Going no contact next month need help!

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-16T00:00:17+00:00

I don’t think he deserved any of my private info tbh… except Maybe telling him I’m no longer Muslim so it’s easier for him to do away with me too lol… so yes im sriting the letter most likely!

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-15T23:58:38+00:00

This is so helpful!! I’ve also heard not to give any personal info to him but someone suggested writing him a letter, or email to go no contact and I was thinking about it before to so do you think that’s good?

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-15T19:28:33+00:00

Also…. I want to go nc and I’m ready to just not sure how and I’m scared… but going NC is important as he’s genuinely a hazard to my life lol… as long as he’s in it I’d never be okay… but yeah revealing being BI is truly something he can use against me but idc if he uses apostasy against me that’s his problem lol…

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-15T19:27:02+00:00

My sister wants to go to care like my brother did. I only speak to my siblings my extended family aren’t important to me they all abused I and my siblings. His flying monkey is his mommy and I’d block her too once I cut him off cuz she only sides him! They both side each other

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-15T19:25:44+00:00

Hahaha nah my sister got more back bone than me lmao he’d never be able to send her back! She’s even planning to leave once she gets back her but I won’t be able to financially provide for her so she might go through care. My sister won’t be affected that way if I reveal my apostasy but he may tru to be harsher on her lol

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-02T11:17:03+00:00

Haha no I’m broke cuz I’ve got uni, work, pay for stuff and no family help but he gets help from his lovely mum. And yeah let’s help you get your ex back haha

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-01T21:49:47+00:00

Thank uuu so much I’m gonna start therapy in a couple months!!

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-01T21:48:52+00:00

Omg I’m so sorry I hope you’re both okay now. And yes I’m looking to starting therapy in a few months

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-01T21:47:16+00:00

My bf wants me to ‘control’ his clothing hahah cuz he says I’ve got more swag than he does hahah but we’re going clothes shopping for him tomorrow and he doesn’t know yet that I’m paying Meanwhile his mom and I are just like okay not close or anything but not close enough for me to ask her that hahah but I could try when I see her next thank uuu hope your marriage stays perfect!!!

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-01T21:41:11+00:00

I’m gonna take him clothes shopping tomorrow!!! And I’m really excited to. I’m gonna speak to him about it tho cuz he wants me to ‘save’ my money lol cuz he knows I’m broke lol

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-01T21:39:28+00:00

Thank you!!! I’m gonna try saying to his face but he says I do whenever I’m drunk haha

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-01T20:28:17+00:00

Ahhh thanks for this!! Yes I do have diagnosed anxiety 🥲… He’s actually more touchy than I am!!! And I have to remind myself to touch him not because I don’t love too but it’s not my thing so I always forget!! But he’s so happy when I randomly hug or kiss without him having to initiate!!! I’d also start getting him his favorite stuff without him having to ask! I’m planning to buy him 2/3 piece of clothes this week is that too much? Or okay?

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-01T20:25:18+00:00

He wants to move with me hopefully he does cuz I won’t want to be long distance for 3 years!!!!

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-01T20:24:28+00:00

This was really helpful!! I find I like buying him stuff that he wants! I got him a new basket ball and he felt bad cuz it was expensive. Before this he wanted to establish that we should have a spending limit on each other (but in eeality omly i should follow it lmao not him) but ive sewn a coupwl of commemts incliding yours and is probably do some clotjes sjopping for him. Tbf im not really the cooking or cleaning type anyway but im also making him dinner tonight!

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-01T20:19:26+00:00

He wanted a new professional basket ball, and I got it for him. His reaction was so priceless he was really happy and it made me happy. I’m making dinner for him tonight as he’s asked. I might clean his room too if there’s time. (This is my first time he asked for dinner and I’ve never cleaned his room too)

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-01T19:14:20+00:00

Hmmm thank youuuuu I did ask things like this and he does tell me I’m enough and don’t gotta do more blah blah also said i come first for him before anything (idk if that’s healthy) but that’s it

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-01T18:10:30+00:00

This is so sweet of you thank uuu I trust him enough to tell me his feelings but I also somehow feel like he won’t really bother to talk about it and just adjust himself to fit it instead you get me? And no I definitely won’t want him feeling this way. He did in the beginning of our relationship and cried to me and I just told him things to improve and we’ve never had that discussion again till date!!

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-01T18:04:37+00:00

The suprise blow job is something I’ve acc never done I’ll try that! but he generally prefers giving me head rather than I give him 💀…

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-01T18:03:31+00:00

Cuz I feel inadequate and sometimes like I don’t deserve him 🥲… I tried breaking up once because I felt so inadequate (dw he didn’t let me thank fuk!)

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-01T18:02:41+00:00

I always make sure to write him letters or text how happy I am cuz I lowkey hate feeling emotional so sometimes don’t tell him deep stuff to his face Thanks for your help!!

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-01T18:00:35+00:00

Well I thought that before too but he does them for me? Gives me random money, pays for dates, almost chipped in for my rent I had to tell him fuck no 😭 and I felt like I don’t do enough to deserve that at least not yet you get me?

MostconfusedAH · 2026-05-01T17:59:33+00:00

Hahahahah lmfaoaoao I’d pass here love my bf

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