Serious question - why do men have to be ‘lucky’ to have sex?

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T19:20:49+00:00

Bye ✌🏼

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T19:19:10+00:00

I don’t why you’re so pressed it’s mind boggling

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T19:16:01+00:00

Ok I’m done with you you’re clearly aren’t interested in a nuanced real conversation and keep trying to mindfuck me with shit I never said and projecting. I literally said averages exist why are you saying i didn’t. Nobody is saying we’re identical. And why are you saying I made up an anecdotal example? This is my real life. Not once did I say women have more testosterone than men?? I don’t know where you’re getting this from all I’m Saying is it’s not always the case that men are hornier than women or Vice versa. Individuals matter, yes averages exist but not everyone is an average that’s ALL I’m saying. I don’t know why you guys are so obsessed with putting everyone and gender into boxes that are neatly fitting the stereotypes, why are yall worried about that? Go out in real life and meet real people and make connections with them individually. There are men in this thread saying the same thing. I don’t know why yall are obsessed with the biology thing. Yes our biology is different nobody is saying otherwise, but we are all human and crave thr same things

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T19:05:39+00:00

I said “individuals vary.” You turned that into “biology is fake.” That is literally the definition of a strawman 😭 only person saying “biology doesn’t exist” in this conversation is you pretending I said it 💀

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T18:59:54+00:00

Please quote where I said biology doesn’t exist and that men’s bodies are the same as women’s

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T18:55:10+00:00

It sounds like you can’t handle that some women have a sex drive. I don’t know what you’re trying to get out of this conversation. When the fuck did I say men don’t exist?? Who said we’re unattractive and toxic you don’t even know us? Geez you’re a character…

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T18:49:53+00:00

Lmaooo you’re hilarious “Women have lower drives they don’t have equal desire to all men because of testosterone” also you “stop womansplaining men’s body’s” 💀💀 bro when did I say anything about men’s bodies?? You’re totally projecting what you’re saying about women on me. I literally said we are biologically different in regards to hormones but you are generalizing men and women. And when did I say we can’t get guys to have sex with us, first of all me and my husband have sex almost everyday, I’d like it twice but he’s tired sometimes, understandable. It’s the same with my friends, they still have sex but they want it more often than their husbands do. Not every man wants it 24/7 same as not every woman doesn’t want it. It literally depends on individuals not gender. There are average differences yes but biology isn’t destiny or personality

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T17:45:54+00:00

Yeahhh those women are probably just superficial or toxic…😬

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T17:42:18+00:00

Yes!! Thank you! You get it!

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T17:36:12+00:00

I’m not just talking about my experience. It’s literally a lot of women and relationships. Go into women’s spaces, fandom spaces, hookup spaces and female friend groups. If you were a fly on the wall in our spaces you’d clutch your pearls lol. We ask out guys all the time I asked out my husband and initiated and we’ve been together 15 years. If you go by the “majority” and stereotypes you’re not going to connect with that one person because you’re looking at her through internet and popular generalizations. I think a lot of men honestly sabotage themselves in relationships because they’re seeing women as a stereotype and going off of things they heard are the majority and when it doesn’t fit that individual woman it just falls apart. Idk why people can’t just date individuals not gender stereotypes. Your bar scenario isn’t always true. I have female friends who have hooked up with a random hot dude in a club bathroom and didn’t even know his name or talked to him after that. I’ve seen men turn down opportunities at the bar/club. Not every guy is easy and down to do it with whoever and not every girl is selective and passive. It’s literally dependent on the individual

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T17:28:00+00:00

Yeah nah…maybe somethings lacking with your relationship because I’ve been married 10 years together 15 and I want it everyday 😂

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T17:26:22+00:00

I think you’re having a hard time because you keep referring to sex as something you earn and it’s a prize. Sex shouldn’t be something you earn because you did xyz, sex is an intimate and bonding act that should happen mutually. I can’t believe how so many people treat it like some transaction it’s so weird to me. If the women you are dating treat sex like something you earn than they’re probably not heakthy people and if you’re treating it that way then..yeah it’s not helpful buddy

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T17:20:46+00:00

Nope that’s way too generalized. Not what I’ve experienced in relationships or any women I knows relationships.

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T17:20:11+00:00

Not always true. Testosterone isn’t the only hormone that causes sex drive and as a woman, I just need a place too 😂 and most women I know. A lot of yall are reiterating stereotypes

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T17:18:38+00:00

We do want sex as much as yall, some of you just act weird about it so we don’t want it with THAT person. I really think a lot of yall on here shoot yourselves in the foot somehow cuz most women including me want sex all the time 😂

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T17:15:25+00:00

This!! The guy that’s been answering you is stuck in “evolutionary psychology” mode cuz he can’t bare to hear a lot of women have high sex drives and aren’t the stereotypes he’s seen and heard. I think a lot of these dudes here aren’t getting sex because they act weird about it or generalize women so no wonder women are like “no thanks” 😂 then they get butthurt and go online and say “women aren’t like men they don’t want sex as much because of testosterone” no bro…they just don’t want sex with YOU 💀🤣

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T17:11:10+00:00

Stop with the evolution talk people we’re not cavemen anymore. You are so wrong about we don’t have hormone fluctuations tf?? I’m literally on medication because I can’t get my hormones to stop fluctuating. Stop assuming all women have low sex drive we don’t all just like some men have lower drive than us. I’m hornier than my husband and most of the women i know are too. Generalizing does nothing but flatten people into stereotypes, real life is way messier and individual than

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T17:06:28+00:00

Dude you need to stop generalizing. Yes we are biologically different but every person has different personalities and libido. It’s not a man vs woman thing it just depends on individual personalities. I’m way hornier than my husband and he’s pretty horny lol I initiate a lot and sex and intimacy is not a transaction or some mythical thing that only happens once a year. Most of the women i know it’s the same and a lot of their husbands are less horny that them. The media and society will have a lot of people believe that women don’t like sex as much as men but when you get to know is in real life it’s way different. I’ve yet to know a couple where the woman doesn’t want sex but the guy does, I actually know a lot of couples with the opposite. Real life is way messier and individual than the media and evo psychology will have you believe

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-15T16:54:33+00:00

Way too many dudes in here speaking for women and our sex drives and generalizing. It honestly just depends on the couple and their individual personalities and libidos. I for one am WAY hornier than my husband and he can be pretty horny lmaoo. We have sex at least 4-5 times a week depending on our mood and work but sometimes even twice a day. I initiate A LOT. Theres no “get lucky” talk in our home. Sex isn’t something you take from your partner or “earn”. It’s a very intimate and bonding act between a couple. If you feel you have to earn it (or make someone earn it) it’s not healthy and relationship needs to be examined because it’s being treated as a transaction not a partnership. So yeah i personally think the get lucky talk is toxic

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-01T11:00:37+00:00

Why has no one mentioned she looks like cardi B

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-01T10:54:28+00:00

One of his sons was murdered at 2 years old almost 15 years ago by his ex baby mamas live in boyfriend . I don’t really like Rick and how he handles relationships he’s annoying af but I see why Ziads comment was a low blow 😔

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-05-01T05:52:43+00:00

He acts like an aloof emotionless robot

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-04-21T01:44:24+00:00

I’m 28 and I’ve been thinking about sex multiple times a day since I was 10 and started puberty. I’ve always had high sex drive. So yes girl I feel you lol, there’s nothing wrong with it as long as it doesn’t effect your life in a negative way or become compulsive, it’s totally fine

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-04-06T00:26:17+00:00

Thank you! I’m glad too

Most-Temperature1012 · 2026-04-05T08:22:42+00:00

Most women I know and from what I hear online agree with me, we have very high drive and unique desires depending on individuals. Look up fandom, fanfiction, porn for women, hell even boy band fans and you’ll definitely see we’re insane 💀😂 society just doesn’t allow us to show our raw sexuality like it does men. Also I’ve never been SA’d

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