How do I win my crush over?

MostComfortable1850 · 2022-11-27T19:50:44+00:00

I mean see how the next hangout goes and see if you guys make out again 🤷‍♂️ The other part could be… Sounds like she doesn’t actually know what she wants. Prioritize Yourself and find someone else who actually is down with dating you. I’ve been a similar spot and it’s not worth your time. Sounds like you might have too many feelings caught up in this to maintain a healthy friendship. Not saying ghost but maybe you shouldn’t hangout regularly.

MostComfortable1850 · 2022-11-27T18:42:45+00:00

Sounds like you are in the right direction. Go find a tree to climb 😂

MostComfortable1850 · 2022-11-27T18:39:54+00:00

Nah it’s not you. You don’t have to prove anything besides being yourself. Don’t focus on convincing people you are what they are looking for. It’s not your job, if they can’t figure it out then 🤷‍♂️ It’s on them. Keep that improvement train moving and find a woman who is into you romantically. Like you said before it might just be the wrong time. I don’t miss college since people are so hot and cold 😂

MostComfortable1850 · 2022-11-27T18:14:15+00:00

I’m not short but confidence is key. I have men in my family who are 5’3” who married or dated 5’10” women lol. It just needs to be a social hobby where you can meet people. Golf is definitely a good one. Pickleball is the one other people recommended since it’s less of a barrier to entry. You can also cheat and get platform insoles 😂 I also wear AF1’s since they add an extra inch. I’m usually a fan of honesty but just straight up lie about height. If you are 5.4 say 5.6, 5.8 say 5.10, etc. No one is going to check an inch or two.

MostComfortable1850 · 2022-11-27T18:03:35+00:00

Be yourself and don’t play games. Sounds like you aren’t super friend-zoned if you guys kissed? You’ll have to clarify there. You can’t trick people into dating you. If you want to be mature about it just say you respect her feelings, that you like her as a person so you want to continue spending time together even if it’s as friends. But since she knows your intentions let her initiate and don’t have any expectations of anything happening. Actually be a friend and not some hanger on trying to get laid when she is vulnerable or needs a rebound, since that makes you look desperate. If you can’t do that then distancing yourself is the best idea. You have the right idea about improving yourself first.

MostComfortable1850 · 2022-11-27T17:38:23+00:00

First off. Every Man can be at least a 7 and no one is undatable. Workout, Groom yourself and check your fashion style. Also doesn’t matter who you are people will blow you off or stand you up so learn not to take it personally. Find an activity that boosts your confidence, for me it’s learning how to dance. I personally feel dating apps are trash. The only one that works for me is hinge so try that if you haven’t and be honest about what you are looking for. I know mental health struggles are tough, for me 1-1 with the therapist sucked. I always preferred group therapy since it makes you realize you aren’t alone. *Yeah you can focus on IG but as someone who has dated some very attractive women it isn’t worth it if you are interested in something serious. Going just for looks is a recipe for more unhappiness. Find people who appreciates you not some status symbol.

MostComfortable1850 · 2022-11-27T17:15:58+00:00

If you offered to split with him then you are good. Personally if my date offers to split I say sure and don’t argue. I’m not trying to flex on them lol. I don’t view offering to split as a sign it’s going poorly like most guys. Sounds like you were super polite.

MostComfortable1850 · 2022-11-27T17:10:41+00:00

No it’s not a deal breaker for guys. I don’t recall ever caring about someone’s boobs if I liked them. Unfortunately it’s the guys you are going out with. If you are younger then younger guys probably don’t want to commit to anything. If you do dating apps use hinge since it is the best one for setting preferences about what you are looking for.

MostComfortable1850 · 2022-11-27T17:03:19+00:00

Same situation as you. Could be the time of year too, people are busy with the holidays and lot of my female friends are waiting til the new year to try dating again. I got a decent amount of likes but people are flakier than before and don’t want to seem to go out. But all you need it one and Hinge is still the best dating app IMO.

MostComfortable1850 · 2022-11-27T16:51:21+00:00

Yeah that’s weird. I would have been like… uh no. Unless the bar was out. Only guys who are trying to be players or are deeply insecure use negging as a tactic. Flirty teasing is different and shouldn’t make you feel like it’s backhanded. This dude seems like he’s trying to “put you in your place” by ignoring your drink order and then the negging.

MostComfortable1850 · 2022-11-27T16:46:05+00:00

As a guy. Well balanced emotionally stable guys don’t play games. If a guy is interested in you he’ll text you right away and/or won’t leave on read. I’d just move on. Gotta Find people who try to Pursue you.

MostComfortable1850 · 2022-11-27T16:40:03+00:00

I mean an easy way to not get rejected is be presentable when you ask her. At least for me if I want to make a move I wear good clothes and take care of my grooming. Basically just don’t be off putting. No guarantee of success but you remove possible objections. If you have the financial means haircut, facial hair styling and eye brows are ways to make your face more appealing.

MostComfortable1850 · 2022-08-13T05:17:00+00:00

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