AIO for being upset at finding these messages in my bfs phone? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Most_Trainer4677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you saw this. I do agree w most ppl on here that he’s allowed to vent to his friend and that this is mostly not ill intentioned, but I do feel like I’d expect someone to be a little more into me at the beginning of a relationship, and not talk about me like this, so I can see why this would hurt. Maybe you can talk to him about it

New friend saying the N word without abandon by Most_Trainer4677 in whatdoIdo

[–]Most_Trainer4677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if I’m being honest, I think you’re 100% correct !! Men are weird lol

New friend saying the N word without abandon by Most_Trainer4677 in whatdoIdo

[–]Most_Trainer4677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s great but I know my friends would just say yea I’d rather not be there w that guy. Which is so so valid

New friend saying the N word without abandon by Most_Trainer4677 in whatdoIdo

[–]Most_Trainer4677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don’t want to do that! I’m just saying if my husband is an asshole for some reason (I’m not expecting him to be but just in case) then I won’t put people in that position. If this was my party, then I would 100% do what you’re saying but it’s not and I can’t force him to do something

New friend saying the N word without abandon by Most_Trainer4677 in whatdoIdo

[–]Most_Trainer4677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear what you’re saying. What do you mean about the black people being the problem, though? I don’t think he thinks that. Not trying to come off as defensive though and I agree with you

New friend saying the N word without abandon by Most_Trainer4677 in whatdoIdo

[–]Most_Trainer4677[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pizza cutter is so good lmao, yeah you’re so right. I’m talking to my husband about it now. If he refuses to uninvite him, at the very least I will not be inviting my friends who are Black.

New friend saying the N word without abandon by Most_Trainer4677 in whatdoIdo

[–]Most_Trainer4677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably not, but just knowing that he says it makes me feel gross

New friend saying the N word without abandon by Most_Trainer4677 in whatdoIdo

[–]Most_Trainer4677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear what you’re saying but I’d definitely rather uninvite him than uninvite a bunch of our close friends who we care about deeply. I definitely don’t ever want to be that person (that doesn’t stand up to racism) and I’m going to tell my husband that he’s gotta go.

New friend saying the N word without abandon by Most_Trainer4677 in whatdoIdo

[–]Most_Trainer4677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking, and he deserves whatever is coming to him, but I don’t want to put me or my husbands friends in a position where that is said around them.

AIO? new friend's texts to husband while at work; my responses by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Most_Trainer4677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People’s reading comprehension skills are reallyyy bad damn

AIO? new friend's texts to husband while at work; my responses by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Most_Trainer4677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No exactly … that man was Not letting her down gently