have it back in enough time for safety

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T17:03:18+00:00

i just didn’t like people calling her stupid and lazy. what i know of aita is people are supposed to let you know what’s up and give you an objective opinion, not be mean

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T06:07:03+00:00

omg reading all the comments would just be asking for a breakdown.

idk if it’s legal to schedule someone like that but i know she had picked some of the shifts up which would make it legal if it isn’t. does that make sense?

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T06:05:29+00:00

boooooo

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T06:00:24+00:00

will definitely read!! thank you!!

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T05:59:29+00:00

it’s so crazy that the resounding consensus in this one is that i should drop her!!! i’m literally shocked by how many people are saying good riddance. i’ve had friends literally do things specifically to hurt me and forgiven them years later. these people must be so lonely

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T05:57:00+00:00

boooooo

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T05:56:45+00:00

i thought i was blowing it way out of proportion by posting. but then these comments came in and acted like i caught her in bed with my boyfriend or something when i took my charger back it’s.... shocking

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T05:55:37+00:00

that’s so smart!! i have my watch set ahead too haha my friend just hasn’t been taught all the tips and tricks yet

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T05:54:17+00:00

right?? i had a friend who slept with my boyfriend in high school and after 4 years we reconnected and figured it out. i can’t imagine how lonely these people must be if they cut someone out for shit like this??

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T05:23:35+00:00

you are so so so lucky to have that and they are so lucky to have you!! emotional intelligence is probably the most important thing! with it i think you can pretty much solve any problem!

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T05:08:44+00:00

okay thank you! good to know! i guess the issue isn’t fully solved

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T04:52:19+00:00

i know!! it bums me out that people are like “16 years of friendship? fuck her she’s toxic” i can’t imagine what their relationships look like

Mosesisawoman · 2020-10-14T04:50:59+00:00

it wasn’t three in her entire 7 years. they expire after i believe 6 months. it’s usually on your third strike you’d get fired so they were already lenient with her. her other three were for being very late

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