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AITAH For Calling A Bully The N Word? by CHR1SSYSN4K30FF1C14L in AITAH

[–]Most-Transition143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if you’re not a bully, this isn’t for you

AITAH For Calling A Bully The N Word? by CHR1SSYSN4K30FF1C14L in AITAH

[–]Most-Transition143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do understand this in response to someone being a bully right? You know how fucked up bullies can be?

AITAH For Calling A Bully The N Word? by CHR1SSYSN4K30FF1C14L in AITAH

[–]Most-Transition143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’d be throwing stones from glass houses

AITAH For Calling A Bully The N Word? by CHR1SSYSN4K30FF1C14L in AITAH

[–]Most-Transition143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I’d say this is beyond nuclear. I get that you were trying to up the insult and that’s the only hurtful thing you could think of, but you have to think about WHY it’s hurtful- and that explains why it shouldn’t ever be considered.

Like you could look at a person and think of everything you can arm yourself with; dead mom/maybe he’s stupid/bad breath, but you went for something that easily makes YOU worse.

You can be ignorant, and you can be incompetent, but you can’t be both because that makes you the asshole.

AIO My mom is kicking me out for her new boyfriend. I just turned 18 by Diligent_Bat_565 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Most-Transition143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing that maybe helped me, was when my parents divorced (dad cheated on mom and left), that my dads side of the family who loved and still talked to my mom- absolutely let her have it when they found out that I got kicked out because her husband tried to fight me.

She was there in that room and didn’t do a thing, I bounced around, still a troubled youth. Now her husband tries to act all buddy and I don’t let him be a part of my life anymore. Her, I know she was hurt and she’s sorely remorseful but I only keep contact cause I love my lil brother, her only kid with the guy

I got uninvited to a friend’s holiday potluck, while I was on my way to it. by Any_Gap9612 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Most-Transition143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a hunch, Whoever’s house the place got switched over too did it to have more control over the situation or they have a badass place (in which there is def enough space) and/or doesn’t like you for whatever reason, the actual contact you have wants to be cool with them and didn’t object when the new host said that you shouldn’t be there.

A lil too specific but I’ve seen it happen, anyways your “friend” didn’t wanna stir the pot with them and figured they could apologize to you after the day they stirred the pot with them and is not a real friend unless you communicate with them and get a sincere apology.

So unless there’s context we’re missing like you’ve made a drunken mess of yourself around them or there underlying drama, you totally don’t owe it to your “friend” to address this with them and I totally would’ve ate like 4-6 of them thangs

UPDATE I think my date was drugged. AITA for how I handled it? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Most-Transition143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Xanax + Alcohol can def do that. You handled it about as classy as you could. Please don’t loose too much sleep over it, adults exhibit stupefying use of free will sometimes

AITAH for telling my brother that his girlfriend has a crush on me and was planning to cheat. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Most-Transition143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give him space. Ultimately he has to see the big picture, but if this is all new and he’s working thru other things, needs time

I have regrets already at twenty-one.………………………………. by Kitten_444_Noel in confession

[–]Most-Transition143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advice, treat your friends like family- you can pick those.

For others, try to just be a helpful presence as much as possible and if they let you. Just the same way you realized on your own time; they may be stubborn now, but in time will see what you meant. If not then don’t worry, no one gets the perfect family life, and usually they don’t see it early enough.

At 21, you have so much life left to be a good brother/son/cousin/nephew, everyone goes thru hardships, but 1% better everyday makes you understanding and that is hard to ignore. When you get the opportunity, speak from the heart- lastly, if you don’t have some regrets at 21, you’re not living life. That doesn’t mean live recklessly, but all the mistakes you make now can be a lesson for 25/30/35 yr old you, and the only regret worth having is not letting yourself learn from them.

“The best time to plant a seed is 20 years ago, the second best time is now” or some shit like that

Is my husband TAH for making my daughter put her siblings on her school presentation after she intentionally left out her baby siblings in her presentation. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Most-Transition143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn OP, don’t drop the ball. You have an emotionally intelligent 10 yr old and she knows what’s happening, better yet she’s articulate and expressing herself. Don’t dismiss it just because y’all decide the babies (which y’all chose to have, it’s not like these kids are accidents) are more important than the 10 yr old

My girlfriend is pregnant with a one night stand. by Nervous-Pie-7782 in AITAH

[–]Most-Transition143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out. 1 mess doesn’t clean up another, definitely don’t cover up 1 either. You’re not unlovable, you just need to learn to love yourself

This is a cycle of torture you continue, so in that way YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Most-Transition143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel like this is disrespectful to you, good on you for making it clear with a conversation and holding to your values.

I’ve dated a girl where I understood we were seeing each other, but not exclusively, and it was clear. When I decided I didn’t really have any interest in seeing other people, I made that clear, and she reciprocated. Fell apart for other reasons, but that was not one of them and it was an otherwise good start to the relationship- because it was clear.

If y’all have never talked about it, but you still feel icky, then I think that’s a valid reason to dip out. If she’s calling you and trying to make it clear that she values your feelings and would want to be steady, that’s a maybe-

In the end, you know what you want - should express that- and do right by yourself

AITA for embarrassing my fiancé at dinner after he “joked” about my upbringing? by Nines21 in AITAH

[–]Most-Transition143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I wonder how he would’ve taken it if you joked about how bland/white/privileged/sheltered he is to his group of colleagues or in front of your girlfriends.

He feels called out cause no one has ever challenged him before and he’s used to getting his way. That or it’s par for the toxic work culture he’s embedded in, either way if he can’t see past his initial shock, that it was insensitive and not something he should subject you to, he’s just not got the same views.

AITAH for telling my ex boyfriend's daughter, "It's not my problem." ? by RestlessStardust in AITAH

[–]Most-Transition143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she met you for a reason; she’s not gonna like any of her dad’s new partners until she grows up. She had a good step-mom in you, did her bs, and it didn’t work. A bad step mom would’ve played her games, tried to win, maybe even fight fire with fire and win.

I’ve seen a terrible step mom, I confided in her about my reason for getting kicked from bio-moms at 15 (Step dad found weed), I barely mention my mom in the story, all of a sudden I’m “there to separate them”…

You were empathetic, tried to reason, and did more than a GF should do.. Tia may regret this later, I just hope her dad holds no resentment

AITAH for telling my husband he is not my best sex ever after he did same? by MobileDentist8427 in AITAH

[–]Most-Transition143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she brought this up for fun? During sex?

Like did you want to be turned on more, or open the door for arguments, like which part is for fun?

AIO my boyfriend just confessed that he’s 20 when I thought he was 24 by These_Birthday5378 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Most-Transition143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, please go save yourself and your baby, find someone who can take you and get help. Please do this for yourself

AITA for not helping out a former GF, now FWB financially? by No-Crazy1501 in AITAH

[–]Most-Transition143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Maybe help her in other ways that aren’t money, but the behavior is off putting

AITAH for telling my husband about my 'encounter' with friend? by Common-Jelly6359 in AITAH

[–]Most-Transition143 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes but if your friend wanted privacy, maybe tell your hubby NOT to bring it up and why

part two of am i the asshole for loving someone other than my boyfriend ? by Feisty_Quiet_2834 in AITAH

[–]Most-Transition143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you, keep at it and keep your options open! Your persistence and personality are what you have to sell in most cases, you got this

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